Post Number: 15
|Posted on Saturday, May 05, 2018 - 11:52 am: ||
I recently became aware that a small group of women in my neighborhood, who I have known for years, have a "Ladies Club" devoted to occasional spanking sessions to "blow off steam". They were sorority sisters or spanking pals in their earlier adult lives, who formed their group a few years ago renew their dormant interest in playful spankings and relive the past fun through birthday spankings, forfeits from board games or card games, etc.
I was intrigued that gals almost twice my age were still enjoying spankings, dares, forfeits, etc. They won't reveal any amount of detail about their "secret" Club sessions. I was grinningly told that I would have to join the club and pass the initiation to learn more !
I'm not sure if that invitation is serious or not.
But I still would be interested in contrasting the spanko stuff I am familiar with to what the mature ladies (or gents !) do !!
Would any of you have knowledge or experiences that would enlighten me ??
Post Number: 88
|Posted on Monday, May 07, 2018 - 11:45 am: ||
Find out more about the spanking group before you join. I and it is my personal believe spanking is a private and very personal experience. I would not want anyone to know
Again, in my experience, spanking a fifty years old and at twenty year are much the same. Playing in bed is fun, the paddle stings and the reasons for a spanking don't change - fun as well as punishment. My wife is just as embarrassed, contrite, and apprehensive when she knows she has earned a disciplinary spanking today as she was thirty years ago - bottoms still get pink and hot.
Post Number: 16
|Posted on Tuesday, May 08, 2018 - 10:26 am: ||
Chuck, thanx for commenting. My question wasn't whether seniors still indulge/enjoy spanking fun (or punishment). I wonder what types of scenarios lead to playful/role-playing fun. Excluding DD I mean...I see why that would continue.
The younger women and the couples I hang out and "play" with make up all sorts of games, wagers, forfeits, etc. as "excuses" to spank or torment each other. Some of that is kind of juvenile, so I was wondering if that sort of thing gets old/stale eventually.
Similarly, in my circles, initial embarrassment of being spanked bare or even naked in front of others diminished quite a bit over time, but not completely...from your comment, I gather that the titillation/excitement/adventure factor doesn't go away entirely even after many years (??).
I suppose I was asking whether older couples/groups "play" the same silly games, bets, dares, etc. as young adults might.
I hope this clarifies my question and gets a discussion of this or similar spanking questions going. This site needs some new life !!!!
Post Number: 13
|Posted on Thursday, June 14, 2018 - 10:37 am: ||
My step-aunt turned 45 and several of her female friends around that age, plus me and my sister attended a party for her. It was evening so some drinks were involved which helped make for some racy/feisty conversation.
There were several gag gifts presented, one was a miniature birthday paddle (more jokey than hurtful) and another was a set of very skimpy bikini bra and panties. During the evening everyone teased my aunt that she had to "make use" of her "presents", especially harping on birthday spankings with the cute little paddle.
As drinks flowed, the threats got a bit more serious and my aunt got more sassy/bratty about getting spanked. She reluctantly allowed that a birthday spanking was traditional (in days gone by. lol) but since there were 5 of us, 225 whacks would be out of question. We badgered her until she agreed to 50 whacks total, i.e- - 9 plus 1 to grow on from each of us !!...with the gag paddle, but us choosing details like position.
We took turns selected by drawing numbers out of a hat. The first 2 spankings of 10 each were given with her hands on knees. The next spanker was her ornery sister who demanded she drop her jeans. My Aunt balked, but the demand was within the rules agreement, and her sister threatened to have her strip completely !! So she took 10 on her panties over her sister's lap. A large amount of butt cheek was observable below her panty-line and she was getting red eventhough the swats were fairly playful. Her last spanking was from her best friend and she was required to strip to her undies for it. She tried to protest, but she was reminded that she was going to have to "model" the bikini undies present next. She took the last swats in just bra and panties.
After a short while, her sister handed her the bikini indies. She took them with a grin and left the room in her regular underwear, then returned, proudly wearing the skimpy birthday undies - the panties were almost a thong, lol-- which she had to wear for the rest of the evening.