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Redhinney
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Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 11
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, October 30, 2005 - 03:51 pm: | 
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As I mentioned I am part of a DD relationship which can also be classified as soft BDMS- it works for us. In my relationship depending on why I am getting spanked I might also have to spend time with my nose in a corner- skirt up so that W can see his finished product. Corner time to me hurts just as much as a spanking so it really is a good reminder.
One time I spend 2 hours in a corner because I wouldn't keep my mouth shut even after being spanked very hard. I was removed (notice I said removed) from the corner only to go across his knees again. Funny how my mouth remained close than. My mouth didn't open even when I couldn't sit for 4 days.
If you are a top what benefits do you see from corner time. If you are a bottom what is it about corner time that you either love or hate or just accept. |
Hunny
New member
Username: Hunny
Post Number: 13
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, October 30, 2005 - 03:54 pm: |
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I hate corner time because I am always so bored! |
Redhinney
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Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 13
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, October 30, 2005 - 04:59 pm: |
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Hunny
If I was you I don't think I would say that so loud. Let me quote what W says when I beg for no corner time. "Corner time is like a spanking if it wasn"t painful than it was worth the time" |
Hunny
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Username: Hunny
Post Number: 15
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, October 30, 2005 - 05:06 pm: |
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My top isn't getting his account till later today and I doubt he will look here anyway! |
Vulcano
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Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 48
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 06:28 am: |
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Well, I love corner time... well, if it's not too long. Bored? Oh, never. In fact, I'd never be put in corner after the spanking, that would be sure boring... but it's always at the middle... and all that goes through my mind... wow, the pain of my bottom, the anticipation, the thinking how and how many and how much will it hurt and will he end or will he continue then further and further on? Unfortunately, we don't do much corner time, only ocassionally, but the more I enjoy it. Well, I think that once we settle our current problem, I give him some time to relax not to ovewhelm him by so many demands... and then I'll try to let him know how much I love corner time... Even though, I guess that dropping some lines like "Wow, the way you let me kneel with my bare bottom waiting for the contintuation was perfect" from time to time might do the trick even sooner ...2 hours, no, just a few minutes, to have the time to reflect, it shouldn't be the punishment for me, it should be for reflecting and anticipation for me... |
Vulcano
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Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 49
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 06:30 am: |
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Wow, I must say I sometimes simply dream of him letting me the note, Hey, I'm on my way home, get ready for a proper spanking, I expect you to wait for me with your panties down...  |
Redhinney
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Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 18
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 10:39 am: |
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Because I am in DD relationship sometimes the spankings are for things I did punishment, it is usually than that I get corner time after the spanking. The one I mentioned above was the longest becasue even after get a spanking that hurt for days after I wouldn't stop being a brat W beleives that a true punishment must hurt or it isn't punishment. Me Standing in the corner for 2 hours really sank the message in but because I was being a brat even int he cirner I received another spanking- Let me tell you at that point in my life I was still working at the hospital as the nurse adminstrator in charge of the new information systems- We were just converting over to the new system and had many planning meeting each time I had to go to a meeting my butt reminded me exactly how much a of a brat I was.
Looking back on that and other events of my life I wouldn't change a thing. I have never regarded my life choices. W knows just what is needed and I am so glad that he does. |
Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 102
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 12:15 pm: |
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I see cornertime as adding a humiliation factor. Since I'm not into humiliation, I don't use it...but, I've had many partners that seem to really love it. I'll put them there...IF, it's what "they" enjoy (or need). It also gives me a break, physically, as well as mentally. I know it can build anticipation prior to the spanking, and I do enjoy teasing them, while their nose is there, but would prefer it was for fun...and not real punishment. I do view cornertime as "real" punishment.
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Ftopinmichigan
Junior Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 103
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 12:22 pm: |
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Oh...forgot to add this story on to the last post.
I have a friend that is truly into the more juvenile type punishments from spankings, bent over paddlings, cornertime, lines, etc. all combined together when he's naughty. He and his lady use dice sometimes, to determine the maintenance type punishments, or the "just-because-you-need-it" spankin's.
Each number of the dice represent a different number of minutes in the corner, for the first roll, and the second roll is to represent the number of swats. The numbers are considerably higher than the 1-6, on the dice though. The number 4 includes an addtional roll of the dice too.
I suppose this adds to the fun of it, while still getting what he deserves. There's also a lot to chance, which adds to the lose of control.
