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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1183
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, January 27, 2006 - 02:40 pm: | 
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Today Steve and I were discussing my upcoming visit, and he mentioned that I had a spanking due for all the things I've gotten away with that he didnt know about. It was my opinion that he couldnt spank me for things he didnt know about, that it wasnt "right". His viewpoint was that since I had done something that deserved a spanking, it was his job as my Dom to not let me get away with it. 
So who do you think is correct? Isnt it my right as a brat to get away with things if possible? I never lie to him...if he asks me if I've done something/havent done something I always tell him. But if he doesnt ask and it's not that serious, then I dont think I need to tell him and have it put in my book for later retribution. And I shouldnt be spanked "just because" he knows I've probably gotten away with things since the last time we were together. Right? 
Or am I wrong? He maintains that I will subconsciously (interesting word) feel bad knowing that I havent been disciplined for my misdemeanors. That it will bother me until I either confess or hold it against him in some way...like sulking, pouting or being crabby. He says I always feel better when I've been disciplined and the slate is wiped clean, and this is no different. He does have a point there, but how will he know whether he's chastising me for a small naughtiness or a series of mistakes that might qualify as a real problem if he doesnt know what I've done? 
I hope I havent confused you with my question. I love getting different opinions on things Steve and I discuss...I always get new angles and ways of looking at things. And no, this isnt really about whose right and whose wrong and we're not argueing.
But I'm right of course. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 269
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, January 27, 2006 - 03:10 pm: |
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WELLLL IN MY OPINION hehehe
If you are not feeling guilty about something and he does not know about it then he does not have a leg to stand on. I know you, if you did something that you felt guilty about you'd tell him even if he did not ask. So Steve looks like this time your out of luck ole fella.
So that must mean Wolfie you've been so good he CAN'T come up with a reason to discipline. You mean all you get when you go to the UK again is GG's. OH MY you lucky little brat. 
Now we both know that I know.... well we won't go into that now will we. 
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Katie_spades
Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 294
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, January 27, 2006 - 03:56 pm: |
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Really want me to anwer that question, LOL?
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 154
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, January 27, 2006 - 06:05 pm: |
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I agree Wolfie you must be so good that Steve can't think of a reason and you know his hand is just dying to spank
GG in the UK for wolfie
Love can't always be seen or hear but will always be felt with your heart
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Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 264
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, January 27, 2006 - 06:39 pm: |
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well.....according to my husband.......
Just because he doesn't know about something I've done doesn't give me the right to go ahead and do it. Meaning that if I do something and I either don't tell him about it...he calls that omission and technically a lie....I disagree but whatever...if I don't tell him thats bad...if I do tell him...he is glad I fessed up...but I still might get spanked.
Now...the way I see it....I can't possibly do EVERYTHING the way he says or do EVERYTHING he wants me or doesn't want me to do. I feel if he doesn't know...then good for me....
However...he almost always finds out. An innocent conversation can give him way more information then he needs.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't sweat the small stuff....it isn't like we have a ton of rules...we really don't have rules..I just know there are some things he simply will NOT put up with. I stay away from things that I know will anger or disapoint him.
I I guess I didn't really help...I'm with the group...he needs a reason to spank you!!  |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1184
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, January 27, 2006 - 07:38 pm: |
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I guess thats the point Tammy, he feels he does have a reason. The reason being that even though he doesnt know what Ive done that is spankable, as my Dom he has to stop me from committing these same actions again. And his way of accomplishing that is a blanket spanking.
Like your hubby, Steve almost always finds out the things I dont want him to know...sometimes because someone else tells him. Right Ann? But I would never lie to him, and the guilt I feel at doing something I know he doesnt approve of always makes me confess as soon as possible.
Red, he has plenty of reasons to spank me...from wanting to turn me on or tease and play, to discipline that is overdue. Thats never a problem.
Ann and Katie, you buncha comedians...I'll get even! 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Poofette
New member
Username: Poofette
Post Number: 47
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, January 28, 2006 - 12:04 am: |
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Of course you're right Wolfie! He shouldn't give you a "blanket badgirl" spanking just because he thinks you've done something you shouldn't have. Although.........hmmmmmm....if he discovers something you've done and forgot to tell him about then that spanking would have already been covered by the "blanket badgirl" spnaking right? Might be worth it in case he discovered something later that might cause you an especially tender backside....Hmmmm? He obviously wouldn't go as full out for unknown bad things as he would if he found out something specific right?
