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Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 2
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 15, 2008 - 07:58 pm: | 
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I have been wanting my husband to start spanking me for a very long time(years).
I printed out all kind of dd articles and wrote him a letter and bought a book and put it in his briefcase last night. He is away from home tonight and i know he has to have found it by now for sure but he has not said anything yet on the phone ???
is this bad or good???? |
Anon_vii
New member
Username: Anon_vii
Post Number: 5
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 15, 2008 - 10:21 pm: |
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Perhaps he's not saying anything because he's in the air hurrying home. I'll hope so on your behalf. |
Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 3
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 15, 2008 - 11:22 pm: |
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I hope so too... I really hope this works.. it it doesnt then i will need info from you folks for a plan b..lol |
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 3391
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 16, 2008 - 03:13 pm: |
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There are as many plans as there are couples. Look through some of the old posts and archieved threads for ideas.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 4
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 16, 2008 - 08:05 pm: |
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I think i made it worse.. he is home tonight and he did not mention it and all the material is gone from his briefcase.. now i just feel weird around him... maybe it wasnt meant to be |
Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 7
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 16, 2008 - 11:33 pm: |
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Major update... I was fussing about him taking out the trash and he grinned and said that after my little note i left him i may just get it... so he admits he read it and now I put a paddle in his brief case... maybe i will have a red bottom by this weekend.... |
Oftenred
New member
Username: Oftenred
Post Number: 38
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, January 17, 2008 - 05:14 pm: |
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Sounds like you have just about put all your desires on the table for him. Hope it works out for you two. Hope his little comment was a prelude to having some great experiences. Good luck |
Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 8
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Friday, January 18, 2008 - 07:49 pm: |
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well now he gives my bottom a few pats as he walks away or rubs it when i give him a hug.. i think he is working up his nerve?? what do you think? |
Michelle
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Username: Michelle
Post Number: 5
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, January 20, 2008 - 08:19 pm: |
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I think you're training your husband quite well. I think you're about to have a rosy bottom in your future. Good for you. |
Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 10
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Sunday, January 20, 2008 - 10:09 pm: |
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Well tonight we talked about all of the info i gave him and he did do a practice warm up on me.. he said he will finish reading a dd book I gave him this week while he is away and that I can expect what i need from him soon.... im so excited.. |
Blushingbride
Advanced Spanko
Username: Blushingbride
Post Number: 147
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Monday, January 21, 2008 - 10:37 pm: |
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Congrats on the good start.
Just keep in mind that while this is something you've thought about for a long time, it is all new to him. Be patient. It may take him a bit of time to get to the point of your fantasies nad expectations. I know it did for my hubby. But now we're approaching our 2 year anniversary of both marriage and spanking, and while it was my idea in the first place, he's truely taken it as his own thing now.
Good luck!
Life is short. Eat dessert first.
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Prissietl
Advanced Spanko
Username: Prissietl
Post Number: 263
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 22, 2008 - 08:02 am: |
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Way to go!! That is how we started, and now im a happy lil spankee.......congrats!!!!
Once a princess always a princess
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Jojokinksub
New member
Username: Jojokinksub
Post Number: 2
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 22, 2008 - 12:24 pm: |
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Just read the whole thread and I'm so excited for you hun. Hope everything turns out good with the two of you. And I wish you nothing but many red bottoms in the future. *grins*
*ears perk* Did somebody say free spankings? ;)
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Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 11
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 22, 2008 - 09:07 pm: |
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I cant wait for him to get back Friday.... Im excited and nervous all at once... I will keep everyone updated. All i can do is sit back and wait.hopefully I wont be able to SIT for long...lol |
Jojokinksub
New member
Username: Jojokinksub
Post Number: 6
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 22, 2008 - 10:40 pm: |
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LOL. Best of luck to ya, hun.
*ears perk* Did somebody say free spankings? ;)
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Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 12
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Wednesday, January 23, 2008 - 08:05 pm: |
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We have a cheap wooden paddle to start with, but I would like to go to the " toy store" to get ready for this weekend... what is a good thing to start with that stings and can bring tears but not to harse and wont scare dear hubby off from spanking me? |
Candy1974
New member
Username: Candy1974
Post Number: 13
Registered: 01-2008
| | Posted on Saturday, January 26, 2008 - 05:34 pm: |
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It was GREAT!!!!!!!!!
I did not think he was going to do it because he still had not finished the book.But we had an argument that I started becuase of my mood, and he did spank me... he came in the bathroom where I was getting ready doing my hair and pulled my panties down and spanked me with his hand and then he had a paddle in his back pocket and I got some of that too.. later today the sex was the best ever.. I think this is going to work out very nicely |
Lil_bit
Spanko
Username: Lil_bit
Post Number: 57
Registered: 05-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, January 26, 2008 - 09:16 pm: |
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Good for you. It sounds like you got what you wanted and will definately get more.
Life is not about the amount of breaths you take, its about the moments that take your breath away.
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Lil_bit
Spanko
Username: Lil_bit
Post Number: 58
Registered: 05-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, January 26, 2008 - 09:18 pm: |
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(Message edited by lil bit on January 26, 2008)
Life is not about the amount of breaths you take, its about the moments that take your breath away.
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Pinkangel
Spanko
Username: Pinkangel
Post Number: 45
Registered: 01-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, January 29, 2008 - 08:10 pm: |
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I'm so happy for you Candy, it is wonderful when they give us what we want and need so badly...my hubby is willing to paddle me all the time and he didn't start out that way. At first he said it made him feel bad because he thought he was hurting me, now he knows that it's something I need and he gives it to me often!! |
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