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Diamondgal
New member
Username: Diamondgal
Post Number: 2
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 06:17 pm: | 
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My husband and I don't practice DD, yet, but we do more fun spankings type of thing. Sometimes the swats hurt, but more often than not I am just laying there and he's swatting away and I really don't feel it - unless he moves down to the back of my leg - yeouch!!!
Anyway, do you think he needs to spank me harder? Should I be in a different position? Is he holding his hand wrong? What could be the problem? |
Blistering_blonde
Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 223
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 06:26 pm: |
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oh this is a long question
try other positions ..or impliments ..maybe you would like the feel of the belt too ??? it can be just yummy ... arch your rear ..tighten the skin more ..bend over knee ...or bed edge ..or anything .
his hand .. is he only hitting with the palm or is he striking with the fingers too (painfull lil whips they are) and at last second he could *flick* his wrist ...extra movement in the swipe that way.
oh those leg ones ..or the sit spot ones I agree OWWWWWWWWWW. hope it helps
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 14
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 12:34 am: |
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Partner of blistering blonde….
Blistering blonde deserves to be blistered for her spelling mistakes… probably made deliberately…
I think that Diamondgal should invest in a wooden paddle. This does not have to be swung that hard or with much force to hurt quite a lot. Short swats hurt and encouraging him to put more force will do the trick. If it doesn’t just say harder….. Also if it doesn’t have the desired effect tell your partner either he has to do 100 or a lower number but harder….
Position on the bed lying flat face down with a couple of pillows under your bottom. |
Blistering_blonde
Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 226
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 12:58 am: |
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Nicenick06 I never claimed to spell correct ... would study ...but way too old now.
I think a Mason Brush would hurt just sharply
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 22
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 01:11 am: |
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A mason brush doesn't actually hurt very much how about a small wooden paddle? |
Blistering_blonde
Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 229
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 01:15 am: |
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a mason ..proper is about an inch thick oak?.. has the weight of the boar bristles and the plastic bristles ... it has two brush styles mixed in one ..it weighs about a pound or more ...and hurts more then any paddle I have recieved .. including the BOARD OF EDUCATION !
That brush is harder then a paddle
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06
Post Number: 26
Registered: 02-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 01:28 am: |
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Not the ones they sell here.
Very expensive but all plastic and they don't hurt at all. Remember I am a switch so I do know....
What is your favourite implement tonight? |
Victoria_wood
Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 216
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 09:04 am: |
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I agree with the others.
1) try implements, leather, wood, rattan cane
2) take the spanking bending over, which pulls your skin taut and hurts way more than laying flat
3) your Top needs to have enough room to swing his or her arm back
4) legs are fair game
Cheers,
Victoria
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Mistydawn
Junior Spanko
Username: Mistydawn
Post Number: 78
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 02:48 pm: |
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I often have problems with the spankings not hurting. Like the previous posts have said try other implements.
I was receiving a belting the other day(from a non leather belt) and it was having no effect. I asked him to up it which he did and I made the mistake of turning to look. He was going at it full swing. That shocked me far more than the belt itself did. It does worry me how hard he has to hit sometimes for me to feel it. That's on the bum, other parts of the body are a different matter. It usually takes very little to make me squeal on the inner thighs. Even then tho' I have days when I can't feel that much either.
Also the time of the month affects my sensitivity. My state of arousal affects my sensitivity, the mood I'm in . Everything basically can affect it.
What I'm trying to say is experiment. Experiment with times , implements,positions. Experiment with the gaps between strokes. Experiment ,expeiment Cos the fun is in the learning. Believe me eventually you'll find something that hurts.
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MistyDawn
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Learning to love and loving to learn
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Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 543
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Friday, June 16, 2006 - 11:01 pm: |
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wow - I wish I was in your position sometimes.... man, spankings have been hurting too much. Good luck with you dilema!
The Princess of Spanking
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