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Reader_girl
New member
Username: Reader_girl
Post Number: 49
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, January 28, 2006 - 07:57 am: |
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Hmm...a 'blanket bg' spanking. I'd definitely work up a contract. Something like 'the party of the first part accepts the party of the second part's blanket bg spanking as discipline for crimes that may have gone unnoticed. The party of the second part releases the party of the first part from any further disciplinary measures that would have resulted from these misdemeanors had he known about them individually...."
Reader Girl
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Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 265
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, January 28, 2006 - 08:15 am: |
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Sorry...guess I didn't have a clue what I was talking about |
Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 271
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, January 28, 2006 - 08:22 am: |
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Ummmm Wolfie - Mr. B says to remember he knows too. YIKES....
I think I'd opt for the blanket spanking, but like Reader Girl says, make sure it covers all incidents that may come to light at a later date.
Are you REALLY sure you wanted to start this thread???
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1186
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, January 28, 2006 - 08:43 am: |
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Of course you did Tammy, I just dont think I explained myself well the first time.
Readergirl, I like the way you think!
Just remember Ann that it's your head on the chopping block! Mr.B wouldnt know if you hadnt told him....and if he says anything you WILL pay! I hope you can hear the theme music from "Psycho" in your head while reading this. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Rob
New member
Username: Rob
Post Number: 9
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, January 28, 2006 - 03:21 pm: |
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No, no. You definitely deserve a spanking |
Itchy
Spanko
Username: Itchy
Post Number: 405
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, January 28, 2006 - 03:35 pm: |
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well the way i see it what he dont know aint gunna hurt me lol mind u having said that he always knows wen ive done something unfortunatly he reads me like a book lol
"Evaluation has replaced torture as the primary means of social control"
Foccoult
ohhh how boring
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Kryssi
New member
Username: Kryssi
Post Number: 19
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, January 28, 2006 - 10:44 pm: |
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Okay, I know I have been absent for a while.. (you can all spank me later :D) but here's my two cents.
Tyr has always told me that not telling him I did something wrong was concidered lying by omission. So if I don't tell him something that I've done and he finds out about it I'm in deep shit.. no matter how long after the fact it is...
So, with that being said, I think there is some right that Steve has to spank you, however, if you are damn sure he won't find out about it, then technically he can't "prove" that you did do anything wrong.. so my answer to your question of
"Who is in the right" I say "Yes"  
*after all that philosophical crap, I bet you were thinking I was going to give you a straight answer* LOL
"I'm so tired of being here... supressed by all my childish fears"
Evanescence ~ My Immortal
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Katie_spades
Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 300
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, January 28, 2006 - 11:25 pm: |
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My opinion is is that open discussion is necessary and if you REALLY feel you do not deserve a spanking then no, you shouldn't be - this same situation has happened with Jake and I where he was going to spank me and wa talked about it and he decided I was right, that he shouldn't spank me and he didn't. However, if you've done a lot and gotten away with it, I'm sorry, but you really do deserve a spanking. honesty is the best policy and I learned that fast when Jake found things out that I didn't tell him and the spanking was much worse than they are now when I tell him because he takes my honesty into account and is more lenient.
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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Ma_vie_en_rose
New member
Username: Ma_vie_en_rose
Post Number: 8
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, January 28, 2006 - 11:51 pm: |
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from the point of view of your backside, I would say that it's better to have one spanking for all the things he doesn't know about than individual spankings for each, right? ^_~. I would say it depends. If you are telling him about them, then in as much, you do seem to be asking for a spanking almost (That doesn't mean you can't be indignant though ^_~)
And in answer to the title of this post: The sub is ALWAYS in the right ^_~ |
Darwins
Junior Spanko
Username: Darwins
Post Number: 115
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 - 06:02 am: |
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Ah…….such informed answers to the question……………and such varying opinions!
Am I in the right to do this?
Of course I am, I’m always in the right only its degree may vary. 
I think the young lady FAILED to give you one very vital piece of information.
As the young lady has mentioned she does not tell lies so here is an extract from a recent conversation where I had told her the blanket would take place. As you can imagine she was horrified and considered it to be unfair in as much as it was up to me to “catch” these things:
Dom: “young lady are there things that you have done which, had I been aware of them, I would most certainly have given some kind of spanking for?”
