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Spankdudecali
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Username: Spankdudecali

Post Number: 2
Registered: 08-2009


Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 06:59 pm:   Edit Post

I love both ! Is that odd at all? Does anyone else feel this way?? By the way, I'm new here. My name is James, i'm 28 and from California. I love this site already (: Anyway getting back to my topic, anyone else here feel as I do? I honestly can't say I can pick one over the other, I love to spank and be spanked, and i've been fortunate enough to have been able to experience both !
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Boomer
Spanko
Username: Boomer

Post Number: 35
Registered: 07-2008
Posted on Wednesday, August 19, 2009 - 10:39 pm:   Edit Post

Spankdude:

You are certainly not alone.
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Peachybot
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Username: Peachybot

Post Number: 14
Registered: 10-2008
Posted on Thursday, August 20, 2009 - 04:43 am:   Edit Post

i prefer to spank but i also like spanking, for a change and to experience what i dish out.

for spanking i prefer other girls, especially but not not exclusively my girlfriend. i normally spank men if asked to by their wife or girlfriend when they want to spice it up a bit. the men get a bit uncomfortable being spanked by another woman in front of their partner, which of coure is part of the punishment and hence the fun, for both the man and the woman. however i have some single male friends i spank as well. i find women take a hard spanking much better than men. they are better able to choke back their emotions as the paddle or whatever lands and keep still, much more obedient in assuming whatever position they are told to and oddly enough much more tolerant of nipple clamps. and women have such cute arses.

if i am spanked i don't mind if it is by a man or a woman. with a woman there are all the delicious lesbian overtones. with a man there is the embarassment of showing your arse, or more, to a man. a couple i play with sometimes blindfold me, give me six spanks each and i have to guess who gave which spanking. if i guess right i spank them. if not i have to do some sort of forfeit, a striptease for them perhaps; or watch them make love, perhaps even rolling the condom onto the man and removing it afterwards.

with spanking there are so many permutations of powerplay and eroticism i feel it is too limiting to restrict yourself to one role or the other.

peachybot
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Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie

Post Number: 239
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Thursday, August 20, 2009 - 05:08 am:   Edit Post

As my name says, I am the one who gets spanked, not that I couldn't or woudn't become the spanker, it's just Hubby is the top and woldn't get into being a switch.

that doesn't mean I don't give him a spank or two when we are fooling around, a little play wrestle on the bed, or i just might give him one, just to get him to pull me over his knee for a good one.

Have never been spanked by anyone else other then Hubby, don't see it happing, don't think he would ever approve of that, but it is somethinng to think about.
my name says it all
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Oftenred
Spanko
Username: Oftenred

Post Number: 58
Registered: 02-2007
Posted on Thursday, August 20, 2009 - 06:43 pm:   Edit Post

I guess I do enjoy both...but mostly recieving...I have spanked a few others, but really get more pleasure just knowing that what I am doing makes them happy more than me enjoying the actual giving of the spanking.
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Slavegirl
Spanko
Username: Slavegirl

Post Number: 28
Registered: 09-2008
Posted on Friday, August 21, 2009 - 10:02 am:   Edit Post

As you can guess from my name I like to be spanked.

I have never spanked anyone and cannot imagine doing so.

But that does not stop my adrenaline rush of anticipation when my master beckons me with that look in his eye and orders me to bend over or strip or go into whatever position he wants before he tans my bum and then has his way with me.

Slavegirl
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Houjami
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Username: Houjami

Post Number: 13
Registered: 02-2008
Posted on Sunday, August 23, 2009 - 05:35 pm:   Edit Post

I have always been turned on by being spanked but every man who has given me an erotic spanking has always wanted to be spanked. They always would bring it up later and very nervously, but I could always tell it was always something they had fantasied about. I prefer being on the receiving end most of the time but since my husband really enjoys me spanking him I enjoy putting him over my knee any time he asks or puts himself in the traditiional position for a spanking. Knowing how much it turns him on really gets me off. He likes a little harder spanking than I can do comfortably with my hand, so I usually start with my hand then after I warm him up I use my bedroom slipper. We also have a 5 gallon paint paddle which makes quite a bit of noise and looks more fierce than it is. I love it when he uses that on me rubbing it in a circular motion on my cheeks mixing in some stinging loud slaps. I might have to leave the paddle on the bed tonight as the thought of it is turning me on.

I think there are a lot of men out there that do like to be spanked, or at least like a spanking sometimes in erotic play. Naturally everyone is different in their likes and dislikes, but I think there are a lot of people who do a little spanking in the bedroom. Perhaps a little spanking and massaging, or a swat or two during lovemaking.

Then there are others like most of us here on the board who can admit to each other that sometimes we just need a spanking, and hopefully have someone who understands and can can oblige.
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Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman

Post Number: 91
Registered: 07-2008
Posted on Sunday, August 30, 2009 - 02:55 am:   Edit Post

My wife and I are both 50/50 switches, but on any given day, we vary on either side of the middle line.
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Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman

Post Number: 92
Registered: 07-2008
Posted on Sunday, August 30, 2009 - 05:57 am:   Edit Post

oops!

