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Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 273
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, September 23, 2005 - 01:28 pm: | 
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Fanny had said something in the meet and greet area about non spanking discipline. I was curious to know what other forms of discipline could be used. Or what other types of discipline is used.
We usually don't do discipline (much to my dismay  ) but I am curious to see what other forms of discipline seems to be the most popular among us.
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Babyj4
Junior Spanko
Username: Babyj4
Post Number: 83
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Friday, September 23, 2005 - 03:44 pm: |
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well, when my husband is upset with me he sometimes doesn't let me do the things I want. You know takes the car away (unless it is an necessity) Doesn't let my pick what we watch on tv, and his favorite is the silent treatment. I hate that the most, he only gives a responce when he has to.
Babyj- worlds cutest little brat!
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Zippo
New member
Username: Zippo
Post Number: 8
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 25, 2005 - 03:25 am: |
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I like assiging chores. If for instace she didnt clean the floor, I'll make her scrub it with a tooth brush letting her know it would have been much easier to do it right in the first place. I have never been one to dole out the silent treatment as communication is the key to correcting behavior, though I will make her address me as sir for a period of time anytime she speaks to learn proper respect...and if she forgets she get a reinforcment to help remind her. |
Ouchie9166
New member
Username: Ouchie9166
Post Number: 2
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, September 25, 2005 - 05:22 pm: |
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I use to get time outs from my boyfriend but he has moved on to spankings. I really miss the time outs. I got mad last night and threw something at the wall. this sort of behavior use to get me ten minutes in teh corner but last night it got me bent over my bpyfriends knee with my pants down. Unfortunately spankings are a better way to change my behavior than time outs. |
Vulcano
New member
Username: Vulcano
Post Number: 34
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Monday, September 26, 2005 - 03:11 am: |
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Well, I wonder why spanking doesn't make me feel like a little girl with my boyfriend, while a non spanking discipline for sure would. Getting spanked should be more humiliating, but it's not for me... spanking for me is sexual, erotic or the pain works as a reinforcement of positive changes in my behaviour, nothing else does. For a non-spanking discipline, I'm over too much proud, I guess. |
Chuck
New member
Username: Chuck
Post Number: 11
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Monday, September 26, 2005 - 08:07 am: |
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I have experimented with non corporeal punishments with girlfriends and with my wife after we were married. The results were mixed. In theory any sanction or punishment that would apply to a teenager could be used to discipline a woman, grounding, withdrawal of a privilege, chores, corner time or exercise are some examples. For the most part this doesn’t work for us as it prolongs the punishment and ends up being a lot of work for me enforcing the sentence. A good spanking just works better.
There is one trick I still use from time to time. I require Wendy to ware a dress on the weekend instead of shorts or jeans. She hates it and finds it embarrassing. To be honest I thoroughly enjoy her discomfort.
Occasionally I have sent my wife to her room to think about why I am upset with her. This means go to the bedroom, sit on the end of the bed with both feet on the floor and wait for me to come and talk to her. If her attitude shows rapid improvement she can still avoid a spanking. She can get very sincere and contrite in a hurry.
Corner time in my book is serious punishment. When I give corner time it means stand at attention with hands by her side and nose touching the wall. This takes concentration and effort. CT builds resentment and anger in my wife and I don’t use it. Serious punishment means take your pants down and over my lap for spanking. After she has cooled down and calmed down we are at peace. She becomes serene and pleasantly submissive. |
Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 135
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 28, 2005 - 04:38 pm: |
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These answers are very interesting. I really can't think of much that we do as an alternate punishment. When I start to get somewhat out of line either in actions or words. Mr. B gets out my silver collar and puts it on. Only he can put it on or take it off. That in itself seems to calm me down and get me back on the right track. That plus a few emphatic words and a raised eyebrow.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
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