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Username: Arsebum

Post Number: 1
Registered: 12-2007
Posted on Monday, December 24, 2007 - 11:31 am:   Edit Post

i have nobody to spank me, yet. so i was wondering what types of ways i could spank myself. how, where, with what. i have no special equipment.
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3367
Registered: 05-2005

Posted on Monday, December 24, 2007 - 01:40 pm:   Edit Post

Hello and welcome to the Den. This is a meet and great area, so you may not get a response from this question here. It would be better to put it in one of the other threads such as "spanking with a twist".

*Fanny, thank you for pointing this out. Thread has been moved to the discussion area. - Bethie*

(Message edited by Bethie on December 24, 2007)
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Username: Petergrimm

Post Number: 76
Registered: 05-2007
Posted on Monday, December 24, 2007 - 02:11 pm:   Edit Post

One basic problem with self-spanking is the physical difficulty of getting a free and smooth swing with whatever implement one is trying to use. In particular stiff implements like brushes, spoons or rulers need to have some speed at impact to be effective. Even attempting to swing such an implement with your whole arm from a rear quarter is unsatisfactory since the forearm can not follow through and the swing ends up all from the elbow down and hence slower than it should be. It helps if the wrist is alowed to go loose at impact to get the angle between bum and implement right.
There is still some difficulty aiming and the limited area one can reach and hence spank. Standing, and standing bent over from the waist work better than laying face down or over something but then that removes the OTK feel of the thing.
Another position that sort of works is to lay on your back with your legs straight up and opened so you swing through your legs aiming at the crease point between bum and thigh, though thighs and inner thighs are also accessible this way.

Another way is to use a very flexible implement such a a small flogger or cat and actually utilize the dreaded "wrapping" effect - use a cross body frontal swing so the lashes land on the opposite hip and wrap around to strike on the bum. Since the swing is much more natural than the rear quarter swing, the speed can be quite high and of course the "wrapping" effect increases that even more on impact. This should work with a belt as well but with the added difficulty of getting it to land "flat" so it wraps smoothly. To try this it is not necessary to buy an expensive flogger, just hold a half-dozen of 15" pieces of thin rope or sash cord (add knots in the end if desired) and swing away..

Misery sticks (and elastics) can deliver a local but sharp sting just about anywhwere one can reach with both hands, but this may not fit your definition of a spanking.

I am sure others will have alternate suggestions, and of course experimenting can be fun too. Best of luck and enjoy...
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Username: Admin

Post Number: 134
Registered: 03-2005

Posted on Sunday, November 29, 2009 - 08:34 pm:   Edit Post

I just deleted a post here. Stay on topic, please!

Thank you.
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Username: Subwife92

Post Number: 60
Registered: 01-2017
Posted on Tuesday, February 14, 2017 - 08:08 am:   Edit Post

Self Spanking is hard. We find it is more useful to use a punishment selector we found on the internet. I rarely have to self spank but when the Dom goes on business trips it is necessary. This makes it where I have to do what the selector assigns and he makes me do a minimum of 5 assignments to make sure I'm well blistered. Try a small wooden paddle that's what works best for me. Also position yourself where you can reach back and spank but keep looking forward to get the illusion that someone else is doing it

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