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Hurtsogood
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Username: Hurtsogood

Post Number: 1
Registered: 05-2009
Posted on Wednesday, May 27, 2009 - 08:27 pm:   Edit Post

I’m a Newbie here at posting but have spent many months, ok
years lurking here only to learn many things. Now I need your
help.

My daughters mom, (I never married 30 years ago), has visited
me a few times over the last 10 years and while it was good to
see her, she always had a nice glowing rear when she left.

The last time we went to the toy store and she picked out some
wrist and ankle cuffs, ball gag, and a nice wooden paddle. She
enjoyed the spanking from my hands, and even the first few
swats from the paddle.. But that was all she could take. Some
how she got the ball gag out of her mouth even when tied bent
over a chair.

We are meeting again.

She told me to find a way to keep her in position (bent over) so she
can not get free, and to make it where her screams of pain can not
be heard, or be able to tell me to stop, until she got all her swats.

Her words to me was make it happen, make my ass black and blue
so I can’t sit on the plane on my way home.

<sorry but underage reference is not allowed here, please read site protocol>

She said she wants that feeling like riding a roller coaster when it
gets up to the top of the hill and you wish you never got on it, but
your beyond the point of no return and it’s going to happen no matter
what you say or do.

During the ride your thinking to yourself oh shit what did I get
myself into, but when the ride stops, you feel a rush of pleasure.

She sent me a link to a ball gag that also fits over her head and would
make it impossible to get it out of her mouth. It’s almost like a full
head mask or cover.

She sent me a picture of a woman in Wrist and Ankle stock that had
her kneeling with her wrists and ankles behind her. While I see this
put the butt in a good position, is it safe and can she get out of it?

We spoke again today. She said she has been thinking about how she
will be screaming from the pain but no one will hear it. She said she
pictures herself squirming and trying to get out of the restraints but
nothing she does works. We stay in hotels when she is here, so
whatever it is, it has to be small and portable.

Will a ball gag keep her quiet if I can keep it in? Is there restraints
that don’t hurt and are comfortable? Anyone experience the stocks
she talked about?

She sent me a video from a spanking web site earlier where the woman
got 20 swats with a wooden paddle. She replied back to me saying
I want 50 just like that… Her ass was on fire and she was dancing from
just 20 swats.. She said, good thing is I’ll not be able to move like she
did.

She says if she is going to get a real spanking, and it will most likely
be her 1st and last as an adult then she wants it to be more then she
expected and not less.

Any ideas on restraints and keeping her quiet?

50% of me says to give her what she wants and the other 50% of me
says to walk away from this as this is someone I know and I never
gave a good spanking to a person I know…

I have used restraints before, but they were like props and were just
used to play the part. What she wants is real and I’m not sure if I
can do it, but if I’m to try I want to do it right.

(Message edited by fanny on May 28, 2009)
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Gentlemalekitty
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Username: Gentlemalekitty

Post Number: 2
Registered: 05-2009
Posted on Thursday, May 28, 2009 - 01:48 am:   Edit Post

Message edited for unauthorized publicity

(Message edited by fanny on May 28, 2009)
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 2720
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Friday, May 29, 2009 - 12:20 pm:   Edit Post

Hurtsogood... I can't remember ever being quiet for a spanking. I'm intrested to see what you come up with.
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Tawseman
Spanko
Username: Tawseman

Post Number: 77
Registered: 07-2008
Posted on Friday, May 29, 2009 - 12:50 pm:   Edit Post

The position you describe sounds like a stock that holds the wrists and ankles on a single board while she kneels. This really bends the body sharply, making the bottom stick up and out. This is great visually and for accessibility, but is too bent-over for our preferences.

Damage could result with a stiff, heavy paddle. The thinner the lady, the greater the possibility of serious damage.

I prefer to use something non-flexible, such as a wooden paddle, on a relaxed bottom, not a bent-over one. The bottom will have less deep damage, but no less pain if she is tied spread-eagled on a bed. A position somewhere between the two is standing, with the torso on a table. The ankles can be tied to the legs on one side, and the wrist ropes tied to the other side. This position allows a degree of resilience to lessen serious damage.

I deliver harder strokes when I do not have to worry about deep damage, so any efforts to protect her bottom from serious damage could end up giving her a better spanking.

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