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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3562
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Wednesday, September 10, 2008 - 05:37 pm:   Edit Post

Just out of curiousity.......

how frequently are you spanked in real life?

Is it often enough or too much?

How often would you like to be spanked if the world didn't keep getting in the way?
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Lovinglife
New member
Username: Lovinglife

Post Number: 10
Registered: 08-2008


Posted on Wednesday, September 10, 2008 - 07:36 pm:   Edit Post

how frequently are you spanked in real life?
I'm spanked around three to four times a month

Is it often enough or too much?
It's usually not enough, it's a time for me to just release some stress and be close to my boyfriend, and well, there's a lot of stress and with him working fifty hours a week and me in school, we don't have a lot of time to be close

How often would you like to be spanked if the world didn't keep getting in the way?
I would like to be spanked on a consistent basis at least once a week, with generally another spanking in the week when warranted, needed, wanted, etc.
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Maren_s
Spanko
Username: Maren_s

Post Number: 28
Registered: 08-2008
Posted on Wednesday, September 10, 2008 - 09:26 pm:   Edit Post

how frequently are you spanked in real life?
When hubby and I are living in the same house, I get spanked 1-2 times a week. Not counted in this, are the single swats or playful 4 or 5 swat spankings when I get playfully lippy. These occur on nearly a daily basis.

Is it often enough or too much?
Absolutely depends on what kind of spanking it is. For fun or maintenance, I could definitely be spanked more often.

How often would you like to be spanked if the world didn't keep getting in the way? Daily or every other day would work, so long as the spankings were fun, or maintenance. Real, serious spankings I like just the way it is, on an as needed basis.
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Boomer
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Username: Boomer

Post Number: 11
Registered: 07-2008
Posted on Wednesday, September 10, 2008 - 11:01 pm:   Edit Post

how frequently are you spanked in real life?
Once a month or two.

Is it often enough or too much?
Not anywhere near enough.

How often would you like to be spanked if the world didn't keep getting in the way?
The world gets in the way a lot. Once a day would be nice, but I would also opt for once or twice a week.
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Spnkmisskitty
New member
Username: Spnkmisskitty

Post Number: 3
Registered: 09-2008
Posted on Wednesday, September 10, 2008 - 11:04 pm:   Edit Post

how frequently are you spanked in real life?
Serios spankings on an as needed basis. Fun or maintenance spankings 3 or 4 times per week.

Is it often enough or too much?
I wouldn't mind being spanked daily and at least twice a week for serious spankings. I can be pretty obnoxious and have a pretty big mouth and get rally serious spankings quite a bit. My boyfriend actually just began seriously spanking me within the last month or so.

How often would you like to be spanked if the world didn't keep getting in the way? Daily is fine with me and really seriously hard spankings on an as needed basis are just fine with me because my boyfriend spanks very hard and even a hand spanking from him can last a long time and seriously hurt. Don't get me wrong I am not complaining at all all spankings I get are well deserved.
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Ruinae8
Spanko
Username: Ruinae8

Post Number: 32
Registered: 03-2007
Posted on Thursday, September 11, 2008 - 06:29 pm:   Edit Post

Fanny,what a great question / survey!
In the real world right now - nothing - nada - !
What I was used to: daily, and switch
What I would like if the world did not get in the way? daily and switch.
I am all in favour of the punishment spankings when they are warranted, but the problem is they do kinda get in the way of follow up spankings the next day - due to marks/bruising.
Oh well we can't have everything
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Wolfie
Prime Spanko
Username: Wolfie

Post Number: 1898
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Thursday, September 11, 2008 - 11:13 pm:   Edit Post

Normally I get spanked every 4-5 months...but at that time I get spanked a lot. Sometimes I go to parties or get to play in between times.

Its definitely not enough in my opinion.

If I had my druthers I'd like to be spanked daily, or at least 3-4 times a week. Oh well, I'll take what I can get.
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.

Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie

Post Number: 1901
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, September 12, 2008 - 02:26 am:   Edit Post

How frequent? I get at least a few swats everyday. I live with a spanko so that's just life around here. I get quickie spankings every couple of days and at least one big spanking a week. I equate quickie spankings to quickie sex for vanilla folks. Ya gotta have it but some days there's just no time for all the extras.

Often enough? Almost. The quickies keep me from getting crazy, but in my dreams, I could use more of the big spankings.

How often if life didn't get in the way? I'm greedy so I could get big spankings every single day. That's not realistic though. We've tried that and it worked for almost a week before we had to take a break. I loved it, but we eventually had to get back to a normal existence. People were starting to wonder what became of us and we're not spring chickens, after all.
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 2640
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Friday, September 12, 2008 - 11:46 am:   Edit Post

how frequently are you spanked in real life?

Maybe 3 or 4 times a month.


Is it often enough or too much?

It is NOT often enough!!

How often would you like to be spanked if the world didn't keep getting in the way?

Once or twice a week at least. Maybe more.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3563
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Friday, September 12, 2008 - 12:57 pm:   Edit Post

What great responses and Wolfie, glad to "see" you again. I missed you.

I purposely did not answer the questions first, because I wanted to read your answers first.

Like most of us, I wish real life wouldn't get in the way as much as it does. I am spanked very frequently, but it is a need and desire of mine. When we are away, I am spanked at least once a day, and as we are not into severe, so I don't need to worry about bruising.

A daily session OTK makes both of us feel much more relaxed and regular maintanence spankings are as important to us as sex. So, truthfully, if I had it my way each day would start and end with a spanking.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Wolfie
Prime Spanko
Username: Wolfie

Post Number: 1903
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Friday, September 12, 2008 - 01:28 pm:   Edit Post

Hiya Fanny, I missed you too.
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.

Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
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Oftenred
Spanko
Username: Oftenred

Post Number: 51
Registered: 02-2007
Posted on Friday, September 12, 2008 - 04:02 pm:   Edit Post

Normally I get spanked about two times a week, right now we have friends staying with us till end of october, so it has cut back to only a rare spanking. And yes I do need more that that!!! I guess that two times a week is a good number for me to get. If there were nothing else to take up our time maybe 3 or 4 times a week would be good. (my spankings are purely erotic) It has been a long time since I got a punishment spanking.
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Buenaventura
Supreme Spanko
Username: Buenaventura

Post Number: 884
Registered: 04-2006


Posted on Saturday, September 13, 2008 - 10:52 am:   Edit Post

Ours are always erotic and mostly start out as punishment.Usually once a week but sometimes twice.I usually get in a couple of licks every day usually just fun.We,re going away for the weekend so there,ll be a lot of spanking etc.(Long week-end in Guatemala)
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Ellie820
New member
Username: Ellie820

Post Number: 3
Registered: 09-2008
Posted on Friday, September 19, 2008 - 12:01 pm:   Edit Post

how frequently are you spanked in real life?
About 3 times a month

Is it often enough or too much?
Not nearly enough.

How often would you like to be spanked if the world didn't keep getting in the way?

I would like to be spanked at least several times a week. Ideally, a nice sexy spanking every day would be great.}}}
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Otk_brett
Spanko
Username: Otk_brett

Post Number: 22
Registered: 01-2008
Posted on Friday, September 19, 2008 - 07:40 pm:   Edit Post

I'd say I get spanked every two or three weeks and it's usually a very hard punishment spanking.
I'd probably prefer getting spanked every week.
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Bratattitude
Advanced Spanko
Username: Bratattitude

Post Number: 133
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Saturday, September 20, 2008 - 10:15 am:   Edit Post

how frequently are you spanked in real life?
depends on how much of a brat I am sometimes it is daily -- but not always a "good spanking"

Is it often enough or too much?
Sometimes it is too much sometimes it is not enough...last week I got several for being sassy and a few were really good...

How often would you like to be spanked if the world didn't keep getting in the way?

as often as needed -- when needed without having to wait -- and without casueing stress to the spanker! LOL

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