(Message edited by tawseman on August 30, 2009)
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Strapped
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Username: Strapped

Post Number: 1
Registered: 09-2009
Posted on Sunday, September 13, 2009 - 08:44 pm:   Edit Post

I love spanking, and really like being spanked. Fortunately, my wife is a willing, but not excited spanker, and a developing spankee.
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Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie

Post Number: 252
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Tuesday, September 15, 2009 - 09:24 pm:   Edit Post

Strapped, I understand your love of spanking, and there are many more who feel the same, I sort of view this as a trip, My Hubby and I started out at ground zero and are now on our journay, exploring different aspects of having spankigs part of our life.
in doing so we have also learned more about each other as well as ourselves. I view spankings in our life like a bottle of fine wine, it's better as it ages, good luck to you and your wife
my name says it all
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 2731
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Wednesday, September 16, 2009 - 11:26 am:   Edit Post

I know from my on-line experinece and from attending parties that many men like to be spanked and they aren't always up front about it.

It was a real shock to me when an on-line friend (male) out of the blue wanted me to "cyber" spank him. So we played out the scene on line. Not something I wanted to do again...but I went along with it. From then on that is all he wanted.

I'm not a spanker...just isn't me. I think its great if a couple both switch and they both LIKE to switch.

I have no desire to spank my husband and I'm SO glad he has no desire to be spanked.
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Rhodan
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Username: Rhodan

Post Number: 4
Registered: 06-2009
Posted on Monday, September 21, 2009 - 11:35 am:   Edit Post

Im still experiencing my fantasies that were submissive of course and Ill definitely will live up to them someday. But knowing my sex drive I know that if Ill ever get laid I want to OWN woman during lovemaking and becouse of that to give her behind a hell.S, yeah, its pretty much 50/50 for me.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3690
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Tuesday, September 22, 2009 - 11:35 am:   Edit Post

I deleted your additional post, as the first one gives enough informaion and the one second one had underage reference, which by site protocol is not allowed. Thanks for understanding.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Rhodan
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Username: Rhodan

Post Number: 6
Registered: 06-2009
Posted on Wednesday, September 23, 2009 - 01:26 am:   Edit Post

I would like to be punished for that but I am too far away from you.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3691
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Wednesday, September 23, 2009 - 10:14 am:   Edit Post

I am a moderator not a domme. No doubt you have someone closer to you for punishment, if needed.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Rhodan
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Username: Rhodan

Post Number: 7
Registered: 06-2009
Posted on Friday, September 25, 2009 - 02:09 am:   Edit Post

Just joking...
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Rimfire
Spanko
Username: Rimfire

Post Number: 21
Registered: 11-2009


Posted on Saturday, February 27, 2010 - 02:31 pm:   Edit Post

i have never been spanked,to be dominated would be fun..but it would take a special lady to muscle a man who is a redneck his whole life.
letting down your guard...takes time-trust.
it certainly is abit confusing why we like it so much..but you cant deny the truth!
Spanking is very erotic,it can hurt but in moderation can be fun..
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Say_uncle
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Username: Say_uncle

Post Number: 7
Registered: 06-2010
Posted on Sunday, June 27, 2010 - 08:58 pm:   Edit Post

I am looking for my first both ways
I want to give it and get it maybe not on the same day
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Badgirl12
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Username: Badgirl12

Post Number: 1
Registered: 08-2010
Posted on Wednesday, August 11, 2010 - 06:51 am:   Edit Post

I love spanking and being spanked but I definitly prefer being spanked. Sometimes me and my husband play role plays, like I have to put on a school girl outfit or something, then he'll turn me over his knee, lift up my skirt and pull down my white panties. Then he'll spank away then if he's really in the mood I have to do "corner time" but that's only if it is an erotic spanking. Sometimes I am spanked for dicipline if I do not do the washing or grocerie shopping he'll just turn me over his knee and spank me then and there no matter who's there. Once I was chatting to the plumber when he was supposed to be fixing our sink and my hubby came in early from work and saw and he spanked me in front of the plumber. It was really embarrassing but the experience was nice. He spanked me with a wooden spoon straight from the kitchen bare bottom! Later that night he spanked me again and then we made love.
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Batfinch
Spanko
Username: Batfinch

Post Number: 21
Registered: 04-2006


Posted on Thursday, August 12, 2010 - 03:14 pm:   Edit Post

A switch has the best of both worlds
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Yorkie69
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Username: Yorkie69

Post Number: 3
Registered: 08-2010
Posted on Friday, August 27, 2010 - 06:44 am:   Edit Post

I love to be spanked by my wife. We've been involved in this lifestyle since the start of this year. I sometimes fantasize about spanking her but it's just not her thing. Fortunately I prefer to have her spank me as it's a great turn on. And the more we do it the better she gets. Life's good.

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