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Mofo
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Username: Mofo

Post Number: 1
Registered: 03-2008
Posted on Wednesday, March 12, 2008 - 06:44 pm:   Edit Post

Spanking has always been a fantacy of mine but ive never been involved in one or even told anyone about it. This is my first time being open about it with anyone. So I have a few questions if you dont mind.
1. +What percentage of people do you think are into spanking?
2. What do you think are the chances of me meeting a girl who is into the same thing?
3. Do you have any tips on how I could give or receve a spanking? I want to be spanked really bad. I feel like I need someone to pull down my pants and put me over there knee. Is that weird for a guy to want something like that. I mean I dont think Im a pervert or anything but I dont know how many people think like me.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3457
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Thursday, March 13, 2008 - 01:49 am:   Edit Post

Welcome to the Den, Mofo and I love your enthusiasm! You bring up several good questions and if you look through some of the threads, I think you will find some discussions you would enjoy jumping into.

And to answer your last question, no, you are not weird, perverted or anything else except normal. Spanking is not a topic that is easily discussed with others who are not into it. This is a good place to feel open talking about your fantasies and desires.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Houjami
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Username: Houjami

Post Number: 4
Registered: 02-2008
Posted on Sunday, March 16, 2008 - 03:30 pm:   Edit Post

Mofo,

I think spanking is a lot more common than you think, but it isn't something that is discussed. It is also a hard topic to bring up by a man or a woman.

I remember in college I was dating a guy who brought the subject up and I told him I didn't think I wanted to be spanked (I later learned that I did). He then suggested that I spank him.

It all sounded spontaneous but I soon learned he was very interested into getting spanked but didn't know how to bring up the subject. Several other guys I dated liked for me to spank them, so in my experience it is common.

My husband and I switch, we both like to be spanked. He really enjoys it when I put him over my knee.

I don't think it takes a certain type of girl to spank you, and I don't think it would be the best thing to try to find someone just because of their interest in spanking. I would just try to bring up the subject with whoever you might be seeing and see how it goes.

You might try watching a movie like Exit to Eden that has some spanking references and see her reaction. You might also playfully bring up on your birthday the suggestion of a birthday spanking.

Read the messages here, and you'll get a lot of great suggestions. Enjoy, and remember that there is nothing wrong with two adults having a consentual spanking.

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