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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 199
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 29, 2005 - 09:41 pm: | 
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There are always those buttons to be pushed.
The bratting that is inherant to being a brat.
But is there anything that you do that will get a reaction from your Top faster than anything else.
I found that out this evening. These 5 little words. "It's none of your business." Got Mr. B moving faster than I have seen him react in a very long time, I didn't stand a chance. 
I was not even trying to push any buttons, or be bratty. Sometimes you step into it and don't even know it.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Hunny
Spanko
Username: Hunny
Post Number: 732
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 29, 2005 - 10:56 pm: |
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Certain lines that I say are:
"Who named you king?"
"I'm too cold!"
"You're not the boss of me!"
Then he grabs my arm and takes me to the bedroom and retorts with:
"While we are in here I am king!"
"Let me warm you up then, sweetie."
"Let's see who really wears the pants in this house!" |
Babyj
Spanko
Username: Babyj
Post Number: 464
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 29, 2005 - 11:00 pm: |
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lol
I know exactly what you mean Beachley
I am constantly putting my foot in my mouth weather I want to or not
and hunny that would sertainly do it my dear |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 797
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 29, 2005 - 11:11 pm: |
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OMG Ann, I cant believe you said that to him! Can you even sit down right now? 
"You cant make me!" usually gets a quick reaction, as does sticking out my tongue or saying "You wouldnt dare!" 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 107
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 30, 2005 - 07:20 am: |
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The one that gets Bill doing high jumps to get me is :Whatever I don't give a F***.
The last time I said that you would have through he was in training for the US Olypmic Team he moved so fast. |
Golfguy186
New member
Username: Golfguy186
Post Number: 3
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 30, 2005 - 07:51 am: |
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What does the term your top mean? I thought I wasn't new to this...but maybe I am.
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Hunny
Spanko
Username: Hunny
Post Number: 735
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 30, 2005 - 08:01 am: |
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A Top is like a spanker, Golfguy |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 798
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 30, 2005 - 01:31 pm: |
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The Top is the spanker, while a bottom is the spankee. Gender doesnt matter. Tops may be dominant or not, depending on their personalities. The saying "he's getting Toppy" is a bottom's (or brat's) way of saying her spanker is getting dominant and intends to spank her. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Neoserenity87
Spanko
Username: Neoserenity87
Post Number: 281
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 30, 2005 - 02:43 pm: |
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I don't really have a top persay. I have someone that I mess around with though....but who knows where that's going. The thing that really gets to him is when I swear. It's so hard not too when I'm constantly surrounded with coarse language at my workplace and the fact that I grew up with it. But any cuss word from my mouth and I know where that lands me in the blink of an eye.
Kuwait here I come!!!
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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 200
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 30, 2005 - 04:31 pm: |
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Oh yea - by the way, my butt was a little toasted.
Mr. B's exact words were "I hope you are feeling better because right now it doesn't make a difference" Yikes. I was feeling better and so the spanking was not totally unwanted if you know what I mean. But I was certainly PINK PINK when he was finished. Not RED RED but a very nice shade of PINK. LOL
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 800
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 30, 2005 - 05:13 pm: |
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2 ice creams and a spanking? Lucky girl! 
Pink is very nice...red is an ouchie and means I was in big trouble. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 203
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 30, 2005 - 06:56 pm: |
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Funny thing - I just got quite a few text messages from ole Steve. Remember that sex shop - he was serious about YOU NOT going!!!! I am to let him know exactly what Mr. B does about it when, how much and with what. So that Steve can give you the same during your next visit. You know Mr. B he likes the CB - you better get ready little Wolfie. I definitely will let Steve know when I get my comeuppance so you will not be short changed and left out. hehehehe
You know Mr. B it will come when HE is ready to deliver it. LOL
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 805
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 30, 2005 - 08:20 pm: |
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Mr.B probably figures it was my influence that led you into temptation...so doesnt blame you one bit. Therefore I have nothing to worry about.
Besides, Steve wasn't serious...he was just trying to get a rise out of me. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 204
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 30, 2005 - 09:36 pm: |
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Um sorry there Wolfie his text sounded pretty serious to me. Something like -- he usually does not mind you going however, he distinctly told you NOT to go this time. Not the fact that you went other times or not. It's the fact that he told you not to do something and you did it anyhow. Naughty Wolfie. The funny part is he knew you would do it too.
He does know you so well doesn't he and as such he can get you to get yourself into trouble. hehehe
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 806
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 30, 2005 - 10:06 pm: |
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HUMPHF! 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Naughtybynature
Spanko
Username: Naughtybynature
Post Number: 108
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, December 01, 2005 - 06:24 pm: |
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Personally, I think Sex Shops are Great!! 
