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Jasmine_1958
New member
Username: Jasmine_1958
Post Number: 28
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Friday, February 17, 2006 - 07:30 am: | 
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Have any of you or the person you are spanking passed out from the pain? Twice during my spanking last night things got pretty dark. My husband firmly turned me around and told me I would not be allowed to pass out. How do you keep from going under? I've never been this far before. |
Sinderella
New member
Username: Sinderella
Post Number: 23
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Friday, February 17, 2006 - 08:00 am: |
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Passed out? Nope, can't say that I have, but I am not really a total pain freak like some people can be lol. Not saying that you are lol, just saying. Believe me when I say, I LOVE spanking! But have never been brought to the point of passing out. |
Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 458
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 17, 2006 - 08:06 am: |
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If you are truly passing out from the "pain" then your spanker is going too far, IMO.
How is that he can "order" you not to pass out? 
Are you talking sub space, or really losing consciousness? There is a difference.
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Jasmine_1958
New member
Username: Jasmine_1958
Post Number: 30
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Friday, February 17, 2006 - 08:10 am: |
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What's IMO?
What's the difference between sub space and losing consciousness? |
Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 459
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 17, 2006 - 08:59 am: |
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IMO = In my opinion
Sub space is a place where someone goes when the euphoria of the spanking/session/scene takes them to a place other than where they are...they mentally leave the scene. In most cases they are unable to respond to anything mentally and/or physically. They can either have the most fabulous experience, or the more horrible in not having control of themselves or the situation. The pain is no longer felt, in most cases, when in subspace.
Losing consciousness is actually passing out, where breathing and brain function changes cause the person to cease to be aware and awake.
Both leave the recipient/spankee in a place where they have no control. |
Pinkcheeks
Junior Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 119
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 17, 2006 - 10:36 am: |
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Passed out from pain? mmmmm...I don't think that should be happening. Passing out occurs when there is decreased blood flow to the brain..most people will experience "warning signs" before they actually pass out - heart palpitations, weakness, dizziness, confusion, or nausea. All of this happens as the body prepares itself for "collaspe". Sometimes a person can pass out due to a drop in blood pressure - but this happens BEFORE they experience stress, fear, or pain.
Since you said "things got pretty dark twice", I am doubting its subspace. I think you were on the verge of fainting....be careful ok? I gotta agree with K....I think the spanker may have gone too far.
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Tmichellebrat
Junior Spanko
Username: Tmichellebrat
Post Number: 114
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 17, 2006 - 10:51 am: |
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I agree with the ladies here ...your spanker has gone to far and he needs to be aware of that. And I don't understand how he could "order you to not pass out"......that IMO is just ridiculous. The three rules that I have always gone by as well as my Dom are ...safe, sane, and consentual. Please stay safe! |
Jasmine_1958
New member
Username: Jasmine_1958
Post Number: 31
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Friday, February 17, 2006 - 02:41 pm: |
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Well, ok. I have my last one tonight. Wish me luck. |
Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 303
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 17, 2006 - 02:50 pm: |
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IMO he needs to back off some. A message can be administered without the need to spank as hard as you seem to be getting. Is he not getting into your head first??
If he is telling you not to pass out then something is definitely wrong here. If nothing else, he should now be concerned not so much with the spanking but with your physical condition. One would hope he would care enough to make sure you are ok and safe.
I hope he does, otherwise it is simple abuse.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Jasmine_1958
New member
Username: Jasmine_1958
Post Number: 32
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Friday, February 17, 2006 - 02:56 pm: |
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Well, I definitely won't be drinking and driving any more... |
Kennysspankee
Junior Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 153
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 17, 2006 - 04:33 pm: |
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I've fainted once. I had my eyes wide open, I was fully aware of everything but it was like someone had turned off all the lights. I did that twice then I just fainted. (Freaked out over blood being drawn when I was pregnant) If you are over the knee with your head down, that might be the reason, but if you are so distressed over the pain, the way you're breathing might be causing it, which brings you back to the pain. I don't think a punishment spanking has to go so far as to cause you to passout, whether it be from the pain, or your hyperventing type of breathing. A break should be taken to allow you to 'come together'. Maybe continue after that. A hard spanking on top of a still sore, aching and whatever else bum would be as far as I'm concerned, intolerable. I wouldn't be surprised if you passed out. I think you should rethink that 3rd, maybe put it off for a few days. Ever thought about 'heartattack', stroke? To push tolerances that far seems kinda risky to me. I could have one good spanking that would be enough pain to learn me 'what for'. Anything more than 2 and not even right after the other, seems redundant to me. Pain is Pain. |
Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 308
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 18, 2006 - 09:58 am: |
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I have NEVER passed out from a spanking...I can't even imagine that. I've never passed out from pain before...broken bones child birth....I just can't even think how hard you must be getting spanked if you are passing out. |
Shylah
Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 672
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 18, 2006 - 12:24 pm: |
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I'm thinking you were in the wrong position. If you are going to be receiving a hard prolonged spanking, the spanker should take the responsibility of making sure you are put in a safe position so that you are not deprived of oxygen and the blood does not "rush" to your head.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Zippo
Advanced Spanko
Username: Zippo
Post Number: 1600
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 19, 2006 - 10:30 am: |
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Part of the spankers responsibility is to ensure the safety of the spankee. They should be watching your body language. A spanking even in punishment form should not injure or be detrimental to the health of the spankee. The goal IMO should be behavior modification which can be done without putting the spankees well being at risk. Proceeding beyond that point is, to me, simply abuse.
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Kennysspankee
Junior Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 156
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 19, 2006 - 02:20 pm: |
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Zippo, my husband said the same thing when I was telling him about Jasmine's situation. I also agree with you. |
Katie_spades
Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 427
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 08:38 pm: |
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I've never even come close to passing out and believe me, I've been in a lot of freaking pain, but never passed out. I think that's way too much.
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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