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Username: Anotherbratinneed

Post Number: 1
Registered: 10-2011
Posted on Sunday, October 09, 2011 - 08:43 pm:   Edit Post

Unfortunately, I have not had a bf or a good spanking in quite sometime. Any suggestions on how to find a "top" while being careful to avoid s&m... I saw a personal ad on the net for spanking. has anyone tried this?
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Username: Zippo

Post Number: 1873
Registered: 09-2005

Posted on Monday, October 10, 2011 - 07:11 pm:   Edit Post

Welcome to the Den anotherbratinneed! When searching for a partner online, I would suggest that you don't rush things. Get to know the person a bit 1st. Make sure they are aware of your limits and desires and will respect them at all times. Be sure they will respect the use of a safeword so you have a way to terminate the action should it become too intense for you.

When 1st meeting, I would suggest a public place and arrange with a friend for a safe call so you can leave if the meeting is not progressing the way you hope. I also wouldnt play on the 1st encounter, go home and digest who you have just met, you may think of questions or want something clarified before proceeding. Trust your gut insincts, if something feels wrong or rushed, that should be your red flag to reevaluate who that person is. I have met some wonderful people through the online ads, you just need to take some basic safety precautions before proceeding.

Good Luck in your search!
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time

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