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K17
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Username: K17

Post Number: 2
Registered: 12-2008
Posted on Saturday, March 28, 2009 - 12:16 pm:   Edit Post

I'm actually getting some time alone with my BF tonight (he lives quite a ways away and I have 3 roommates) and he suggested that we try some new things. He suggested pussy whipping and spanking between my bum cheeks. I don't really know much about this, I guess I'm kinda vanilla when it comes to spanking and never considered anything beyond all the fantastic things he can do to spank my bum.

Any suggestions on how to get started on this? I'm thinking we'll probably only try one of the other, but I don't even know where to start.

It's going to be an interesting night!
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Tawseman
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Post Number: 57
Registered: 07-2008
Posted on Saturday, March 28, 2009 - 02:35 pm:   Edit Post

The first thing I would say is to start out gentle and go up from there. These areas are quite sensitive, and too much too soon can be a turn-off. However, once you're into it, you will probably be able to take an astounding amount of punishment if its done right.

For either pussy whipping or between bum cheeks, consider making a short martinet with leather bootlace tails.

Say, a 1 foot long 1/2 inch dowel as a handle and enough 1 foot boot laces to go around the handle. Use a little contact glue to get started, then wrap tightly with fishline or nylon upholstery thread and tie tightly. The nylon is best, because it can be stretched before tying, so keeps the tails in place better. A drop of Super Glue on the know will keep it tight. That might seem a little long, so go ahead and shorten to suit. Our preference is for the lashes to be a little longer than the handle, if any cutting is to be done.

Another way is to drill the end of the dowel and insert a screw eye and then run the laces through the eye. A rubber band around the laces next to the screw eye holds them in place. We use this as our travel toy, as, (disassembled) it arouses no curiosity when luggage is inspected. I prefer the action of the version with the lashes firmly attached, though.

You might end up with two or three of these, all different lengths. The ends of the lace can be cut on an angle to lessen damage.

Another possibility for the tails of a martinet is the vinyl lace craft shops sell for braiding projects. It has an exquisite sting in the sensitive areas mentioned.

When you have more time, look at Adam's Sensual Whips. We use a modified Mini Birch with great success. It is very accurate and allows a wide range of application force. If the tips are smoothed to a bullet shape, there is no possibility of unexpected damage. The stingers sold by Hanson Paddle work really well, too. We have both, as well as their short one with a longer handle, which put it in the middle of the two they offer, as far as range of impact.

Since you say you are going to try one are or the other, you might consider a strip of molefoam to protect your perineum, particularly if it is found to be a non-erotic area for whipping, as it is with some. The molefoam will also provide a clear delineation between the two areas, allowing the selected area to get full attention with no distractions. If he starts out gentle and ramps it up gradually, you will soon learn what is what.

If you find that you don't enjoy anus whipping but do like it on the inner cheeks, a narrow rubber strap (say one inch) on a short handle is supremely accurate and has an absolutely stunning sting when applied to the inner cheeks. We have found 3/16 to be the ideal thickness for these areas, with 1/8 being a contender for labia spanking, as well. The edges need to be rounded or beveled, of course. The inner cheeks, down low, on either side of the perineum, is a favorite area for spanking here. The "diaper" position allows the best access to that area. The rubber strap also excels on the labia, particularly when hairless, wet and swollen with excitation. The most gentle application makes a wonderful slap.

BTW, either area responds to "Kiss It and Make It Better". Doing this at intervals ramps up the excitement and makes the pain more pleasurable and makes a long session easier to take.

Oh yeah,......Have fun and be sure and report back.

.

(Message edited by tawseman on March 28, 2009)
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Buenaventura
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Username: Buenaventura

Post Number: 921
Registered: 04-2006


Posted on Sunday, March 29, 2009 - 11:09 am:   Edit Post

You the man!!!
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Peachybot
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Username: Peachybot

Post Number: 6
Registered: 10-2008
Posted on Sunday, March 29, 2009 - 03:52 pm:   Edit Post

if you want to try being pussy whipped for the first time get him to use a riding crop. The little leather fop on the end can be aimed soooo accurately and the stiffish spine can be rubbed between your labia to give you such a great rush.

you might get him to blindfold you so you don't know which you are going to get next.

certainly make him be gentle if it's your first time.

