Post Number: 24
|Posted on Wednesday, October 20, 2010 - 10:23 am: ||
We have been very busy with kids, school and projects the last few months and there had been only a little late night intimacy and no spanking at all. Wendy and I were unloading the car from a Samís trip last Saturday and discussing what we had done and what was left we had to do this weekend. Wendy had not done something she had promised to do. It was shopping for herself and I thought it was finished. I was not thinking about discipline or spanking at all when I ask her why she had not done it. She hesitated then offered some lame excuse and the spanking light bulb went off in my head. I gave Wendy a mini lecture about taking care of herself. My wife went from a hard charging manager with a list to a submissive wife trying to explain to her stern husband why she had not done what she said she would. I told her a good spanking might help with priorities and escorted her to our dressing room. We were alone in the house. I administered a sound OTK spanking.
All the tension and stress was gone from both of us. Wendy regained her composure and we went about our business. We did turn in early that night.
All that build up for one question. Does this happen to anyone else? Can an everyday event become a spanking situation that quickly. Would any of our female readers be offended if a spanking happened like I just described
Post Number: 23
|Posted on Wednesday, October 20, 2010 - 03:11 pm: ||
Oh my God yes! Whenever we go longer than a couple of weeks, we start getting cranky and sniping at each other. A full-on OTK spanking is such an excellent stress reliever.
I wouldn't be in the least offended by such a situation; in fact, they happen fairly often. Some of my sweetest spankings started out with Elle just making innocent inquiries about whether I'd been doing this or that for myself. It can be a demonstration of true caring!
Stay Pink! Love, Paula
Post Number: 112
|Posted on Friday, October 22, 2010 - 07:14 am: ||
Although my spankings are not really punishment, many of them start like yours did. He will ask about something or I will tell him about something that has happened, and out of the blue, it will become "You need a good spanking for that". Of course all I have to say is "You are right, I am a naughty girl". Isn't life fun!!!
Post Number: 352
|Posted on Friday, October 22, 2010 - 06:06 pm: ||
Play around spankings can start out that way, I can have a pinky/red to red/red bottome afterwards but those are pre-sex role play.
If it is a discipline or keep me in line spanking then I will know about it before hand. there will be sex afterwards but sex has nothing to do with the reason for the spanking it self.
If the spanking is for disciplne then it's more likely because of my attitude rather than something I did or did not do.
my name says it all
Post Number: 1
|Posted on Wednesday, October 27, 2010 - 11:59 am: ||
Hi, I'm new here, but not new to being spanked. Although there is frequently sex after a spanking, and my bottom has cooled off, most of my spankings are spontaneous & for discipline.