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Username: Topbottom

Post Number: 1
Registered: 10-2010
Posted on Wednesday, October 27, 2010 - 01:57 am:   Edit Post

While I have always been the one with the paddle in my hand,
I opened my mouth and suggested to my wife that she could spank me.
Before I could say a word she made it a date for Friday.

She said after she was done with me I could spank her. I have never
been on the bottom! Have never been spanked but based on what I have
given a few bottoms I agreed to 100 swats. 25 Belt, 25 Oak Ruler
( like paint stir stick ), 25 cane, and 25 with an oak school paddle.

My gut feeling is I can take it, but my 2nd thoughts are not so sure.

Have no clue if I will bruise bad or not but most likely will.

Is there a limit a man can take without begging her to stop as I
donít want to do that?

Wow, its different thinking about what is coming rather than
what she will be getting.

I have never spanked her with a cane but have others. A friend gave
me a new cane to try that is ľ inch dowel rod coated in a rubber
making it 3/8 thick. Wonder what it will feel like.

I guess my thoughts are how do you take a punishment spanking like
a man? I really donít want to fight it and I donít want to say stop
itís too much for me. Also it will open the door for her to say stop
sooner than she needs too maybe.

Yes, I want the 100 swats, but how do you deal with the pain in your
head telling you it hurts and wanting to stop?

Ok, maybe taking it like a man is not a good way of putting it
but thatís where I am today.

I'm not new here but listing under a new user name because I can't find my old password.

Ok, spank me for that lie.. I don't want my other bottoms here to know what I'm doing!

(Message edited by TOPBOTTOM on October 27, 2010)
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Username: Rosycheeks

Post Number: 44
Registered: 05-2010
Posted on Wednesday, October 27, 2010 - 03:00 am:   Edit Post

Sounds to me this is long overdue! Speaking from a bottom point of view I think it is only fitting that a top experience what spanking feels like if he/she is going to dish it out-Yup it will hurt-but trust your wife-As for bruising-that depends -you won't know until you try it-100 swats is a good start point. If you do bruise witch hazel helps heal fast. Please let us know how it goes.Don't ya just love the suspense?
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Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie

Post Number: 354
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Wednesday, October 27, 2010 - 07:46 pm:   Edit Post

Love that idea, yes it would be fun to spank my top...let us know who it goes.
my name says it all
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Username: Chuck

Post Number: 29
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Thursday, October 28, 2010 - 09:52 am:   Edit Post

My comment is not to be too worried. A healthy adult male or female should be able to take the 100 as you described. It will hurt but you should be able to shrug it off and be ok. I assume the woman wielding the punishment tools has some experience and is committed to doing a proper job. Be sure to tell her to be hard and consistent and show no mercy. If it becomes too much you will be the one to stop it. If the woman is not experienced be sure she knows to hit butt meat only and not back bone.

Knowing it will be over at 100 strokes makes it easier because you know there is an end point. If you want a different twist, try face down on the bed on three pillows, give your wife the cane/paddle/belt , and tell her it will not be over until she says itís over. You can of course stop it at any time. Donít be surprised if you find yourself pleading for mercy, confessing everything you have done wrong and making promise after promise - anything to keep that awful instrument from being bent across your tail again. Man up!

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