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Username: Mistress_whipazz
Post Number: 2
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, November 10, 2005 - 01:36 am: | 
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I am new to this lifestyle and still adjusting. I am a mistress whose subbie likes to be spanked so I have discovered that, as of yet, it is not a punishment. I suppose when I am able to discover his limits that might change. The hardest thing is that we are not real time as of yet. It's quite the distance between us so he is reduced to self spanking at my direction. To make this good for him I try to mix up what I have him spank himself with. Can anyone make any interesting suggestions that maybe I haven't come up with? Also, I wondered if anyone else has entered into this lifestyle for someone they love and if it was difficult for them to adjust and what they might have done to make the adjustment easier. Since I haven't actually punished my sub, I sometimes wonder if I'll be able to go through with it in real time. I'm getting more used to watching him do it to himself and more into directing but does that mean I'll be able to do it when the time comes?
Any advice is most appreciated. |
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