Did is a word of achievement, Won't is a word of retreat, Might is a word of bereavement, Can't is a word of defeat, Ought is a word of duty, Try is a word of each hour, Will is a word of beauty, Can is a word of power.
*(Unknown Author)
Don't take life so seriously.....it isn't permanent
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Spankingcouple
New member
Username: Spankingcouple
Post Number: 19
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, December 01, 2005 - 08:21 pm: |
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hi guys,
all i have to do is swear..swearing is an automatic demerit..andy is saying maybe we sould go to the cane for punishment spankings..andy ordered a cane and it came today..i have never had a cane used on me..it looks awful..
trish |
Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 205
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, December 01, 2005 - 08:33 pm: |
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Trish - I was petrified of the cane until Mr. B got one. I know they can be awful and can actually be dangerous. However, they can also be very senuous with little taps that get harder and then softer.
I have found that Mr. B exercises a lot more care when using the cane versus a paddle because he knows the cane can be more dangerous. So at times anymore I'd prefer the cane as he will use it easier on me than he will a CB paddle.
Just be careful until Andy gets the hang of it.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Spankingcouple
New member
Username: Spankingcouple
Post Number: 20
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, December 01, 2005 - 08:54 pm: |
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hi beachley,
thank you..i am rather worried that the cane will cut my skin..i don't want that..andy wants to use the cane for the punishment sesions..it's got to hut soooo much..i am crying just thinking about it..
trish |
Katie_spades
New member
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 1
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 03:24 am: |
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the cane actually is much nicer than you'd think - I was afraid of it but not that I have been caned, it's my favorite implement.
So naughty
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Kennysspankee
Junior Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 71
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 04:17 am: |
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Yeah but she's talking about it for a punishment implement. There's no fun in it used that way. It just plain hurts. Spankingcouple, be very careful with the tip, it can cause a cigarette looking burn mark, a scar. If it's slim 7mm and under it can break the skin if used very hard, and that will scar. If you see blood blisters coming up, don't hit there anymore till it goes away. If you break it, it will leave a scar. |
Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 213
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 07:45 am: |
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If considering the cane....I would recommend not letting anyone use it on you...until you've seen them use it on someone else. See that they know what they're doing. I've seen first time users....well, I won't scare you with the stories.
The cane is only as bad, or as sensual as the user allows it to be. The control is in their hand, with the cane.
The cane is not an implement to just pick and use, cause it looks like a good toy. It's a serious implement, and can go from 0-10, or oh la la to YEOUCHHHHH, very quickly.
K |
Spankingcouple
New member
Username: Spankingcouple
Post Number: 21
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 09:01 am: |
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thanks guys,
it's punishment night and i'm worried that the cane will really hurt alot..i have earned 6 demerits thoughout the week meaning 60 strokes with the cane i have never felt before..andy has told me it will hurt but he will try and be careful it doesn't break the skin but don't plan on sitting down for a while..he has never spanked me like this before it's always been over his lap with paddle..this will be all new to me..i am scared and it is all i can think about..
trish |
Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 214
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 12:57 pm: |
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I don't want to always sound like a know-it-all , but I do have quite a bit of experience.
First time caning...to get 60 strokes, is extreme, I believe by anyone's standard. Unless he's only doing a light tap-tap-tap, it's way over the top, and will cause harm.
Six-of-the-best, with a cane, done properly, is usually enough to get the point across, especially for a first timer.
And, if he has to "try" to be careful....I'd say it's GONNA hurt, and probably not in a good way. I don't mean any disrespect, but "trying" not to cause harm isn't good enough. If he doesn't have the confidence, as well as the ability to control the cane, it may be a very dangerous proposition.
Hate to tell you, but IMO,...you should be scared.
K |
Otktheplace4me
Advanced Spanko
Username: Otktheplace4me
Post Number: 1374
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 12:59 pm: |
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Just a thought...but if I caught a major brattitude and answer a question with "WHAT!!!" I would most definitely get a reaction...and then very uncomfortable...
Pout out loud!!!
Cpl. Brat 2
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Katie_spades
New member
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 2
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 01:43 pm: |
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6 is more than enough - I agree with Ftop. When I am caned for punishment I get bewteen 5 and 10 and it's a struggle to stay still for the last 5 - to get sixty even now that I am punished often woul be too extreme... Heed the concerns or you will have a very sore, possibly damaged bum...
