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American_girl
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Username: American_girl

Post Number: 1
Registered: 07-2011
Posted on Saturday, July 09, 2011 - 11:22 am:   Edit Post

Do you think spanking should be used to help a partner quit smoking? Or if they quit and start again be spanked for it? Do you think it helps the most of all smoking cessation, anyone tried this before?
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 62
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Saturday, July 09, 2011 - 02:36 pm:   Edit Post

It's probably been tried. But there is a built-in problem. If you like to be spanked, you are in a conflict of interest. If you truly do not, then there's a danger the punishment-for-smoking thing could shade into abuse.

Are you a smoker yourself? Or are you in a relationship with a smoker? Wasn't clear from your post. Or maybe it was hypothetical.
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Zippo
Prime Spanko
Username: Zippo

Post Number: 1783
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Friday, August 12, 2011 - 11:14 pm:   Edit Post

Many use spanking as a form of accountability. Some use it for quitting smoking, weight loss, overspending ect. First off I do not think it should just be imposed unless both parties have agreed that spanking is to be used for accountability should they fail at any time.

I think for it to be successful in any instance, the person must WANT to modify their behavior/habit, not just know they should. If a person does not want to quit/change, I doubt spanking alone will be a sufficient motivator, though everyone is different.

If they do want to change, spanking can serve as a wonderful reminder to help them stay on track and focused.

Just my 2 cents worth.
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3758
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Saturday, August 13, 2011 - 07:49 am:   Edit Post

Okay Brat Tamer, You are absolutely correct. A person needs to want to change in order for discipline to do any good. Accountability does work though.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Zippo
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Username: Zippo

Post Number: 1784
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Wednesday, August 17, 2011 - 08:36 pm:   Edit Post

Why thank you my dear Fanny for your kind endorsement. Yes, accountability can be very effective, though some may need more accounting than others to help prevent relapses
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3761
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Thursday, August 18, 2011 - 01:57 pm:   Edit Post

No-one that I know of....sir.

*Safely said from a couple thousand miles away*
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Zippo
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Username: Zippo

Post Number: 1785
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Monday, August 22, 2011 - 04:21 pm:   Edit Post

A person of your stature and title "Your Majesty", have much to live up to

As such, as the resident queen you will be subject to careful scrutiny
to see what it is you truly deserve
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3763
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Monday, August 22, 2011 - 06:13 pm:   Edit Post

Oh, dear sir......I get everything that I need and then some!
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Zippo
Prime Spanko
Username: Zippo

Post Number: 1787
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Monday, August 22, 2011 - 07:16 pm:   Edit Post

I told you I was watching.





Now "Your Majesty", dont you feel that we have absconded this thread. Perhaps you shouldnt worry about not making history
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3770
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Monday, August 22, 2011 - 07:21 pm:   Edit Post

You are so correct, Mr. Brat Tamer, we need to start a new thread. So, what are you going to do? Travel all that way just to spank me?

You were just such an easy target.


History is in the making, the royal "we" has declared that Fanny shall remain the queen of innocence and my title shall remain in tact.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Yorkie69
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Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 117
Registered: 08-2010
Posted on Tuesday, August 23, 2011 - 07:05 am:   Edit Post

Way to go Fanny! Yay!
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Sally_smart
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Username: Sally_smart

Post Number: 5
Registered: 02-2014
Posted on Friday, February 07, 2014 - 02:40 pm:   Edit Post

I like spankings and I smoke. If it was used as I like it I would probably not really quit but if it was used in a different way as I would not like it might work.
I dont like a seriously hard spanking and am sure I wont ever.
I do want to quit and have tried many ways for many years, its an addiction some of us cant fight, I even got sick from a bad cold to the point it hurt for many days later to smoke and wouldnt ya know I got past that instead of taking it as an opportunity to quit. I am honestly truely addicted and I do smoke too much.
My BF wants me to slow down at least if not quit and he says if I quit he will. Problem is he says it with pure confidence and I am betting he would do ten fold better then I would. He smokes a lot less then I do for sure.
I told him it would be a real challenge for me and he said "thats OK", not sure what he meant by that so his comment kinda makes me think he has a plan,,, eeeak!
I like his For Fun spankings while we are about to have sex and while we are doing it. And even his smacks while we are just going about our day. Those in bed are kinda hard but not that I cant take it, I have even asked for harder but he knows there is a limit too when its for fun so he never pushes it.
If his plan is to give me serious ones for smoking then I am betting I'd quit but I dont know if I wanna go there,,, maybe it would be for my good health.
He is taking me to the Chez Republic for a health issue I already have (nerve damage in my feet due to an auto immune disease caused by a back injury) to see a natural path immunologist in April so he is serious about my health. He says he wants me around till I am at least 80 and misserable so he can have someone to be misserable with, hahaha.
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Ispnkhrd
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Username: Ispnkhrd

Post Number: 7
Registered: 02-2017
Posted on Tuesday, February 14, 2017 - 10:36 am:   Edit Post

My girls all have certain things they want to work on and we use Spanking to help them. None of my girls are allowed to do things that are bad for them so when one girl decided to become a sub under me she knew she had to quit. I spank my girls for whatever they want help working on whether it be losing weight or not snoozing their alarms as many times.
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Johnnie_lee
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Username: Johnnie_lee

Post Number: 1
Registered: 04-2017
Posted on Friday, April 14, 2017 - 04:53 am:   Edit Post

dont know about smoking i helped a partner lose weight by spanking her if she never los 2lb a week it worked

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