Sub: “well……yes………but you don’t know about them so it’s not right”
Dom: “so you would agree then that l am not going to simply spank you for nothing?”
Sub: “no……I mean yes………but its not right, I’m supposed to get away with things”
So there you have it members of the jury, a clear admission of guilt that crimes have been committed.
What say you now?
I'm a king bee baby Buzzing round your hive
we can make honey baby if you let me come inside
Come on babe lets buzzzzz a while.
(Rolling Stones)
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Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 269
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 - 07:30 am: |
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well damn...I much as I hate to admit it...I guess YOU are in the right Darwins. |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1194
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 - 07:38 am: |
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If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Tammynx
Spanko
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 271
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 - 07:40 am: |
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Sorry Wolfie  |
Ma_vie_en_rose
New member
Username: Ma_vie_en_rose
Post Number: 21
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 - 08:49 am: |
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My father told me about a trial for robbery which one of his colleagues had to go to. The guy pled guilty, admitting he had robbed the place, but felt that "they shouldn't convict him"... pretty much just because it was him.
...the trial took I think 45 minutes from beginning to sentencing. ...It might even have been 25 minutes (I wonder if the jury took a coffee break during that even ^_^;;* ))
I don't think the "Well, yes, I'm guilty, but *puppy dog eyes* You can't punish me" defense works unless you have some sort of evidence to back it up like a blowjob |
Ziggy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 2307
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 - 09:15 am: |
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I think he mite have a point there wolfie, sorry 
when caught run faster then him !!
I am a TA junkie !!
Hubbie is due back home in march.................pout stomp !!!
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1199
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 - 09:20 am: |
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But that's not what I'm saying. I'm saying that although there is the possibility I've gotten away with things, he cant prove it. And he doesnt know what any of those things are. So how can he discipline me when he has no idea of the severity/lack therof of those supposed misdemeanors? Each spanking should be tailored to fit the crime...how can this be done with a "blanket spanking"?
Although I guess I should be content to know that this spanking will cover all wrongdoing he doesnt know about from the last time we were together, and if he finds out about something afterwards I cant be spanked for it again.
Nope!
wolfie, who has decided to be stubborn 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Reader_girl
Junior Spanko
Username: Reader_girl
Post Number: 52
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 - 10:21 am: |
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Psst...Wolfie...if you're stubborn about it doesn't that pretty much guarrantee a spanking?
Reader Girl
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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 274
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 - 01:12 pm: |
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WOW - it sure seems to in this household.
Stubborn = spanking, without a doubt.
I'm not sure Wolfie has ever been stubborn with Steve before. I wonder if it works the same way in the UK as it does here? 
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1200
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 - 02:03 pm: |
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Humphf! No it doesnt, in the UK it means just the opposite. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Itchy
Spanko
Username: Itchy
Post Number: 456
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, January 29, 2006 - 07:47 pm: |
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ahhh! now the truth comes out lol im afraid i have to agree with darwins sorry wolfie
"Evaluation has replaced torture as the primary means of social control"
Foccoult
ohhh how boring
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Smartnnaughty
Spanko
Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 330
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, January 30, 2006 - 01:04 pm: |
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Wolfie,
If you are following the principles of Loving Domestic Discipline, the entire purpose of maintenance spankings are to be spanked for the little things that the HOH didn't catch.
So I have to agree that you should receive a discipline spanking. Disregarding everything said here, the bottom line might be: because Steve wants too.
I'm sorry. I have to agree with Steve on this one. I wish it could be different.
SNN
I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.
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Smartnnaughty
Spanko
Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 331
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, January 30, 2006 - 01:07 pm: |
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PS It isn't a court of law. Hiding behind having to have evidence won't hold water. Stubborn? Well, that is a spankable offense in it's own right. Does that mean you are getting 2 spankings?
Actually, I think if you yield to Steve on this one, your relationship will grow leaps and bounds. Let us know if that is in fact the case. Ok?
SNN
I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1205
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, January 30, 2006 - 01:56 pm: |
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We have never done maintenance spankings, it's impossible to in a long distance relationship like ours. I'm not sure that a maintenance spanking and a blanket spanking are the same thing as well. And I dont think being stubborn is spankable either if you feel your in the right. Is it better to just give in because your the sub, and feel resentful later on?