So naughty
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Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 206
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 04:59 pm: |
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I have never had the cane for punishment - but I agree with everyone else. 60 is way way to much. The cane is not like a paddle or anything else. If Andy gives 10 swats for 6 demerits which equals 60 swats - HE NEEDS TO GIVE ONE CANE STROKE FOR ONE DEMERIT.
Note I say swat vs. stroke. Because that is what a cane is a STROKE not a swat.
He must be very careful or not only you but HE will be very sorry also for being the cause of your undue injuries.
NOTE I say injuries, not just a sore bottom.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Shylah
Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 473
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 05:34 pm: |
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I know a girl that has permanent kidney damage from a wannabe Top who was not properly using a cane. She also has muscle and nerve damage in her hips.
The term "6 of the best" is for a reason...6 is enough.
Be careful!!
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Rex138
New member
Username: Rex138
Post Number: 4
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 06:19 pm: |
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Hello,
I agree with most that the cane is pretty severe. If you are getting a punishment spanking then 60 is too much with the cane.
Getting back to the subject of the post, there are some great lines here that I may have to try out. Here's one that has gotten my backside pretty sore when I sit.
"I'm not afraid of you."
BUT thing that brings out the meanest implements is: "You shut your pie-hole."
BTW - It's an old joke said in jest but it still gets quite the reaction!
Rex
"Stixn'Stones Luv"
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 810
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 02, 2005 - 09:13 pm: |
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60 strokes with the cane would be cruel, especially for a first timer. I doubt anything you've done deserves that kind of punishment! I recieved 15 for breaking curfew repeatedly, and I was a sobbing shaking mess when he finished. There was no welts or broken flesh, just pink skin...but My Dom has been using the cane for ages and knows how to control it.
The thought of someone using a cane without a lot of practise on a pillow first, on someone whose never experienced it and will not be otk for reassurance, and has promised 60 strokes....I may kill this guy myself. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Sdhrts
Junior Spanko
Username: Sdhrts
Post Number: 83
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, December 04, 2005 - 12:30 pm: |
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I've herd enough about cane horror shows to never use one or have one used on me, at least by a newbie anyway. At some point someones hand will hurt as much as a bottom, paddles spread out the sting moore safely from my own experience anyway.
Is IT Better To Give Than To Recieve?
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Hunny
Spanko
Username: Hunny
Post Number: 800
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, December 04, 2005 - 06:30 pm: |
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My boyfriend is afraid to use a cane on me. They used a cane at his boarding school, and he thinks it would damage my backside. So I guess I'm lucky! |
Badkittybaby
New member
Username: Badkittybaby
Post Number: 1
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 05, 2005 - 01:13 am: |
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And here i thought saying "Leave my ass out of this" was a cleaver button.... |
Ziggy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 1415
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 05, 2005 - 09:40 am: |
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that one is a good one Badkittybaby
when caught run faster then him !!
I am a TA junkie !!
THREE MORE WEEKS BEFORE MY HUBBIE COMES HOME AGAIN
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Shylah
Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 478
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 05, 2005 - 11:51 am: |
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Can you believe I got in trubble just for saying
"I'm PERFECT and nothing you say will change that!"
sheesh...there just ain't no justice!!!
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Hunny
Spanko
Username: Hunny
Post Number: 815
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 05, 2005 - 11:55 am: |
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That isn't right! A girl should not be punished for stating the truth! |
Shylah
Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 481
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 05, 2005 - 06:52 pm: |
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Yeah!! and not only that...he called me a big brat!! Can you IMAGINE???
I'm crushed.
It will take years of therapy to overcome this travesty.
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Hunny
Spanko
Username: Hunny
Post Number: 848
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 05, 2005 - 07:15 pm: |
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No I couldn't possibly imagine! |
Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 218
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 05, 2005 - 07:18 pm: |
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So, Trish...are you still with us? Did you survive your punishment day?
K |
Hunny
Spanko
Username: Hunny
Post Number: 851
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 05, 2005 - 07:29 pm: |
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I hope she survived! |
Spankingcouple
New member
Username: Spankingcouple
Post Number: 22
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 05, 2005 - 10:38 pm: |
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hi guys,
yes i'm Ok. it was a very hard and long drawn out spanking. i have had some very hard spankings in the past but this one hurt more than i can put into words. andy had me bend over a chair and i had to count each and every stroke. i'm not saying andy gave me anything i didn't deserve because i did deserve a hard spanking. and it's not like he used full force either. i looked in the mirrow 2 hours ago and my bottom is striped up pretty good and still sore when i sit down. anyways so far NO demerits this week but i'm sure that will change}!
thanks very much for all your support. my bottom will be fine. after my spanking andy applied Aloe to my sore butt and that made it feel sooo much better...
thanks again,
trish |
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