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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 69
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 10:55 am: | 
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As many of you may know by now I met W when I was very young (16) and married him several years later still a virgin and very innocent of sex. W first introducted spaning to me and to be honest I took to it like a kid in a candy shop. Sex isn't ony when I get spanked but it is most of the time. I really enjoy it so does W. My question is how did you realize that spanking was what you wanted and how did you get introducted to it. Did someone do it to you and than you found it enjoyable, did you read about it or did you both gree to try and than found it to be great. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1690
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 12:06 pm: |
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I must have had a hidden, latent, undiscovered interest in the lifestyle until I met a bf at age 17. He introduced me to it and I was intriqued. I have been well spanked since that time. It gets more sensual and exciting as time goes by. Possibly it is the increased knowledge and exerience, along with me understanding better how my body responds.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Make_me
New member
Username: Make_me
Post Number: 24
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 13, 2005 - 08:37 am: |
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It was always in me from really young. I was never ever spanked as a kid, but the mere word or reference used to make my ears prick up and my tummy loop LOL.
I started work at 18 and met my first real (serious) bf. He was older than me and took no BS like i could usually give the other guys hehehe!
Anyway one day in work (i worked in a large hospital in the kitchens) I was flirting and teasing a few of the guys (lol i was only 18!!!)
My bf gave me this sly smile and told me not to go to far. Obviously i did because i ended up over his knee infront of EVERYBODY lol All the guys clapped and cheered, and i walked away rubbing a very stingy bottom.
I cant remember every feeling so turned on in my whole life. A few minutes later he came behind me and whispered in my ear that he couldnt wait to get me home and finished what he started. He could tell by the huge grin on my face that neither could i lol.
LOL thats how mine started anyway! |
Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 183
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 13, 2005 - 09:42 am: |
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Mine actual spankings started late in life. However early on any TV show with spanking in it, or reference to spanking always got my attention. It was something I seemed to crave, but never got as a child. Maybe if I had been spanked as a child that would have stopped my fantasy into spanking. But that is for another topic.
Finally I started surfing the web for that SPANK word and leared more and more and found out that there were many out there that are spanko's too.
Finally I simply told my husband what I wanted, what I had been up to on the web. He was kind enough to listen to me, to try to comprehend what I wanted and to take me to my first spanking conference with some friends I had met on the Web.
As he became more comfortable with spanking. He also became more into it himself. He has always been the dominat one in the house hold. Spanking gave him the outlet he needed when words did not seem to work on me. So that now I who used to have the control over the spanking when, where, how, etc. Mr. B has taken all that control from me and acts on his own. I have oftened wondered where the on/off switch was to Mr. B as I seem to have created a spanko husband. LOL
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1695
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 13, 2005 - 09:58 am: |
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Beachley, of course we can't get into a discussion of our childhood experiences, but from all those that I have heard from (in one form or another)agree that childhood experiences don't seem to matter. It is either something that you enjoy or not.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 160
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 13, 2005 - 10:02 am: |
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I remember spanko thoughts as early as when I was four years old. Never exposed to it then...as early as I have memories....just must've been born that way. I've heard from many others that felt the same too.
K |
Make_me
New member
Username: Make_me
Post Number: 25
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 13, 2005 - 10:36 am: |
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My earliest memories were from about 4 too. I remember making Action man spank my Barbies.
I think its just wired into our genes! |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1700
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 13, 2005 - 11:08 am: |
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This is too funny, Make me. I truly hope that Barbie consented to this!!!!
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 162
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 13, 2005 - 12:59 pm: |
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Heck...I'm in my forties, and MY Barbie has her own custom made "strap-on"....Ken's restrained to a cross, waiting for her blindfolded. You're just never too old!
Would she be called "Dungeon Play Barbie?"
K |
Tmichellebrat
New member
Username: Tmichellebrat
Post Number: 21
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 13, 2005 - 02:13 pm: |
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I have been exsposed to spanking all of my life. As a kid I was spanked ...my dad was a very strict Dominant in our home growing up. I discovered that I was attracted to Dominant guys and my first serious bf was a Dom and he is the one who introduced me to the spanking as an adult. The rest is history lol. |
Make_me
New member
Username: Make_me
Post Number: 26
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 13, 2005 - 05:29 pm: |
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My Barbie was a slut Fanny LOL she loved it!!
If Action Man was real lol i think he would definitely be on my spanking wish list too!!