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 277
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, January 30, 2006 - 02:43 pm: |
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I think Steve is yanking your chain and you are buying it hook, line and sinker.
Any spanking that he may give you without a reason is going to be fun for you and fun for him.
Remember his tendencies to do the mind games with you. What better way to get you wound up so you can anticipate what he has in store for you very soon.
Take a feather duster over with you and tell him this is the new spanking implement for blanket discipline spankings.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Smartnnaughty
Spanko
Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 332
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, January 30, 2006 - 03:09 pm: |
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Ahhh, Beachley, a feather duster is an excellent idea.
Wolfie, perhaps you are right. The rules are different in a long distance relationship. I'm sorry. I didn't mean to offend you. Please forgive me.
SNN
I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1206
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, January 30, 2006 - 04:04 pm: |
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There was no offense taken SSN, I asked for opinions. I didnt expect everyone to agree with me...at this point Im not sure if I agree with me.
Even though Steve and I have been together going on 3 years now, I'm always learning more and more about how this relationship works. And being a sub is not always easy, especially when your Dom likes to mess with your mind.
Ann, if your correct then he's a dead man! I've been taking this very seriously, trying to work out in my mind the impact this has on our relationship and getting worried and upset because of it. I didnt even think that he might not be serious as well....I can never tell for sure. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Reader_girl
Junior Spanko
Username: Reader_girl
Post Number: 54
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Monday, January 30, 2006 - 04:15 pm: |
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"Is it better to just give in because your the sub, and feel resentful later on? "
Wolfie, I think it's best to express your opinion thoughtfully and then let your Dom have the final say, because that is his role in the relationship. On the other hand, I'm not real fond of mind games and have a tendency to refuse to play....
Just my 2 cents. 
Reader Girl
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Rosie_bottom
New member
Username: Rosie_bottom
Post Number: 6
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Friday, February 03, 2006 - 03:21 pm: |
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Hi Wolfie,
I'm with you but I think that's because I have a long distance relationship too and it sounds like Steve plays the same games that my Dom would.
Stubbornness alone would earn me a spanking though, so maybe it's time to concede. |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1231
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, February 03, 2006 - 04:21 pm: |
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Thank you Rosie, I think that stubborness would earn me a spanking too.
You know how sometimes something you think is fun can become serious...and get out of hand? This was one of those things. I have a difficult time telling when a person is teasing over the telephone, especially when the teasing starts out as a serious discussion (I thought). So although this question/dilemma was meant to be a fun diversion to take my mind off of some stressful things, I turned it into a big deal and got myself upset in the process.
Im even more mad at myself for not remembering that Steve loves me, wouldnt ever really hurt me and likes to tease. I know this, and yet in the heat of the moment...I forgot. 
Anyway, it's all cleared up and I cant wait until Im in his arms soon. He can spank me anyway he wants, anytime he wants and anywhere he wants...it's all fine with me. He is my lord and Master after all.
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Rosie_bottom
New member
Username: Rosie_bottom
Post Number: 8
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 03:25 am: |
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Now you're talking! Hope you let us know how it goes. |
Shylah
Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 629
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 04:14 am: |
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Wolfie...when you get to the UK...CALL ME!!!!
Sometimes I just CRAVE to hear another american accent. Hopefully, if you aren't too far from me, we can meet up!
When are you going to be here anyway?
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1235
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 07:28 am: |
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I'll be over at the end of the month Shylah, I would be glad to call you and chat. We'll exchange numbers before I visit. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 169
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 08:09 am: |
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Wolfie,
If I remember correctly steve does read this forum. So right now he is reading this whole post and he now knows that there are some stuff that you didn't admit to or write in your journal. I don't know if you should be spanked for this or not. Bill told me he would spank me if I was the person asking the question because to him it shows some guilt. I think Bill just want to spank me. That man thinks of reasons just to get me OTK bare butt. You woukd think that after 25 years he would have gotten his fill of doing it but no not my Bill
What is buggin me is this: He gives you a blanket spanking for everything he doesn't know than during your stay something comes up that you should have done or said does that mean you get spanked again? What is going to be covered under the blanket spanking?