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Angelbabe
Advanced Spanko
Username: Angelbabe
Post Number: 842
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 07:06 pm: |
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I don't do corner time. I don't know why i'm just way to bratty and my master being new to this Hasn't quiet got the nack yet of making me do exactly what he wants Yeah ok when im bad my god punishment is sore and some of the stuff he uses ouch but me im bratty to the end even after being punished i full on refuse to go to the corner and he hasn't quiet got the nack of making me. So i don't and for as long as i can help it will not be doing corner time
I should be good, i should be good but being bad is so much Better
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1604
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 07:09 pm: |
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Why do corner time when things can get SO much more interesting? I'd rather be kept OTK than waste my time without any body contact.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Redhinney
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Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 19
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 07:54 pm: |
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I get corner time only when be spanked because I was a brat. Master feels that a punishment spanking shoukd not end up with us having sex because than the punishment does mean anything. So I get to spent time int he corner- of course after that it does become very hot but that's another story. |
Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 164
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 07:55 pm: |
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We don't do corner time either. We tried it once and the only way Mr. B could keep me in the corner was to stand there with me and hold me there which was so ridiculous that we both just laughed and headed to a movie instead. But then we were only playing and it was not punishment.
The few punishments I have had the thought of corner time did not even cross Mr. B's mind. He will seriously talk about the problem and how it is going to be corrected then spank and that is the end of it. After the spanking the punishment is over.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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Shadowrose45
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Username: Shadowrose45
Post Number: 11
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 08:26 pm: |
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I think corner time can be good for both parties, in a way.
First, though, I really do think it should only be used as a punishment--gives one time to think about what's coming.
But, it also gives the sub a break from a prolonged spanking session.
of course, I think corners suck, btw |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 670
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 10:08 pm: |
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I dont do corners, thankfully. Hopefully Steve will never change his mind about this. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.
HAPPY SAMHAIN!
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Angelbabe
Advanced Spanko
Username: Angelbabe
Post Number: 935
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, October 31, 2005 - 10:47 pm: |
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I don't know for me it's something more about corner time it just makes me freak i can't do it i hate it so much maybe it's being to proud to stand in a corner im not sure
I should be good, i should be good but being bad is so much Better
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Vulcano
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Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 50
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, November 01, 2005 - 03:52 am: |
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It's quite interesting to see how different our approaches are... I must say that in corner time, I don't feel humiliated... in fact, I don't know what exactly I feel there  , even my own pride doesn't tell me "hey that's not the right position for you". I don't even feel corner time as a punishment. Yes, I was put in the corner before one punishment, but my Top never really felt even the spanking as real punishment and I think it sort of influenced also my feeling about it... I guess, when you don't feel your partner really punishing you, it's not punishment in fact. Now, we don't do punishments anymore and still the corner time is something that deeply excites me. I think it's mainly because it prolonges the spanking and gives me the time to really realize what's going on... I guess, I'm a mind person in fact... and enjoy the next round even more. I think that if it exceeds some 5 minutes I would start considering it unpleasant punishment, but like this, it's something that helps me to go through all what's happening also in my mind, sometimes I wish to stop there... somewhere in the middle, feeling the hot bottom and expecting the pain to grow even more... but once I'm again at the receiving end, the end is soooo near and maybe I simply hate this |
Vulcano
Junior Spanko
Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 55
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 02, 2005 - 05:29 am: |
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Oh, I've realized what I feel in the corner time... it's sooo wonderful. It's something I feel either at the middle of the spanking or at the end, during the very action, my mind is blown away to realize it or enjoy the realization  . It's a very strong feeling of devotion, attachment, submission... a very strong feeling of bond between the two of us. It's undescribable.Bowing you head in respect and trust, giving your self to whatever he wishes for you however painful it might be... or feeling the power he has over you at the end... |
Redhinney
New member
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 35
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, November 02, 2005 - 08:07 am: |
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Vulcano,
It is most certainlyis submissive. I always view as respect. I say that it is tell W that I respect his decsion that this is the best thing to do at this monenemt. I have only spent one time in the corner for what I would consder a long time 2 hours only to be OTK again and not for the originial punsihment but because I wouldn't stop bratting him. Sometimes I do get dirreaha of the mouth and conspitation of the brain. That was several years ago. I only get corner time when I am getting a punishment spanking. I think the longest I spent in the corner since than is bout 15 minutes, it may have seen more but I really don't think it was I ask W why he does it and he told me that sometimes he needs a time out to get control of himself or if he caught me in something that I didn't know he knew like if I was going to sneaky about soemthing to get me to think OK what did I do before he spanks me. To allow yourself to accept corner time I feel is a total act of submission and turning the act of spanking completely over to your top. |
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