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Obx_peach
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Post Number: 25
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Thursday, June 22, 2006 - 09:12 pm:   Edit Post

What Should I buy, He loves the crop and that seems to be all he wants to use , and of course his hand. Is there something like a crop that he will like to use and give me Pleasure lol
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Wolfie
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Username: Wolfie

Post Number: 1774
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Thursday, June 22, 2006 - 11:09 pm:   Edit Post

We have a lovely leather slapper I found in a horse/tack shop, its like a cross between a slim paddle and a crop...very yummy at times.

There are some wonderful ideas on "wolfie's birthday spanking" in the contest area Peach, feel free to borrow them. :-)
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.

Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Paq13
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Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Friday, June 23, 2006 - 03:13 am:   Edit Post

call me a traditionalist, but i feel bday spankings should be given with either a paddle or a hand and on the bare bum.
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Subbie
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Username: Subbie

Post Number: 80
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Friday, June 23, 2006 - 06:39 am:   Edit Post

how about 2 bday spankings the paddle before going to work in the morning, and then hairbrush and paddle that evening, the morning spanking will remind you all day at work what you will be geeting that evening...happy birthday spanking :}
my name says it all
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Obx_peach
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Post Number: 26
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Friday, June 23, 2006 - 06:52 am:   Edit Post

Thanks for all the great ideas , as I'm sill topping from the bottom so to speak . I want to buy a new toy for him to use on me. I'm going to try and find the post Wolfie is talking about, I did get a nice spanking lastnight that was a suprise !! My bday is almost a month away so I have plenty of time to shop
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Pinkcheeks
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Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 578
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Friday, June 23, 2006 - 08:20 am:   Edit Post

Ohhh, we have a leather "slapper" too!! It is a delicious little toy
And Subbie had a good idea too.....2 spankings!

When it was my birthday in February, I got a combination of hand and leather - so nice :-)
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Prof_top
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Post Number: 5
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Friday, June 23, 2006 - 10:02 am:   Edit Post

Obx peach - I am reminded a bit of a classic old line - Dorthey Parker I think - you can lead a whore to culture but you can't make her think. I hope it goes real swelled bottom for you. Part of me wants to yell, "get a clue" to your guy. It isn't like you haven't dropped a few. Hope it goes better than you dreamed.
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Buenaventura
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Username: Buenaventura

Post Number: 98
Registered: 04-2006
Posted on Friday, June 23, 2006 - 11:03 am:   Edit Post

Yeah Peach check out Wolfies birthday spanking in the contests threads.everybody had some really good ideas.
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Bethie
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Username: Bethie

Post Number: 1028
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, June 23, 2006 - 05:20 pm:   Edit Post

Peach, I have some suggestions for you. We have a short crop that I love, it's short enough for otk and has a wide slapper that feels great. Because it's wider, I like it better than the bigger ones we have with the thin slappers. JT's also offers a crop with a longer slapper.

If you're looking for an easy to handle paddle but don't want a wooden one, I can suggest one of my favorites; the leather fraternity paddle, also from JT's. If you want something smaller and with less sting, try one of the rounder ones. It just depends on what you're wanting from a paddle. I like lots of sting btw.

I figure since you're just starting out, he may be more comfortable with toys that are easy to control and aim like the crop. Now you just have to figure out what you want out of your spankings and buy the appropriate toys. You may have to do some experimentation as well, and that's not always a bad thing.

One nice thing about having more toys is that he can mix them up when he gives you those special birthday spanks. Good luck!
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Tplayer
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Username: Tplayer

Post Number: 99
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Friday, June 23, 2006 - 05:35 pm:   Edit Post

I think the appropriate number of hand spankings followed by the same amount of kissings on your forehead. Happy Birthday!!
It's all a matter of perspective
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Katie_spades
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Username: Katie_spades

Post Number: 618
Registered: 11-2005


Posted on Monday, June 26, 2006 - 12:15 am:   Edit Post

I'm with Pac13, but Tplayer has a great idea with the kisses on the forehead... happy birthday in advance and cannot wait to hear about the spanking you got!
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Sky
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Post Number: 6
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Thursday, June 29, 2006 - 07:05 am:   Edit Post

D'you know what? I've never had a birthday spanking! I wonder how 49 will sit with me in March next year?! (Forgive the play on words there - unintentional!)
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Subbie
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Username: Subbie

Post Number: 85
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Thursday, June 29, 2006 - 08:17 am:   Edit Post

would that be 49 on the right side and 49 on the left...just a thought, I think I better stop don't want to give my hubby any more ideas than he already has..
my name says it all
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Sky
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Post Number: 7
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Thursday, June 29, 2006 - 12:32 pm:   Edit Post

Now you're scaring me!! I hope my hubby doesn't read this.....
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Tammynx
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Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 817
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Thursday, June 29, 2006 - 03:19 pm:   Edit Post

A Birthday spanking shouldn't be scary!! It should be fun and exciting!!
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Pinkcheeks
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Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 610
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Thursday, June 29, 2006 - 03:31 pm:   Edit Post

My b-day spanking was the BEST!! (as a matter of fact, we were having so much fun that he CONTINUED to give me birthday spanks even though he past my age number! )
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Paq13
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Post Number: 5
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Thursday, June 29, 2006 - 03:49 pm:   Edit Post

mine was pretty good...

