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Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 193
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Monday, April 20, 2009 - 10:09 pm: | 
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Are you just submissive when your partner wants to dominate you, is it spanking time only when you are submissive.are spankings just erotic or are they because you need your submissive needs taken care of. or does punishment play a factor in your spankings.or all of the above.
Do you have any rules you must comply with, or have some restrictions on what you are allowed or not allowed to do.
Last question how would you rate your marriage/releationship, as 50/50 or something else...subbie
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Slavegirl
Spanko
Username: Slavegirl
Post Number: 19
Registered: 09-2008
| | Posted on Saturday, April 25, 2009 - 09:59 am: |
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my marriage is great and enhanced by our discipline sessions.
we have no explicit rules but if i want a spanking i wear a short skirt and bend over in front of him.
if he is in the mood (we both have to be) he then tells me i've been naughty and i have to pay a forfeit or get spanked or both. he often cues me for role play eg "nurse/maid your skirt braches hospital/hotel rules about its length".
if he is in the mood first he just eyes my bum in a certain way, or tells me not do something. if i am in the mood i do it!
we don't spank unless we are both in the mood. he certainly does not spank me just as punishment, we have an equal marriage and that goes for the spanking as for everything else.
i don't spank him. neither of us has ever fancied that.
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Subbie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 199
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, April 26, 2009 - 06:28 pm: |
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For me all spankings are a sexual turn on, I prefer that hubby just takes me to the bedroom and tell me I'm getting spanked,at times I do let hm know that I need one but like it better when he just takes control.
Also like it when he puts a collar on me and I am the sub during non spanking evenings, just having him as the Dom is a turn on for me.adds a lot to our sex life.
we role play punishment but I've never been spanked as for real punishment, do enjoy feeling it the next day at work, gives me a inner smile...Subbie
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