If you live in England we have a stinging weed called a nettle that grows in the summer which a friend of mine swears is the best for pussy whipping. she certainly loves it when i do it on her, though it doesn't do too much for me, i prefer the nettles on my arse if i have to take them and her fingers or lips on my pussy.

she also likes the nettles on her breasts by the way.

peachybot
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K17
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Username: K17

Post Number: 3
Registered: 12-2008
Posted on Wednesday, April 01, 2009 - 04:57 pm:   Edit Post

update! I may have a new favorite thing! We ended up trying both but a last minute change in venue left us without our 'equipment' (I now owe my sister a few new kitchen utensils). We stuck mostly to wooden spoons and I had been wearing this narrow belt that came in handy.

I really REALLY enjoyed having my asshole spanked with that wooden spoon, it just sent this fantastic jolt up my spine every time. The only thing that concerned us was the bruising. It certainly looked worse then it felt, but it was only about 10 spanks and it was bruising pretty bad or looked like it was. I wasn't ready to stop, but he wasn't comfortable with it. He also used the narrow belt to get all up and down the inside of my cheek, but I really liked the spoon better completely the opposite for what I like when he's spanking my ass.

On my pussy he tried it first with his hand and a wooden spoon, then with a wooden stirrer (it was kinda like a spoon but thinner, the head was about 2 inches wide and 3 inches long. That was nice because it covered a lot of ground if you will. We discussed finding something smaller so I could hold my lips apart and he could get my clit, so maybe next time.

So, the moral of this story... this was the best thing we have tried so far and from now on when I get punished I want to be rosy red back, front and everywhere inbetween!
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Tawseman
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Username: Tawseman

Post Number: 60
Registered: 07-2008
Posted on Wednesday, April 01, 2009 - 06:33 pm:   Edit Post

Wow! Glad you had a good time.

Since you mention anal bruising, I should mention that it lessens with more experience. Frequent attention will keep it in shape. The anus can actually take more punishment than the surrounding skin can.

One other thing.......What was your position when your anus was being spanked? I don't know how prone you are to hemorrhoids, but we have found that the diaper position causes a higher likelihood of hemorrhoids. We do hard anal whipping with the subject kneeling, spread wide.

We do use the diaper position, however, for the rest of the crack and lower buttocks, as well as for lighter anal punishment.

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K17
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Username: K17

Post Number: 4
Registered: 12-2008
Posted on Wednesday, April 01, 2009 - 07:05 pm:   Edit Post

Actually tried a couple positions for the anal spanking. First we tried when I was bent over the bed on a couple of pillows, he'd been using his belt and so that was the position I was already in, that wasn't working because I had to reach behind me to spread my cheeks and it was uncomfortable for my upper body. Then we tried kneeling and spread wide, but when the bruising was really starting to show he had me lay on my back holding my ankles with some pillows propping my ass up so that he could see my face. He thought it was a lot more painful then it was. But in that position it was only natural that he move on to my pussy, especially since I wasn't even close to my limit yet. I was amazed by how much I could take. It seems that with regular spanking I'm squirming and asking if it's over sooner then I was with pussy and anal spanking. It just feels so completely different. I'm kinda gushing....
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Pawel8884
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Username: Pawel8884

Post Number: 2
Registered: 06-2012
Posted on Wednesday, June 13, 2012 - 08:20 am:   Edit Post

Hi!
I like anus spankings very much too. Agreed with all the above, quite strong bruising showed up my first time only after 22 lashes with a narrow belt and my anus got in a way numb, so we stopped. But since then I don't get that numb feeling and my anus is like it got stronger :-)
I enjoy also a light penis spanking but not on the balls.

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