Now if Ann is right and steve is only playing head games than I think you need to spank him (Just kidding)
Love can't always be seen or hear but will always be felt with your heart
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1239
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 08:22 am: |
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Red, you must have skipped my second to the last post up there....Steve was teasing about the whole thing. It was my fault that I took him seriously.
Yes, there are little things that I sometimes get away with that he doesnt know about. And if he spanks me for those then I deserve it. But you can rest assured it will be more fun spanking than disciplinary one, and we'll both enjoy it.
I cant wait to see what he has planned! 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Reader_girl
Junior Spanko
Username: Reader_girl
Post Number: 58
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 10:52 am: |
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I'm glad you got it all worked out, Wolfie. I'm looking forward to hearing aout all the fun you have over there - or at least the fun you are willing to share with us! 
Reader Girl
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1240
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 12:33 pm: |
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Oh yeah! 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Shylah
Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 632
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 02:45 pm: |
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*Jumps up and down all excited*
YES YES YES Wolfie!! Call me when you get here. Make sure you msg me in time for me to get you my phone number.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 171
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 03:42 pm: |
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Wolfie,
I did miss it So sorry. Have a great time and as I frist posted GG spankings only
Love can't always be seen or hear but will always be felt with your heart
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1243
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, February 04, 2006 - 10:40 pm: |
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Thanks Red, I deserve nothing else!
Will do Shylah. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 282
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 05, 2006 - 07:43 am: |
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hehehe - Mr. B picked up a nice little present for Steve/wolfie at the Fetish Fair Fleamarket in Atlanta yesterday. It is about 15 inches long with a little handle made of (Delin???sp) but they guaranteed that it would not break. It is about the size round of a the cord on your PC mouse. Very innocent looking but quite stingy, also sort of ticklish when dragged over the skin lightly also. She will like it and or hate it depending of Steve's use.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1246
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 05, 2006 - 08:08 am: |
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I'm not so sure I should say "thank you"... 
This thing sounds like a plastic switch! 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 174
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 05, 2006 - 12:09 pm: |
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W got a "friend" who does leather work to make us a flogger he gave it to us as a anniversay present. My face when I opened it was worth a million dollars I was so shocked. I got to try it out that night because Bill had to remind me to say thank you.
Please say thank you or Steve might decide as my Bill did that your manners need some adjustment
Love can't always be seen or hear but will always be felt with your heart
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1249
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 05, 2006 - 12:19 pm: |
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HUMPHF!!!
Thank you very much Mr.B. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 176
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 05, 2006 - 05:58 pm: |
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I'm proud of you even if you whispered it.
Love can't always be seen or hear but will always be felt with your heart
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Shylah
Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 640
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 05, 2006 - 06:56 pm: |
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My hubby made me what he calls a "present". It's a paddle in the shape of lips. It's painted bright red. He says it's for when I tell him to kiss my ass. He says he can use the color of the paddle to gauge that my butt reaches the correct color.
Gee...ain't he thoughtful??
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Pinkwench
Junior Spanko
Username: Pinkwench
Post Number: 68
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 05, 2006 - 08:58 pm: |
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My observation Wolfie is that you will enjoy whatever happens with Steve as your time together is so short.
I vote for the blanket spanking, doesn't that mean you get to be wrapped up in a blanket
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1252
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, February 05, 2006 - 10:23 pm: |
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Thanks Red.
Oh Shylah...ouch!
quote:I vote for the blanket spanking, doesn't that mean you get to be wrapped up in a blanket
Pinky is that the same thing as "messing up the sheets"?
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Sinderella
New member
Username: Sinderella
Post Number: 6
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Monday, February 06, 2006 - 01:59 pm: |
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Hmm, that is a tough one Wolfie. I'm afraid that he may have the upper hand (pun not necessarily intended lol) in this one. What I would suggest though, as a spankee, if you're concerned about the magnitude of the spanking and are worried that it would be an unfair disciplinary session, and if you have indeed admitted guilt to some action that he would see fit to spank you for, then maybe you should admit freely exactly what it is you did and let things go from there, and maybe it wont be so bad. I hope that made sense LOL. Good luck with everything! |
Katie_spades
Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 339
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Monday, February 06, 2006 - 04:32 pm: |
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If I'm not too late, then I send you the best of all wishes for good luck - I think you'll need it!
I'm sorry, but not as sorry as I'm gonna be.
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