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Username: Shylah

Post Number: 580
Registered: 10-2005

Posted on Saturday, January 07, 2006 - 04:33 pm:   Edit Post

Ok ya all,I HAD to post this as so many do not know how to spank but THINK they do!! Please pass it on to help educate others!!

How To Spank

Spanking is a much more personal and intimate than other forms of discipline. There is nothing quite like the feel of your submissive bent over your knee, bare ass arched upwards, quivering with a combination of fear and anticipation. For the bottom, too, it provides a very unique feeling - both physically and mentally.
Spanking evokes memories of corporal punishment many of us desire. For this reason, many spankees look for tops who fit the roles of authority figures.

Position & Posture
One of the factors that sets spanking apart from other forms of discipline is the deliberate and sometimes ceremonial positioning of the participants. While some spankings are haphazard, many prefer spankings that include the ritual of positioning.
Both the spankee and spanker adopt positions that facilitate and enhance the spanking. These positions generally work to the advantage of the spanker and the disadvantage of the spankee.
The spanker enjoys the following advantages from their position:
Whether standing or sitting, the spanker is positioned to be comfortable throughout the spanking. They are able to swing their arm at a natural angle and able to sustain a lengthy spanking with ease because of their position.

Because they are able to wind up and freely swing their arm at a natural angle, the spanker is able to apply swats to the intended target with force. While standing, the spanker cannot only swing their arm but rotate their body to deliver maximum energy to an anxiously awaiting, clenching derriere.

Full Access
The spankee's position is designed to fully expose their bottom and the spanker's relative position is designed to put that bottom at a convenient angle and height. Therefore, the spanker is able to view, tweak, pat and spank it.

Because the spanker is in the position to easily spank the rear-end at the correct angle, it is much less likely that a blow will fall too high or too low.
The spanker's position gives them the "upper hand" and allows them to easily control the spankee. They sit or stand higher than the spankee and are easily able to restrain and situate the spankee.
The spankee realizes the following effects from their position:
Relative comfort
Except for the notable exception of their backside, Many think it's important that the spankee be relatively comfortable so they can focus on the sensations being inflicted upon their posterior.

Bending over and getting into position to get your bottom blistered signals the beginning of the spanking and builds anticipation.
Increased sensation
A properly positioned bottom will tend to be spanked harder and more completely on the sensitive "sit spot."

Being put over the knee is a childish, humiliating posture. Having to "assume the position" is humiliating in its submission and rubs in the fact that they are being spanked.

A properly positioned bottom is fully exposed. The cheeks are fully presented and split, their undersides turned up. In the case of men, the anus and back of scrotum show. Women are even more exposed, their rectums and vulvas fully visible.

Emphasis on their bottom
Spanking positions place the center of attention on the bottom of the person being spanked, a fact not lost on said person. The bottom is emphasized by its exposure and upturned position relative to the spanker.

Presentation of their bottom
Not only is the bottom exposed and emphasized but the spankee feels they are willingly "sticking it out" and presenting it for its punishment in the same way that the condemned man must place his head on the chopping block. The spankee knows their bottom cannot evade or escape the swats.

Cooperatively getting into position to be spanked is the primary act of submission in spanking.

Although it may be of little solace, the spankee can take comfort in the fact that their position affords safety from injury. Of course, this can be disconcerting if they know they will be spanked with even more abandon.

Loss of control
Once positioned, the spankee has relinquished control and may not easily regain it until the spanking is done. They may have difficulty removing their rear from the line of fire.

Once the spanking is completed, it's always comforting and reassuring to give the spankee a cuddle and hug. To let them know that they are loved. This can be very important to some.

Hope this helps. Happy spankings!
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Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie

Post Number: 588
Registered: 04-2005

Posted on Saturday, January 07, 2006 - 07:53 pm:   Edit Post

Note: This is a good article and before anyone else asks, it's been around for years and the general consensus is that the author is unknown. I've seen it titled many things and in longer form. The web is funny that way!

Okay, that's it for my public service announcements for tonight.
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New member
Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 10
Registered: 12-2005

Posted on Sunday, January 08, 2006 - 12:55 pm:   Edit Post

I agree with Bethie..its a good article - especially for beginners who may be searching for more info. There are plenty of sites one can go to in order to become more familiar with the "art" of spanking too.
<----it just takes time and intellectual research
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Advanced Spanko
Username: Otktheplace4me

Post Number: 1498
Registered: 09-2005

Posted on Sunday, January 08, 2006 - 05:17 pm:   Edit Post

I have also seen this article...more than once...I am actually quite surprised that it hasn't been shared here before. Thanks Shylah
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Junior Spanko
Username: Katie_spades

Post Number: 158
Registered: 11-2005
Posted on Monday, January 09, 2006 - 12:46 pm:   Edit Post

Never saw it before but was very informative! Thank you for posting it!
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