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 75
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 13, 2005 - 08:02 pm: |
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Wait a second you all did know that Barbie and Ken are no longer an item. Matel introducted a new boy some surfer dude type. Seriously two years ago ona radio station they announced that a well know couple who has been together for over 25 years are splitting up. I thought they were talking about Paul Newman and his wife Joann (i can't rememeber last name) so like idots everyone in the office was guessing who it was and it was Barbie and Ken. Barbie wanted a more modern boy toy but I heard rummors that she misses her Ken doll and they will be back together. LOL |
Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 164
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, November 13, 2005 - 08:10 pm: |
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I think Ken probably just misses his Strap-On Barbie.  Once you have it, there's no turning back (no pun intended). |
Kayanthsmom
New member
Username: Kayanthsmom
Post Number: 25
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 15, 2005 - 09:15 am: |
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 to be honest with everyone i knew when i was 10 or 12 being sexually molested by my dad. i used 2 have dreams about getting spanked by famous guys that were my dads in my dreams. }
Little Spanked One
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1711
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 15, 2005 - 01:04 pm: |
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I am sorry to hear about your trauma, but if you read the rules and regulations page at the very beginning of the threads, you will know that we are asked to refrain from discussing childhood experiences.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Kayanthsmom
New member
Username: Kayanthsmom
Post Number: 26
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 15, 2005 - 10:23 pm: |
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 sorry but was just trying to be honest. won't happen again i promise}
Little Spanked One
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Poofette
New member
Username: Poofette
Post Number: 19
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 16, 2005 - 02:01 am: |
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My earliest memories of masturbating were to fantasies of spanking. I was pretty young then. (I was a precocious tot!)I think I thought if someone saw me doing what I was doing I would get a spanking and since I was already aroused..... I’d cum. Hence my delight in the very idea of spanking I suppose. Anyways that's my theory! Later on when I was a teen I somehow got the idea that having the other person being in control allowed me the freedom to feel and be aroused by anything at all and the "blame" was not on me. I certainly couldn't help becoming aroused or cumming if I weren't in control of my body or what was happening to it, now could I? Perfectly resonable of me wasn't it? I've spent my entire adult life looking for ways to "scratch" that particular itch of mine, however it started.
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Sugarpie
New member
Username: Sugarpie
Post Number: 18
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 18, 2005 - 10:39 am: |
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First of all...Redhinney, I love your name. It's to cute!
As for me, I've also been have been exsposed to spanking all of my life. Growing up I was spanked. Spanking was just normal back then. As an adult in college I also discovered that I was attracted to alpha males. Soon after that I met hubby, the rest is history lol. |
Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 81
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 18, 2005 - 12:54 pm: |
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Hi Sugarpie,
Sir William(my new nickmane for husband)actually gave me that name whne he said on day I am going to make your hinney as red as your hair. And he did. he does call me "RED" all the time which when I was growing up I hated but for some reason I love it when he calls me that. Someone once asked him why he called me that because they knew I hated it as a child and his answer was becasue she is red on top and bottom. I am sure the person was thinking pubic haor my husband was thinking my butt after a session |
Katie_spades
New member
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 34
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 09, 2005 - 03:21 am: |
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I was introduced to it when I was 19 but a boyfriend but I think I have always been curious. I'd hear my friends talk about getting spanked and I wanted to hear about it they talked, but I certainly didn't ask, LOL. I was always very embarassed by my interest. The wierd thing is is that as much as I wanted to listen, I don't think I really wanted one. I think I was scared... now all I do is think about getting one, LOL.
Please sir, I don't need a spanking. I'll be good, I promise!
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Sdhrts
Junior Spanko
Username: Sdhrts
Post Number: 88
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 09, 2005 - 12:52 pm: |
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I went to Catholic schools where spankings were given on a daily basis. Parents gave their blessings back then-today it's a law suit. I knew, like many, by the time I was 4 or 5 that there was something special about spankings. Now, to get a F top to dress like a nun....lol
Is IT Better To Give Than To Recieve?
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Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 228
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, December 09, 2005 - 02:10 pm: |
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<<<<<------dresses as a Nun for the "Back to School" party! My "Board of Education" paddle in hand, and around my waist are my beads....not my rosary beads...but a long set of ANAL beads!
K
PS Maybe I'll scan the photo the next time I'm on the old desktop, at home. |
Katie_spades
New member
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 44
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, December 10, 2005 - 02:52 am: |
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LOL Ftop... Sd, that would have been scary going to a school where you were spanked regularly. I would have been so embarassed getting a spanking in front of my classmates... oh my.
Please sir, I don't need a spanking. I'll be good, I promise!
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