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Jasmine_1958
New member
Username: Jasmine_1958
Post Number: 25
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, February 16, 2006 - 08:04 am: | 
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So I confessed to drinking too much, lying about it, and then driving home. Needless to say he was very angry, hurt, and disappointed in me. We talked through all the bad choices I had made, I listened to the endless lecture and received the first of THREE punishment spankings. I have never had more than one punishment spanking at a time, but I've never confess to anything this bad either. I couldn't sleep any way but on my stomach last night, I can barely sit this morning. How the hell I am going to survive two more nights spankings? Have any of you had two or more back to back? I definitely admit that I deserve it. Last night's spanking was for over drinking, tonight for lying, and the grand finale Friday for drinking and driving. Any advice? |
Rosie_bottom
New member
Username: Rosie_bottom
Post Number: 18
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, February 16, 2006 - 08:21 am: |
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Poor you J. Use plenty of aloe vere. I have sometimes had three punishment spankings back to back and there is no easy way around it - it is going to hurt like hell. You know there is nothing you can do to lessen the spankings, except take them, so just try to keep in mind that you know you deserve it, have earned it, and it is for your own good. It sounds like it will be a while before you don't have to sleep on your stomach, or sit on a pillow. But you know you WILL feel better for it when it's all over.  }
Thank you Sir from the heart of my bottom.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1341
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 16, 2006 - 08:50 am: |
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Frozen peas, cold witch hazel and lots of lotion. Sorry your so sore Jasmine, but this too will pass. Your being very brave and I applaud your resolve to do the right thing. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Ma_vie_en_rose
Junior Spanko
Username: Ma_vie_en_rose
Post Number: 52
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, February 16, 2006 - 09:21 am: |
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You can do it, dear. Just be strong, remember that this is because he loves you and because you need it, but that it's also going to be over soon. You're already 1/3 done.
 We'll be here to support you during this, and again, brava for taking responsibility and doing what was right.
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Pinkcheeks
Junior Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 116
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 16, 2006 - 11:47 am: |
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I must admit I have never had 3 back to back punishment spankings (although this past December "R" decided to do something called "The 25 spankings of Christmas" - and my butt was tender). I know that punishment spankings are much worse - hang in there - we're here for you. You did the right thing - remember how much he loves you - and use lots of aftercare.
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 301
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 16, 2006 - 02:40 pm: |
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Jasmine - sorry you have to go through all three of these back to back, but if it changes your behavior then it is a good thing. It may in the long run have actually saved your life or some elses life.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Jasmine_1958
New member
Username: Jasmine_1958
Post Number: 27
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, February 16, 2006 - 04:34 pm: |
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Thanks for the support, everyone. I'm trying to remember all those things, but the only thing I'm remembering right now is how bad it hurt last night and counting the hours until I have to endure it again. It's been a long day. |
Kennysspankee
Junior Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 152
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 16, 2006 - 04:54 pm: |
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I had 7 in a row for my last birthday. BUT I wanted it (mostly to see if I could do it) AND there wasn't too much heavy type hits that affect the muscle, causing that ache, just about all surface sting, burn, straps and wood paddles, you know? It started to get pretty intense after the 3rd. Was pretty hard to go to 4, 5, 6 and 7. My skin got pretty sensitive! If your getting hard ones that affect the muscle, that's gonna be really hard to take. But if that's the decision that was made you pretty well have to stand by it, as like you said, 'he knows your tolerances', and it sounds like he wants to go well past them, so you'll remember in the future if the 'opportunity' comes again. |
Tmichellebrat
Junior Spanko
Username: Tmichellebrat
Post Number: 110
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, February 16, 2006 - 07:48 pm: |
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Jasmine- I feel for you ...I also have had to endure three punishment spankings in a row in the past and they are no fun but if you just remember that he loves you and he is trying to make sure you are not going to make the same mistakes ever again then you will get through it just fine ....may I suggest Arnica oil for aftercare ...I have used many things and I find that Arnica oil relieves the pain...swelling and also the bruising a whole lot better than most other things I have used. It also helps with discoloration and healing is faster with it too. I buy mine in the gel formulation at GNC. Just a suggestion. |
Katie_spades
Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 423
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, February 22, 2006 - 08:29 pm: |
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I applaud you for telling the truth - I've had to endure the same and more and it's so painful so I feel for you. I persoanlly like frozen peas and corn, as sugggested (20 min on and off for 48 hours) and then do the same with heat. Also take ibuprofen for pain and swelling. Also, use PLENTY of moisturizer all the time so you take care of the well-spanked area well.
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Jasmine_1958
New member
Username: Jasmine_1958
Post Number: 44
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Thursday, February 23, 2006 - 07:52 am: |
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Katie,
20 minutes on and off for 48 hours? I would look pretty strange at work going to the freezer every 40 minutes and stuffing them down my pants.  I did and still do the ibuprofen. That does work. |
Katie_spades
Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 442
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 24, 2006 - 12:20 am: |
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I can't always be so punctual, LOL but I try to be as apt as possible, and I don't work, I'm in school, so that makes it easier. I ice in the morning, then go to gym, ice again, then shower and class. then ice again, and so on depending on which day of the week it is as that pertains to my class schedule. But your idea of doing that at work or school was hilarious and I imagine you would get a lot of strnge stares, LOL.... But right on with the ibu, because that really works. But ice as much as you can during the first 48 hours after the spanking and then heat as much as possible for the next 48... as much as you can, LOL
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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