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Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 211
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 02:09 am: | 
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I remember Mr. R (I think that's his name) saying something about the different stages of a discipline spanking and it's very important not to leave a bottom in the anger stage? Well if you do stop in the anger stage is it wrong to give another spanking later? If you do administer another spanking later because you feel that the previous spanking wasn't enough do you use the same impliment that you used before or a different one? Or does it really matter if you get the job done?
I hope this makes sense...
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1002
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 07:56 am: |
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I believe that may have been my R who made the comment about not leaving me in the anger stage. Oh yes, an additional spanking is administered ASASP. What impliment is used really doesn't matter as long as the job gets done.
"Queen of Innocence"
Be willing to pass up good, for great!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Rocco
Spanko
Username: Rocco
Post Number: 439
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 11:52 am: |
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Kendra, I think the point is that the job gets done. Having the ability to read your partner and know when the point has been made is more important than what impiments is used.
As a side note, are you still planning on turning the tables of discipline like you had said a few weeks back? Or is this for when you need to be disciplined?
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 214
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 03:58 pm: |
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turning the tables? When did I say that?
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Rocco
Spanko
Username: Rocco
Post Number: 446
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 04:15 pm: |
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You posted this in the "Tops Bottoming" thread.
Posted on Monday, May 30, 2005 - 08:17 pm:
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I have decided that in order for our lifestyle to work, that the tables need to be turned. The only problem is that I'm way to small to take him otk, and I know he won't submit. Wha'do I do???
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Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1025
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 04:21 pm: |
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Jeez....this man has a memory like a steel trap.
"Queen of Innocence"
Be willing to pass up good, for great!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 215
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 04:48 pm: |
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oh yeah, I remember now. No, I haven't turned the tables.. yet. Although it's going to happen probably as soon as we move. He needs to learn to take control and if that means I have to show him how.. so be it.
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 1026
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 04:55 pm: |
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Spoken like a real woman Kryssi... 
"Queen of Innocence"
Be willing to pass up good, for great!
"oooooo", she says!!
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Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 217
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 05:34 pm: |
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lol
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Rocco
Spanko
Username: Rocco
Post Number: 447
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 06:19 pm: |
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She's all woman ladies and gentlemen, all WOMAN!
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 218
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 06:27 pm: |
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what do you mean by that rocco??
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Rocco
Spanko
Username: Rocco
Post Number: 450
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 06:31 pm: |
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It was a compliment Kendra. Going along with what Fanny said "spoken like a real woman"
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 219
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 06:36 pm: |
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Well thank you for the compliment I didn't think you were putting me down, I just wasn't sure what you were saying
So, please don't think I took that wrong, 'cause I didn't
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Rocco
Spanko
Username: Rocco
Post Number: 453
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 06:50 pm: |
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Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Rocco
Spanko
Username: Rocco
Post Number: 455
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 07:02 pm: |
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So this new turn of events (when it happens) will make you a switch. Right on Kendra!
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Kendra
Spanko
Username: Kendra
Post Number: 220
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 07:07 pm: |
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I wouldn't say I was a switch, because it's only going to happen once, but ya know..
On a side note My daughter rolled over for the first time about 15 minutes ago
May the Spirit of the Elves guide you.
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Rocco
Spanko
Username: Rocco
Post Number: 458
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 07:10 pm: |
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Hey look at that, she's growing up. That's so cool Kendra!
Nothing says I love you like a spanking
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Biggirl
Junior Spanko
Username: Biggirl
Post Number: 56
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 10:29 pm: |
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Kendra:
I am not sure how to word this right so bare with me. I have read all the posts. When I saw Rocco's "quote" from a previous post of yours I was just........it just seems so odd to use this word but I can't think of another......I was so proud of you.
You have a strong spirit & it really came out in that comment.
I am very happy for you that you had a "first" experience with your babe today. Those always seem to be very "heart warming" for parents.
Brightest Blessings,BigGirl |
Biggirl
Junior Spanko
Username: Biggirl
Post Number: 57
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Friday, August 05, 2005 - 10:47 pm: |
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Everyone:
I read a website...or rather essays on a website. I hope it is ok to mention it. It is called "the Creatively Spanked Wife"
I read an essay that I think sort of pertains to what you might be talking about but not exactly. Your question made me think of it.
It is actually something I want to incorporate into my spanking relationship with G.
What this essay talked about was in a Male Spanker Woman Spankee relationship (though I am sure it not be limited in that way)(don't wish to offend anyone) where the Male spanker would spank the female spankee for some reason (most likely previously agreed upon ex:having a negative attitude or being disrespectful) as an immediate correction of the "behavior" & the spanking itself is meantto be a form of CONSENTUAL (sp?) domestic discipline.
In this essay it talked about how that evening there would be a "clean up" spanking. In other words a spanking where the purpose was to "clean up" any negative feelings either partner had about the first "behavior correction" spanking that had taken place.
It went on to describe how in some instances this would led to....well....really hot make up sex.
Personally I found that website to be very helpful to me. It showed me how there not only were others with similar desires as I. But the essays themselves I found very informative on the emotional aspects of that type of a spanking relationship. One of the essays was titled: Domestic Discipline when the fantasy becomes reality.
I hope I haven't strayed off topic by misunderstanding your question. And I hope I didn't butcher what I was trying to say.
Brightest Blessings,BigGirl |
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