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Kcgyrl1987
New member
Username: Kcgyrl1987
Post Number: 3
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Thursday, March 01, 2007 - 07:25 pm: | 
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My husband and I have reached the point where we both know that more ouchie is definately needed. Until this point spankings have always been with his hand. Now that we are getting into DD as well, we want him to be able to use other things besides his hand. Question is does anyone have any suggestions of what to try next? It just seems that the choice of implements is almost overwhelming |
Mfb
New member
Username: Mfb
Post Number: 9
Registered: 12-2006
| | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2007 - 12:34 am: |
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For me the hair brush works well. My wife uses it to great effect on my bottom. A sort of intimacy, as with one of her slippers. Then the cane or crop. |
Pinkcheeks
Supreme Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks
Post Number: 1093
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Friday, March 02, 2007 - 05:51 pm: |
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We started with a simple ping-pong paddle! Then graduated to leather paddles (great thud)- the hairbrush came MUCH later, as it has LOTS and LOTS of sting!!
We have also tried a crop, leather belt, wooden spoon....You are right - there is a wide array of implements out there~~
**I stil prefer his hand though 
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
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Prissietl
Spanko
Username: Prissietl
Post Number: 142
Registered: 07-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 08:32 am: |
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I went to wal-mart and bought a wooden bathbrush for $4.00. i love it!
Once a princess always a princess
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Oftenred
New member
Username: Oftenred
Post Number: 14
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 09:30 am: |
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Guess I agree with what others have said. There sure a lot of difference in the amount of "ouch" in different things. We went from the hand to leather paddles and slapper. Seemed to add more "ouch" without being too much. Good luck to you ..you may just have to experiment to see what is right for you. |
Blushingbride
Junior Spanko
Username: Blushingbride
Post Number: 64
Registered: 10-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, March 03, 2007 - 05:49 pm: |
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One thing you both may want to discuss is what kind of ouchie will work best for you. Do you want more stingy or more thuddy sensations. A lot of the reason we find so many different kinds of implements is because they all feel so differently. Most things will have some of both sensations, but more of one than the other. Hairbrush is pretty stingy - but with some thuddy weight behind it. Wooden spoons/flippers are lighter, more stingy but not as thuddy. I don't have a bath brush, but I would imagine it's even heavier and thuddier than a hairbrush.
Since you said you are now getting into DD as well as for fun, you may want different things for both effects. We found that once we started using implements, we just keep adding to the list of things we use for spanking. |
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 1729
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2007 - 11:43 am: |
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Be sure and experiment with the implements you choose. Innocent looking items can be VERY painful if not used the correct way. You dont want to get hurt!!
Start out slow and play around with different things and get to know them. Listen to your body and you will know which implements will bring on an OUCHIE.  |
Bratattitude
New member
Username: Bratattitude
Post Number: 44
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, March 04, 2007 - 12:41 pm: |
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Much like everyone else we have used items from around the house, dollar stores, and yes a couple of special pieces bought at adult shops. It is just really how much you wanna spend.
Wooden spoons and birkenstock sandals make fro some serious ouchie to me. I even have one small chopping block that is plastic and it makes a serious ouchie on my backside.
In time you will figure out which ones are more playful than others....and it can be so fun figureing it out, too! |
Safe_hands
New member
Username: Safe_hands
Post Number: 2
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Monday, March 05, 2007 - 11:16 am: |
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As a Dom I have found the hairbrush and wooden paddle very effective but for real oouucchhiiee try a wooden paddle with holes, also produces a really red bottom without bruising,, |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 1297
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, March 05, 2007 - 07:15 pm: |
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Kcgyrl, since you've so far only experienced his hand, I'd advise you to experiment with various implements to find out what works best for you and your spanker. I don't know how much experience either of you have so I'm answering as though this is the first implement for both of you.
I'd suggest starting with a small leather or a light wooden paddle. Those can both be very ouchie. If you don't want to buy those just yet, you can always get good wooden spoons and other cooking utensils wherever you can find them. Gourmet cooking stores are great for finding good toys.
Keep your eyes open and you'll be surprised at what you can find. So many everyday objects can be perverted for spanko use. I found a great wooden hairbrush at Walmart that's heavily varnished and is very stingy. I wouldn't say it won't bruise even though it hasn't bruised me, I've had a lot of practice at this spanking thing and my bottom is resilient.
If you decide your implements aren't ouchie enough, you can always move to more intense toys. Remember, heavy wooden implements can bruise and long leather straps or belts aren't always easy to control. A little experimentation and practice is always a good idea with any implement. |
Lexymalfoy
New member
Username: Lexymalfoy
Post Number: 16
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Tuesday, March 06, 2007 - 05:37 pm: |
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I'm a Massage Therapist so I've happened to discovered a while ago that small wooden massager is great. Also the long wooden and rope foot massagers sting like hell...
...but well worth it! 
Sticks and stones may breaks my bones but whips and chains excite me...
...so throw me down, tie me up, and show me that you like me!
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Kcgyrl1987
New member
Username: Kcgyrl1987
Post Number: 4
Registered: 02-2007
| | Posted on Wednesday, March 07, 2007 - 07:00 pm: |
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Thanks for the advice...we are trying a few things out now. :-) |
Aka
New member
Username: Aka
Post Number: 14
Registered: 03-2007
| | Posted on Saturday, March 10, 2007 - 07:56 pm: |
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Best new spanker's implement, try checking the hardware store for wooden Dowl - Looks like long skinny sticks about 30 inches. May have to ask for them, they are used for making pegs. They come in all thicknesses get like 1/8 it is just enough snap to sting good if used hard and will give you neat little red lines for a few minutes that look awsome on film (Snicker =), but won't leave real welts or soreness, plus has a very nice audio swish if your into drama, but not nearly as noisey as on contact as other impliments, if you have kids in the house it is a top choice. I weaned a girl from the hand to the belt / paddle with it. She used to call it "The cane", not hardly a cane, but a fun toy and since coverage is so thin you can spank for long periods of time with out wearing out the flesh or going numb. Plus they are cheaper than dirt, less than a 1$. The girl I used that on squirmed and wiggled the first few times, but by the 10th or so usage she could take 50 good ones and daring me to do it harder. |
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