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Yorkie69
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Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 105
Registered: 08-2010
Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 - 05:20 am:   Edit Post

Am I the only male spankee around here? And what's more, am I the only male spankee who doesn't get punishment spankings but rather enjoys spankings purely for erotic purposes?
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 146
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 - 07:45 am:   Edit Post

Oh, there are plenty of us. Some may not acknowledge it, but there are plenty of us. Erotic, punishment, the works.
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Yorkie69
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Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 106
Registered: 08-2010
Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 - 08:20 pm:   Edit Post

Oh good! So, tell me do you have the same battle with cravings when playtime just doesn't happen for various reasons? I'm climbing the walls here. We (My wife and I) have certain strategies in place but now we are both sick with the flu. Sigh...
I even suggested she pick me up from work next time I'm on late shift (I'll be alone) and she should bring a hairbrush with her. She agreed. I fainted...
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 147
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 - 09:09 pm:   Edit Post

You have a partner, so playtime may be elusive, but it is occasionally attainable. Without a partner, which is my current status, it's always downtime.

Your wife sounds like a fine woman.
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Yorkie69
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Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 108
Registered: 08-2010
Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 09:21 am:   Edit Post

Oh she is Warmpalm. She is. My best friend. After confessing my spanking desires I'm no longer hesitant about telling her anything.I hope you find someone like that. And soon.
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 148
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 10:42 am:   Edit Post

Thanks, Yorkie69. I can't imagine being married to somebody I couldn't reveal everything to, but I gather there are plenty of marriages in which that prevails. But you have to have perfect trust.

Several years ago, a famous actress, now in her nineties, wrote an autobiography. In the book, she talked about an ex-husband who revealed to her, during their marriage, that he liked cross-dressing. Even by her account, he sounded like a very decent guy who always treated her with loving respect. Yet she felt the need to out him in this book, in a tone that wasn't too short of contempt, just to have something salacious to tell to sell copies. The reviewers were tough with her about this, as they should have been. That the man was long dead doesn't excuse her having betrayed a confidence.

My point is: if people are shy about showing their true inner selves, there are sometimes good reasons. But I have been able to confide in the partners I've had and only once did it blow up in my face. That once was enough to inflict scars. Not deep scars, but scratches. They hurt.

If your wife is your best friend you are obviously on the right track.
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Yorkie69
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Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 111
Registered: 08-2010
Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 09:29 pm:   Edit Post

Thanks Warmpalm. You know, she thinks I'm crazy for being crazy about her. I miss terribly when she's knot around. Maybe I am crazy but at least we're crazy about each other.
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 151
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Friday, August 19, 2011 - 07:19 am:   Edit Post

Well, somebody once asked the novelist Peter DeVries the secret to having a long and successful marriage (he married only once): he said, in his case, "the toast landed butter-side up".

What he meant of course is that although we're always hearing about how marriage is hard work and requires a lifetime of diligence, the fact is some people are just right for one another, and the reason they're together really comes down to luck.

I was in an inn a couple of weeks ago. At the communal continental breakfast I started chatting with a couple who are about to celebrate their 62nd anniversary. They said they got married TWELVE HOURS after they met. It wasn't an arranged marriage. He was about to ship out for the Navy, they met at a party, and decided to commit right away. Now, their body language suggested they were entirely comfortable with one another. They were sweet people who seemed aware of having been blessed by the purest grace of blind luck.

That sounds like you and your wife.
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Yorkie69
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Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 114
Registered: 08-2010
Posted on Friday, August 19, 2011 - 10:29 am:   Edit Post

Oh it hasn't always been easy. We've had our moments for sure. But we made promises to each other and we've stuck to them. And we wouldn't have it any other way.
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Otkmeru
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Username: Otkmeru

Post Number: 1
Registered: 11-2012
Posted on Sunday, November 25, 2012 - 07:29 pm:   Edit Post

male spankee here - lost my spanker
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Yorkie69
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Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 252
Registered: 08-2010
Posted on Sunday, December 02, 2012 - 05:10 am:   Edit Post

No good Otkmeru, no good. Hope you find another one soon.
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Otkmeru
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Username: Otkmeru

Post Number: 2
Registered: 11-2012
Posted on Sunday, December 02, 2012 - 02:52 pm:   Edit Post

I think I found someone to take my spankers place but they charge for play, I am looking for that real connection as the stranger aspect is not very satisfying.
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Larryk51
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Username: Larryk51

Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2016
Posted on Saturday, June 11, 2016 - 02:02 pm:   Edit Post

I am new here I always thought I was the only guy who occasionally took a bare assed paddling as TOTALLY DESERVED It happens once or twice a yr. I just take it right out of the shower and bend over and hold my shins-- She paddles til her anger and frustration are spent and I have made things right so to speak---Once over no lingering anger or harsh feelings. things are good again Since its only the two of us no cause for embarrassment or any shaming-- It works for us we maybe totally rare
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Smithy
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Username: Smithy

Post Number: 3
Registered: 06-2016
Posted on Sunday, June 19, 2016 - 12:54 pm:   Edit Post

"Am I the only male spankee around here? And what's more, am I the only male spankee who doesn't get punishment spankings but rather enjoys spankings purely for erotic purposes?"

No, not the only one. I really like a good paddling, but I'm not into role playing or punishment fantasies. To each their own, but for me, it's mostly about the sensation, although the fact that my wife does it certainly contributes to the enjoyment. I don't ask for it too often - partly because I'm not always in the mood (although if she wanted to spank me, anytime would be ok), and because it's not her favorite thing. However, when she agrees to do it, she is willing to do it right.

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