Post Number: 1
|Posted on Wednesday, September 01, 2010 - 02:08 pm: ||
I go by Seashell and I am 25 years old. I am about to be married to my man. I am recently getting more interested in him spanking me, and he is open to it. I am very shy about asking for a spanking or telling him when I want one. Spanking is a huge turn on for me, so one stipulation that I have is that it always leads to sex.
We have discussed something similar to domestic discipline, and are figuring out how we would like that, and what we would both get out of it.
Thank you for any advice that you can give me!
Post Number: 8
|Posted on Thursday, September 02, 2010 - 09:10 am: ||
Hi Seashell and welcome. I understand your shyness about asking for a spanking but my advice is, go for it! Take a deep breath and just do it. If your man is anything like my woman he will respect your need and your courage so just go for it and ask.
Post Number: 1
|Posted on Thursday, September 02, 2010 - 11:35 am: ||
I like your thoughts. Spanking need not be abusive and serious. It is very much an exciting togetherness between spouses. My thoughts on the subject follow. It should always start out with open discussion between the parties as to what to expect. It need not always be followed with sex, but if it does, thatís always better. Respect of each other must always be maintained. If you get a little more than expected, thatís not always bad, and thereís always forgiveness and make-up. God bless you in your marriage. There is always problems to solve, but together, you can do it.
Post Number: 25
|Posted on Thursday, October 21, 2010 - 11:22 pm: ||
Welcome Seashell, & all best wishes for your relationship!
Stay Pink! Love, Paula