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Neoserenity87
Advanced Spanko
Username: Neoserenity87
Post Number: 319
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, March 23, 2008 - 08:09 am: | 
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First off I just want to share this experience because I don't think I've ever been so proud of a newbie before!! Last night my fairly new BF decided that I needed a spanking. (a GOOD one at that!) I wasn't sure that he would go through with it but when he grabbed my hairbrush I knew he was up to something. He likes to trick me and act all kissy and snuggly, then when I get into it he grabs me, throws me on the bed and off we go. So last night when I sensed him doing that I decided to test him and bolt to see if he would still go through with it. He totally suprised me!
 He came after me, and we started kissing, before I knew what was happening he threw me over his shoulder and hauled me off to the bedroom. I don't think I need to elaborate any further...
My question is...how do we introduce the whole top thing??? Because I LOVE to be a brat and get punished for it. There's nothing better than deliberatly doing something I'm not supposed and getting caught so I can get punished.
But also....if I really deserve it I think I should be punished too.  I guess I don't know how to talk about that kind of stuff with him. Plus, what is a good way to introduce implements? I don't want him to keep hurting his hand on me!
So many questions, I would really like some insight from the experienced spankos of the bored. Thanks!
Naughty little soldiers are always caught shaking in their combat boots.
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Ladykayra
New member
Username: Ladykayra
Post Number: 12
Registered: 03-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, April 06, 2008 - 09:27 pm: |
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Greetings, First off, talk about it with him, tell him that you want him to start spanking you, and then either create scenes, aka role playing, or simply start a sentence like I am in a bratty mood, and I need a firm hand. Now as for when he thinks you need punished, have him write out a set of rules which you have to follow, like making the bed every morning, no cuss words, or what ever he wishes to make you do and you follow them, then this allows him to spank you when he wants to. There is a web site, marriage-bliss.blogspot. which will also help you learn about DD relationships which I think it what you are actually after for. You will have to look it up, I am not sure at the moment if I am allowed to give the whole address. Good luck |
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