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Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 148
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 11, 2005 - 08:32 am: | 
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I'm sure some of you have heard that (header) line before, or used it yourself.
Apologies if this was discussed recently, but another thread here, directed toward spankees, got me to pose this question.
Curious, to the spankers....do you enjoy getting or making your spankee cry out, or sob from the spanking? Is that an important part of it, for you? |
Spankingcouple
New member
Username: Spankingcouple
Post Number: 4
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 11, 2005 - 11:19 pm: |
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Hi,
I think it can be important for the spankee to cry..I think it can be very good for the spankee..My wife cries almost every time she is spanked..She tells me that she feels "complete and satisfied" after she has had a good cry.. |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 772
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 01:49 am: |
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I believe Steve has only said this to me once...and it was said in such a way that I dont want to find out if he meant it. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy.
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 66
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 12, 2005 - 10:26 am: |
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W's has an almost the same but goes like "If you think you are crying now, just wait I'll give you soemthing to cry about as soon as we get home" Never fails he did each and every time. |
Covert13777
New member
Username: Covert13777
Post Number: 22
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 15, 2005 - 08:58 am: |
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i think a top has a duty to make sure that there partner who is literally his putting there bottom on the line has a right to receieve what they want and within there limits. you can say whatever u want but there is another party to be considered. its a matter of trust and that trust cannot be broken. |
Tom
New member
Username: Tom
Post Number: 5
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 25, 2005 - 01:03 am: |
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HI,
I like threads like these. For me most of the fantasy of spanking involves a spanking to tears. It's weird cause I am not a sadist in anyway but if it is a real spanking for a real reason I just feel that a spanking to tears is more beneficial to both parties.
I am known as a disciplinary spanker so most of the ladies who have come to me came for discipline and they always expressed the desire to cry. It is true that all of these didn't cry even though they wanted to. They just say that it makes them feel more punished if they are spanked to the point of tears.
Naturally you can have a nice discipline spanking w/o tears but a grown woman over my knee being spanked until she is kicking, pleading, promising, and then crying like a little girl just really pushes my buttons. 
Bottoms Up!
Tom
"You might be a grown, mature woman but I am going to spank you like a little girl, darlin."
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1786
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 25, 2005 - 03:39 am: |
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***It's my party and I'll cry if I want to. ***
Tears are a wonderful release and has nothing to do with pain. With my biggest stress relievers I am crying before anything even really begins.
Then again I can have a tree fall on me (really happened) and say no more than "oh sugar" (or something somewhat nearly simliar)
(Message edited by fanny on November 25, 2005)
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 98
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 25, 2005 - 09:31 am: |
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Fanny,
I am sure the if a tree feel on you OH Sugar was not what came out. I suspect the words did start witht he same letters. |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1790
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 25, 2005 - 12:35 pm: |
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Red......were you listening? No doubt I was loud enough to be heard, NY is not that far from me.
Seriously, it did happen, we were taking a tree down and it didn't cooperate by falling in the "right" direction.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Redhinney
Junior Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 100
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 25, 2005 - 12:54 pm: |
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Fanny,
No I didn't hear you but W has this thing about me cursing so when I do and he ask me what I said I always come up with a word that starts with the same letter as the curse OH Sugar is just like soemthing I would tell him.
I don't mean to laugh but now it is funny but I am sure back than it wasn't. I hope you weren't hurt |
Kennysspankee
Junior Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 63
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 25, 2005 - 04:51 pm: |
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I was waiting for my husband to back the car (69 Acadian) out of the garage so I could get in, and he has this habit of letting the car roll forward a bit before he stops it. Anyways I was standing too close and he rolled right onto my foot across my toes (size 7 toes!). The whole neighborhood must have heard my "F---! You're on my foot!" (Sugar wouldn't have been suffice in this circumstance). He split my leather shoe. ( I really liked those shoes, too). My foot was pretty sore and man did that car feel heavy. Good thing we don't have a cadillac. This happened a few years ago and I make sure to stand well back now. |
Shylah
Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 457
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 25, 2005 - 06:16 pm: |
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My fella says to spank someone to tears is going too far. So no tears for me. I wear my heart on my sleeve as it is so crying is not hard for me. I think it's mostly that he just doesn't have the heart to spank me to that point...he says he loves me too much. Ain't he sweet????
And as far as a tree falling....if a man speaks in a forest and there is no woman there to hear it...is he still wrong?
Once I thought I was wrong but I was mistaken
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1797
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 25, 2005 - 07:11 pm: |
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K.S. Yes you are correct, you would have needed a much stronger word like maybe FUDGE!
Shylah, we all know the answer to that question, it is only rhetorical.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Kennysspankee
Junior Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 64
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 25, 2005 - 08:24 pm: |
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No, it wasn't the Fudge word. It has one too many letters! |
Shylah
Spanko
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 460
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 25, 2005 - 09:12 pm: |
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Did I hear someone mention fudge?
Once I thought I was wrong but I was mistaken
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Spankingcouple
New member
Username: Spankingcouple
Post Number: 17
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, November 25, 2005 - 10:06 pm: |
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HI everyone,
I was spanked to tears again tonight as I am every friday night..I was fairly good all week only 40 swats..maybe i cry easily i don't know..All i know is that i feel like a naughty little girl getting my just deseve. so are tears important to me,they are..i feel sooo good after a good sound spanking..
have a nice night,
trish |
Kennysspankee
Junior Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 65
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 26, 2005 - 12:15 am: |
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I have the best recipe for Fudge. Vanilla my favorite. A secret to creamy texture is don't stir the fudge while it's cooking as soon as it starts to boil. If you do, you'll get a grainy texture. Let it cool for about 5 min in the pot. Sit the pot in the sink with a bit of cold water in it. Then stir it quite ferociously. Keep mixing till it starts to look like its losing its gloss, then get it onto a non-stick cookie sheet and keep moving it slowly and shape it up and it'll hold its shape at this point. If you stir too much it'll start to set on you then you won't be able to pour it out. Let it cool, slice and scarf 'er down! Oh and to keep on the subject, if you blow it you get a spanking! |
Kennysspankee
Junior Spanko
Username: Kennysspankee
Post Number: 66
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, November 26, 2005 - 12:49 am: |
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OOOppps!! I forgot our tendencies to lean towards having a spanking, so let me rephrase that. If you make a good batch you get the spanking of your choice or of his choice, whichever you prefer. |
Katie_spades
New member
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 24
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, December 08, 2005 - 03:44 pm: |
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mmm... fudge and spankings, LOL.. Nothing better!
Please sir, I don't need a spanking. I'll be good, I promise!
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