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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3703
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Sunday, February 07, 2010 - 05:16 pm:   Edit Post

I noticed discussion about how much pain some of us can take without crying. In my personal case, I have been through a lot of pain, so I can take a lot of it; and crying has nothing to do with the pain for me.

However, I love a good cry and find it very liberating. For me to cry I have to be with someone I really trust and I have to allow myself to let my guard down. It has nothing to do about how much it hurts, it is all about me being in the right mind space to relinquish to my tears. Afterwards, I feel very calm, usually sleepy and craving some comforting.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Yorkie69
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Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 32
Registered: 01-2010
Posted on Monday, February 08, 2010 - 03:00 am:   Edit Post

I can understand that. :-)
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Rimfire
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Username: Rimfire

Post Number: 19
Registered: 11-2009


Posted on Friday, February 12, 2010 - 02:11 pm:   Edit Post

agreed, to cry is to let out your stress and trust who ever is making you cry,
ive seen some of the spankjing sites where the womens buts were brused beyond belief,that isnt my turnon,its the submission of self not the sadast desire to harm someone!
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Oftenred
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Username: Oftenred

Post Number: 74
Registered: 02-2007
Posted on Monday, February 15, 2010 - 06:47 pm:   Edit Post

I agree that it is more a state of mind than pain. I know that some of my hardest spankings did not result any crying, but other times I cried wildly with a much lighter spanking with my mind in a different place.
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Batfinch
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Username: Batfinch

Post Number: 19
Registered: 04-2006


Posted on Friday, March 05, 2010 - 03:23 am:   Edit Post

Mind you a Gal is more likely to cry than a bloke
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3712
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Sunday, March 07, 2010 - 12:04 am:   Edit Post

I am not sure about that Batfinch.
I think we would be surprised on how many men will let their guard down in private. Crying is a very cleansing activity. Not gender related.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Yorkie69
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Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 48
Registered: 01-2010
Posted on Sunday, March 07, 2010 - 05:24 am:   Edit Post

I have read some good accounts of what it feels like to have that kind of release. I'm not sure that is something I will ever accomplish nor require but my spanking journey has just begun so who knows. I am an emotional person by nature so maybe my wife and I will get to that stage but it's not something I strive for. Maybe I never will but from what I've read it does sound like a real theraputic relief.
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Prettyboy
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Username: Prettyboy

Post Number: 3
Registered: 03-2010
Posted on Saturday, March 20, 2010 - 11:27 pm:   Edit Post

Fanny,

A lot of feel good chemicals get released in the brain from a good spanking. The calm before the storm is actually very tense but when it is over there is a feeling of release and relaxation. For me it is better than yoga, massage or drugs.
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Switched
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Username: Switched

Post Number: 6
Registered: 03-2017
Posted on Tuesday, March 14, 2017 - 07:43 am:   Edit Post

I always cry when I get spanked. Some of it is out of my pride/feelings being hurt and partly because it hurts so bad. I don't know how people don't cry if they get spanked the way I do
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Spnkddaily
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Username: Spnkddaily

Post Number: 6
Registered: 05-2017
Posted on Friday, May 12, 2017 - 09:40 am:   Edit Post

It depends on the punishment whether I cry or not. My daily maintenance does not make me cry because I'm used to it. However serious punishments o am usually crying before it's over
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Ginger
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Username: Ginger

Post Number: 3
Registered: 12-2011
Posted on Monday, June 26, 2017 - 01:46 pm:   Edit Post

Spankings almost never make cry, but if he says I disappointed him starts me bawling.

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