Post Number: 70
|Posted on Sunday, November 04, 2007 - 12:22 pm: ||
I am moments away from getting 'lit up'. I have been pretty bad and deserve what's coming BUT had she (my wife) taken me to the 'woodshed' earlier, I wouldn't have gotten in this deep. True?
Sooooo, it is her fault that I've been this bad!
Yeah, she's not going to buy that either.
I always have these grand notions of saying something defiant along the way during the spanking but usually after the first thought, it doesn't seem like a good idea anymore.
I'll give it a try again here in a moment.
In the past, I've requested lines to use before and during the spanking. I don't know if I have time to get any feedback before this one. BUT, just in case. Throw them out there quick and I'll let you know which one I went with and what the result was.
Thx - I think...
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
Post Number: 189
|Posted on Sunday, November 04, 2007 - 06:10 pm: ||
Well I don't think that throwing any type of lines in there while your "getting it" is such a good idea, do you? Your brave because there is NO way I would say anything that would result in a worse spanking! Good luck and hope your sitting ok!
Post Number: 1739
|Posted on Sunday, November 04, 2007 - 07:32 pm: ||
I'm not sure what kind of spanking relationship you have, but it sounds like this is a discipline spanking. Am I right? If so, I can't help you out at all.
In my mind, a discipline spanking is serious and I would never say anything like what I think you're asking for. I would consider that sort of thing disrespectful and not appropriate for that situation. The same goes for me during a maintenance spanking.
If this is a playful spanking, then I guess a little baiting or teasing of your spanker can be part of the the play.
I suppose if you feel your wife isn't spanking you hard enough or long enough, then maybe you should talk to her about it. I don't think during the spanking is a good time to do that though.
If you're trying to get around that by thinking of things to say to bait her during the spanking, I think you should try a different approach. You might consider letting her in on what you're doing before the spanking. Ask her for phrases to use or suggest some that would clue her in. That can be helpful if y'all are new to this.
What phrases? Hmmm I don't know for sure. I suppose if during a spanking you were to say something like "That's pretty good for a warmup" or "I guess that's your weak arm" or "Is that all you've got?" might work. I've heard a brat or two say things like that, in case anyone was wondering.
Post Number: 71
|Posted on Saturday, November 10, 2007 - 10:26 am: ||
Sorry it took a week to post but it has been amazing how well behaved I've been this week.
Hi Tmichelle - You're right not a good idea but sometimes I like playing with fire.
Hi Bethie - You know, it is interesting because we started out in playful type spankings (we were switch at the very beginning) but over the years it has slowly developed into me getting discipline spankings. We're not in a D/D lifestyle, we are pretty much a 50/50 team BUT I do start getting "rambunctious" after some time and she takes me down a notch or two. She enjoys keeping me in line and we both enjoy my overall attitude afterwords. I don't mean her any true "disrespect" by the action of baiting her. I'm just she would say, "Too honery for my own good." It works for both of us.
What did happen was I chickened out before the spanking but about half way through the spanking, my will power was starting to leave me (oh, she was using her favorite, thick, wide, heavy leather belt - the thing is evil I tell you!); and with my last little bit of will, I cried out, "I thought this was going to hurt."
She was actually amused (for a very brief moment) at the balls I had to say that. Then she lit into me asking how each one felt. "How did that one feel? How about this one? Did this one hurt? Maybe this one?"
When she finished, I had no thought of saying anything so foolish again!
And on a side note: I've thought of her pretty much all week long everytime I sit down.
"It seemed like a good idea at the time."
Post Number: 194
|Posted on Saturday, November 10, 2007 - 12:02 pm: ||
It sounds like you two have a good spanking relationship and playful to it seems, which is a good thing. All serious discipline spankings all the time wouldn't be fun , you have to have that fun, playful spanking , a balance of both is a good thing. Have fun and many more Happy Spankings