29+1 that got progressively harder ( a nice feat for my non-spanko gf)

and then another 30+ bc i lost count when i aggravated her to the point of repeating her performance....

yes, i'm such a brat
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Pinkcheeks
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Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 612
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Thursday, June 29, 2006 - 05:22 pm:   Edit Post


"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Sky
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Post Number: 8
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Friday, June 30, 2006 - 06:01 am:   Edit Post

Ooooh, well, d'you know, thinking about it, He always starts off with the flogger (my favourite pink latex one!) then a heavier flogger and then I get spanked and caned....so in reality, I must be approaching the 40+ stage by the time we progress to the "other" bit

I hope I don't lose count tho' Paq13, 'cos then I would get the giggles and we'd have to start all over again!!!!!!
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Shylah
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Username: Shylah

Post Number: 1220
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Friday, June 30, 2006 - 11:42 am:   Edit Post

I have a birthday coming up soon

SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!



We don't want you-know-who to see this!!
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Sky
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Post Number: 9
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Friday, June 30, 2006 - 11:55 am:   Edit Post

Shylah, look what happened when I left my PC for a few minutes (I was still on this thread....)

He left this for me to find!!!!!
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Tammynx
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Post Number: 823
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Friday, June 30, 2006 - 01:00 pm:   Edit Post

Now that is funny!!!
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Sky
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Post Number: 10
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Posted on Friday, June 30, 2006 - 01:06 pm:   Edit Post

I just love his sense of humour as much as his firm hands!! Long live the Raven!
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Pinkcheeks
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Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 617
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Friday, June 30, 2006 - 01:35 pm:   Edit Post

now that is very cool Sky!
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Sky
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Post Number: 11
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Posted on Friday, June 30, 2006 - 01:39 pm:   Edit Post

Isn't it just! It's great to have the passion in common, but the sense of humour too! - I am truly blessed!!!!!
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Subbie
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Username: Subbie

Post Number: 86
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Friday, June 30, 2006 - 05:58 pm:   Edit Post

that is cool and yea you are LUCKY, :-)
my name says it all
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Obx_peach
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Post Number: 40
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Sunday, July 02, 2006 - 10:19 am:   Edit Post

we all are very lucky this is a great place to be . I think I'm going to buy myself a bondage starter kit , maybe he will get into the role better or atleast I can think he is ,

The crop berthie sugessted is very close to the one we got at the pet shop , Thanks for the ideas
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Weasel
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Username: Weasel

Post Number: 87
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Sunday, July 02, 2006 - 10:53 am:   Edit Post

I see a cake spatula, a birthday cake & ice cream, and a spanking wearing a funny birthday hat in your future...
Some day you'll spank me... er thank me for this!
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Tammynx
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Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 830
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Sunday, July 02, 2006 - 10:59 am:   Edit Post

I'm not sure I could take a spanking in a funny b-day hat!! I might laugh to much.

I like the idea of the bondage starter kit...let me know how that works out for you!!
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Shylah
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Username: Shylah

Post Number: 1229
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Sunday, July 02, 2006 - 11:08 am:   Edit Post

Oh you HAVE to wear a funny birthday hat....and NOTHING ELSE

I think that's a great idea...bondage starter kit huh???

HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

happy birthday to meeeeee happy birthday to meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee....coff coff

Oh gawd...I just figured out my birthday is in less than 2 weeks

Let me know how yours turns out!!

Inquiring minds NEED to know!!!
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Katie_spades
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Username: Katie_spades

Post Number: 661
Registered: 11-2005


Posted on Tuesday, July 04, 2006 - 07:06 am:   Edit Post

I see lots of paddles in both of your futures... And I have ESP so I would go ahead and trust me on this one.
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Obx_peach
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Post Number: 43
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Tuesday, July 04, 2006 - 11:58 am:   Edit Post

My bday is still a couple of weeks away .. He says the bondage starter kits looks like fun. I still want/ need the cracker barrel paddle like the one in amy avie . I would like to try the cake spatula but I'm not sure about the hat I think I would laugh too much too..
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Sky
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Post Number: 15
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Tuesday, July 04, 2006 - 01:01 pm:   Edit Post

I bought a starter kit for going away recently. It's really neat and very non-threatening (Shylah, I'm thinking of you now). The restraints (4) are velcro (Eazi-cuffs), it has 2 over the door hangers and 4m (12 yds) of black bondage rope. It all comes in a little box, which is about the size of a milk carton. (IYSWIM)! My friend and mentor also said if you use the hangers over two doors opposite each other in a corridor, you could have a nice St.Andrews cross.

