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Ej44
New member
Username: Ej44

Post Number: 2
Registered: 03-2010
Posted on Friday, March 05, 2010 - 11:45 am:   Edit Post

As someone who is new to this site I would be interested to hear about the most severe spanking other spankees have been able to take.
Over the past year I have been increasing the level of spankings I have been receiving as I feel that mild spankings no longer satisfy me.
I obviously trust my partner and he would never go beyond what I want.
But just interested to hear if other members of this site feel the need to be spanked harder the more experianced they become.

EJ
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie

Post Number: 2044
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, March 05, 2010 - 02:03 pm:   Edit Post

"As someone who is new to this site I would be interested to hear about the most severe spanking other spankees have been able to take."

EJ, what you're asking for is going to vary from person to person. What is severe for one person may be mild to another. You'll have to figure this one out for yourself. Just reading about what others can take is not going to help you figure out what's right for you. That is a gauge you have to set yourself. Besides, I always suggest that people take what they read on the internet with a grain of salt anyway. You wouldn't believe how many people lie about their experiences online. It's better to rely on yourself to answer this question.

As for how it evolves over time, that also varies somewhat. There are so any determining factors (age, hormones, illness, stress, etc) that a sensation that was fine one time could be too much another. I know I vary depending on all of those factors myself. I used to think I could take more now than when I was younger, but now that has changed some. It's not a huge change, but I've noticed it.

(Message edited by bethie on March 05, 2010)
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3711
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Saturday, March 06, 2010 - 11:59 pm:   Edit Post

Absolutely correct Bethie. Spanking is not a competition (at least not that I have seen at the winter olympics)

I am amazed on how much I can take on one day and how little on another.

I also don't think this is a good place to start trying to out-severe each other. We should stick to consentual spankings that we all enjoy. Okay, maybe not eenjoy at that particular moment of OUCH, but enjoy non-the-less.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Yorkie69
Spanko
Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 47
Registered: 01-2010
Posted on Sunday, March 07, 2010 - 05:16 am:   Edit Post

Yes Fanny I know what you mean. As I posted in another thread I've had a spanking that I thoroughly "enjoyed" that left me bruised for a couple of days. I've enjoyed many since that I thought were of almost equal intensity that hardly left a mark. Personally I would like another one that left some more bruises but that's just me. I don't want them all the time though. I think you have to build up to these things. But again that's just me. We are all different and what we enjoy mutually with our respective partners is all that matters. Sanity and safety must prevail, especially if our partners are not into spanking as we are.
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Ej44
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Username: Ej44

Post Number: 3
Registered: 03-2010
Posted on Monday, March 08, 2010 - 06:37 am:   Edit Post

Appreciate all the comments. It is great to be able to share some thoughts with like minded people.
Just wondered if other users of this site had similar experiances to mine.

EJ
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Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie

Post Number: 298
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Tuesday, March 09, 2010 - 07:35 am:   Edit Post

My spankings vary in just how intense they are, my mood has a lot to do with it, most times it is just OTK paddle and bathbrush, other times it's the strap after being OTK.that happens ever so often.

Have been making visits to my Chiropractor this past month, so spankings are on hold,. maybe this weekend Hubby will be able to give me a real "good one"....I sure need one..
my name says it all
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Ej44
New member
Username: Ej44

Post Number: 4
Registered: 03-2010
Posted on Friday, March 12, 2010 - 07:55 am:   Edit Post

My partner and I have been planning a big one for me this weekend so will post the details on Monday.
Excited at the thought but I know it will be painful but that is what I need so I will be sore for a couple of days.

EJ
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Admin
Board Administrator
Username: Admin

Post Number: 135
Registered: 03-2005


Posted on Friday, March 12, 2010 - 11:33 pm:   Edit Post

Ej, remember I insist that we keep this area for discussions so if you want to post details, you'll have to take it to the stories area. Thank you!
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Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman

Post Number: 100
Registered: 07-2008
Posted on Wednesday, March 17, 2010 - 04:17 pm:   Edit Post

Neither my wife nor I are spanked beyond the point of taking a week to 10 days to heal. I heal faster, so I get it harder and longer.

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