Post Number: 13
|Posted on Tuesday, May 25, 2010 - 11:30 am: ||
I have worked at home for 5 years and have had problems in the past with fatigue and discipline. About a year ago, my husband told me that it was OK if I took a nap during the afternoon, but that I would have to tell him about it at the end of the day and that I would get a spanking for napping instead of working. It's a funny feeling to be tired and really want a nap, but then to think, "But is it worth it?? The spanking is going to really hurt!" Often I give in and take the nap and accept the subsequent spanking.
Well, about a week ago, Jon came home after work and asked how my day went. I told him some of the news of the day and then stammered a bit, saying, "...and, um, well...".
He sensed what I was trying to say. "Napped again?" I nodded. "Was it good?"
"Yes, a good nap."
"Oh, about a half hour."
"Well, come here. You're going to get a good spanking." He motioned for me to face the kitchen counter. He pressed gently on my back and bent me over the counter and spanked a few times over my skirt. Then, he lifted my skirt and warmed up my rear some more over my panties. Then, down came the panties and he went off looking for an implement. I heard him rummaging in the utensil drawer. He found a flat wooden stirrer and told me that I would be getting at least twenty-five with that on my bare ass. It really stung and hurt. I was sobbing and saying, "No, no, no!" by the time I had taken 25. He paused for a moment, then said, "Five more". The five extras were very hard. Then he announced he was done.
I'm glad we have this agreement. I make my choices and he holds me accountable for them.
Post Number: 3719
|Posted on Friday, August 13, 2010 - 06:57 pm: ||
I'm glad you have an agreement too.....but don't you think you should find out why you are so fatigued? Unless you have something disturbing your sleep at night (like kids) there may be a medical reason for your sleepiness.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
Post Number: 22
|Posted on Thursday, September 16, 2010 - 10:49 am: ||
Having an arrangement where you say you took a nap instead of saying please give me a spanking seems to work for you.
My wife and I do not have a specific agreement nor does my wife like to ask for a spanking. She expects for me to recognize when she needs one. She also will accept a disciplinary spanking from me even when it comes as a surprise to her. She may try and talk her way out of it but in the end she obeys me and submits. When she wants a spanking sometimes we are very busy and I fail to recognize the signs she is sending. I will get a dose of sarcasm or obvious lack of respect until I understand what is needed.
Post Number: 2778
|Posted on Saturday, September 18, 2010 - 05:32 pm: ||
Chuck I have to admit I expect my husband to see the signs as well. I know he isn't a mind reader and I know I can always ask for a spanking...but...sometimes I can't help myself and I get sarcastic too!!
I guess some of us just expect out partners to read our minds!!
Post Number: 17
|Posted on Sunday, September 19, 2010 - 12:08 am: ||
I guess it would be nice for my wife to offer to spank me instead of me always initiating it but hey, I'm glad she does it at all. There's plenty of time for us to get used to this.