Comments?
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Bethie
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Username: Bethie

Post Number: 1043
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Wednesday, July 05, 2006 - 03:48 pm:   Edit Post

Sky, that sounds like an interesting idea your friend has come up with. We might have to try that sometime...
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Sky
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Post Number: 16
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Posted on Wednesday, July 05, 2006 - 04:50 pm:   Edit Post

She's great and has the most deliciously wicked sense of torture - oops, I mean humour
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Bethie
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Post Number: 1050
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Wednesday, July 05, 2006 - 10:23 pm:   Edit Post

bdaypaddle

Peach, here's a nice birthday paddle for you! I actually used to buy these for parties and they come with a pen for people to sign and the brave to use. They're light so they're almost useless but it can be fun if you're with the right group of people.

Have you found any suitable toys yet? I'm anxious to hear what you've found.

Sky, a delicious sense of torture is rather fun isn't it?
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Pinkcheeks
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Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 641
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Thursday, July 06, 2006 - 07:19 am:   Edit Post

Oh Bethie..that paddle is TOO CUTE!!
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Tammynx
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Post Number: 848
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Thursday, July 06, 2006 - 10:53 am:   Edit Post

That is a cute paddle!! Can you just imagine opening a present and that being in the box?!?!?!?

What fun!!!
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Pinkcheeks
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Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 645
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Thursday, July 06, 2006 - 11:04 am:   Edit Post

Darn..........my b-day was in February :-(

Gotta agree Tammy - what a fun present!!
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Tammynx
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Post Number: 850
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Thursday, July 06, 2006 - 11:53 am:   Edit Post

I'm thiniking that maybe I need to keep my b-day to myself!!! No tellin what this crew would have in mind!!! :-)
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Katie_spades
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Username: Katie_spades

Post Number: 685
Registered: 11-2005


Posted on Tuesday, July 11, 2006 - 02:10 am:   Edit Post

Bethie that was really adorable! So freaking cute I want one! Damn... now I'm going to have to start stomping my foot and screaming really loud so Jake can hear and oh wait, I am throwing a tantrum... I want that paddle!!!!
Katie Spades: The Princess of Spanking
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Scubasteve7
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Post Number: 15
Registered: 12-2006
Posted on Sunday, December 31, 2006 - 09:37 pm:   Edit Post

In the event some spanko wants a paddle to use, go with lexan. It is durable and last a long time to come. For a rememberable sting to the (_!_), drill 1/4"-3/8" holes and chamfer them.
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Slavejeni
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Post Number: 37
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Wednesday, January 17, 2007 - 08:27 pm:   Edit Post

When's your B-Day? Mine was Jan. 7.

I missed my B-Day Spanking... :-(
SlaveJeni, Goddess of Self-Spanking.
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Prissietl
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Username: Prissietl

Post Number: 104
Registered: 07-2006


Posted on Thursday, January 18, 2007 - 08:03 am:   Edit Post

A good friend told me that on birthdays she gets one lick for every year old she is and one lick for every year old her hubby is and then one to grow on!! Yikkks....my birthday is next month, and i might just keep that little bit of info to myself. hehehe
Once a princess always a princess
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Newspanking
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Username: Newspanking

Post Number: 4
Registered: 01-2007
Posted on Friday, January 19, 2007 - 03:30 am:   Edit Post

please give me ideas for spanking my self i have no one to spank me
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Sky
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Username: Sky

Post Number: 25
Registered: 06-2006


Posted on Friday, January 19, 2007 - 04:43 am:   Edit Post

Perhaps SlaveJeni will be able to help you out Newspanking...

Not something I've ever had to do, I'm afraid ;)
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Bethie
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Username: Bethie

Post Number: 1219
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Saturday, January 20, 2007 - 12:14 am:   Edit Post

Newspanking, please don't introduce new topics into ongoing threads, that's hijacking. I know you've asked this question before and haven't gotten much response, but you have to be patient. Good luck!

Let's get back to the birthday spanking topic please. bdayparty
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Subwife92
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Username: Subwife92

Post Number: 64
Registered: 01-2017
Posted on Tuesday, February 14, 2017 - 09:43 am:   Edit Post

For my birthday I get to choose the implement. Last year I chose the wooden paddle. 24 +1 to grow on was just enough to have me burning and turned on
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Spankee99
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Post Number: 2
Registered: 05-2017
Posted on Saturday, May 27, 2017 - 02:08 pm:   Edit Post

I prefer fun spanking on birthday. We spank each other fully clothed for the number of times as our age then we go shower and do it all over again clean and naked. This usually leads to more fun.
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Want_it
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Post Number: 4
Registered: 09-2017
Posted on Thursday, September 07, 2017 - 09:27 am:   Edit Post

On my birthday I always dress super sexy at bedtime and my husband sits in the bed and I lay across his lap. My birthday was in July and this year I turned 32 so I took him a hairbrush and he gave me 33 licks. I was so turned on by it

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