Post Number: 12
|Posted on Monday, May 14, 2012 - 05:06 pm: ||
Sorry about that, didn't see that one. Won't happen again.
Post Number: 3964
|Posted on Tuesday, May 15, 2012 - 12:08 pm: ||
I appreciate this post, as I do fear that some of your posts may appear to be a bit authoritarian in your style. We have many lurkers here who are trying to learn more about the lifestyle. We don't want to scare them off by thinking there is only one correct way to "play".
You have made a few references to making loss of self-esteem to be an important part of the spanking. It bothers me to think that anyone feels that making another person lose their self-esteem is a good idea.
Not everyone is comfortable being exposed while they are being spanked nor having an audience. Care should be taken to take into account everyone's personal dynamics.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"