| Author |
Message |
    
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1720
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 22, 2006 - 08:06 pm: | 
|
What is it about the man in black? Why does the Top/Dom dressed all in midnite hue make our hearts pound and our pulses race? Does it signal his dominance, or simply add to the possibly threatening air? Ive been around several Tops and Doms who dressed this way in different situations, and I know that for me, I always took a second (or sometimes a third) glance. Do other bottoms feel the same? If your a male bottom or switch, do you also like to see your spanker in black?
If your a Top/Dom and dress this way, do you do it for affect, because you like it...or simply because you like the ladies reactions? If you've never dressed this way, would you give it a try as a turn on for your bottom?
Ive seen Steve, Mr. B and a few other Doms dress all in black, and I have to say they all looked striking. And I dont think I'm alone in feeling this way. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
|
Blistering_blonde
Junior Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 74
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 22, 2006 - 08:30 pm: |
|
SWOONS at the thought of the Doms in black ..
oh I agree ..it makes them look intimatadating ..
add to this ..BALD ..why is it alot of doms SHAVE off there head .
makes me think of midevil exacutioner |
Blistering_blonde
Junior Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 75
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 22, 2006 - 08:32 pm: |
|
oh my ... that was shave off the hair from there heads  opps |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1723
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Monday, May 22, 2006 - 08:39 pm: |
|
*pictures her "follicly-challenged" Dom as a medieval executioner and thinks...not a good idea!* 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
|
Gypsygirl
Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 281
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 05:27 am: |
|
Men in black? Oooooooooooh yes!
Does it for me! Gives off an aura of unpredictability and subtle danger. Right, just off to buy some clothes dye for all of my partner's wardrobe.
I foresee spankings........LOTS of spankings
|
Victoria_wood
Spanko
Username: Victoria_wood
Post Number: 140
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 06:03 am: |
|
Personally, I like the all black look and that is essentially how I dress most of the time. In a Dom, black is good, and black leather is better. Of course, I also like denim, t-shirts, and big black motorcycle boots! And I like it when people dress approprately. So I would expect to see a lot of black, leather, and denim at a play party.
But to me, it's more about attitude. My Dom can turn me on wearing sweat pants and a T-shirt.
Cheers,
Victoria
|
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1005
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 08:05 am: |
|
B has a old english tweed coat he will wear with a turtleneck.
He really looks Dom when he has that on. I want to climb all over him when he has that on
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
|
Subbie
New member
Username: Subbie
Post Number: 41
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 09:58 am: |
|
A guy in black,..looks powerful, sexy, he is in control, i like that
my name says it all
|
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1726
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 10:14 am: |
|
Mmmmm, Steve in a dark suit with a nice tie and his black overcoat....very powerful looking. I feel the same way Shylah. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
|
Mistydawn
New member
Username: Mistydawn
Post Number: 45
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 12:37 pm: |
|
Err mmm how do I say this without being thrown off the site or at least stoned,let me think what the word I'm looking for ah that's it 'NO' not one iota, I'm not against black perse I just think it's a bit obvious, and really really sorry Victoria -biker boots and leather well!!!!.
Give me a man who looks soft on the outside but carries that air that you know underneath he would give you the hiding of your life. He has to be groomed and yep I've aways fancied a man in a suit.(which is pretty obvious too I suppose)
W. is not always as groomed as I'd like but he does wear a suit each day . On the days when he does do him self up a bit and gels his hair just right woaah I don't have trouble submitting on those days.  Though as W says I'm a very shallow woman at times\.
P.S 'is a good hiding' a phrase thats understood in America or even in parts of England other than south yorkshire
(Message edited by mistydawn on May 23, 2006)
(Message edited by mistydawn on May 23, 2006)
--------------------------------------------
MistyDawn
--------------------------------------------
Learning to love and loving to learn
|
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1729
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 12:49 pm: |
|
Yes Misty, we have that one here too. And tanning, whipping/whuppin, whalloping, etc. 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
|
Beachley
Spanko
Username: Beachley
Post Number: 376
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 03:08 pm: |
|
I definitely like Mr. B in black but then black and dark blues are his favorite colors in clothing. He does present a striking picture and from the conferences I have been to most of the ladies have agreed I think.
But I believe most men when groomed and dressed nicely can portray a Dominant manner if that is their nature. It just seems to flow from them without much effort.
The Spice of Life is having my OWN WAY!! A spanking would be nice.
|
Ladygator2904
Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904
Post Number: 112
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 04:03 pm: |
|
I am not partial to any color but a nice suit is a real turn on. Especially with a wide evil grin!
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
|
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1007
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 04:29 pm: |
|
or THE LOOK
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
|
Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx
Post Number: 521
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 05:35 pm: |
|
Yeah the LOOK with a suit..... WOW |
Gypsygirl
Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 285
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 05:56 pm: |
|
Look, you're going to have to make up your mind, first I'm drooling over men in black, now it's suits, I'm going to lose all concentration completely if we carry on like this.
OK, you may have guessed, I like a man in a suit, although preferably without the jacket, a shirt a tie is niiiiiiiiice! (Trousers as well normally)
I foresee spankings........LOTS of spankings
|
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2388
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 06:16 pm: |
|
What about a properly fitted tux? MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM..............
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
|
Wolfie
Junior Spanko
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1731
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 07:08 pm: |
|
OMG!!! A tux is fantastic, or full dress uniform or...formal scottish kilt! 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
|
Cheekychipmunk
Junior Spanko
Username: Cheekychipmunk
Post Number: 56
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 07:36 pm: |
|
Black looks very sexy on a man. But I also perfer a beard and mustache. Well groomed that is.
I don't know if any of ya'll are into country music: such as Hank Williams Jr. but that is who my Grizz looks like.
Suit...nah, just a good ole country boy in black shirt, tight bluejeans, groomed beard and mustache, and black cowboy hat.
Yep.. Black is good!!!!!!!
"Success in almost any field depends more on energy and drive than it does on intelligence."
Sloan Wilson
|
Blistering_blonde
Junior Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 76
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 08:24 pm: |
|
I prefer a man who REMOVES his suit jacket ...rolls up his dress shirt sleave's ..pulls off his belt as he starts to sit ..then beckons me over his knee..
you just got to know HE means business and won't stop till he gets to the END |
Butterfly84
New member
Username: Butterfly84
Post Number: 32
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 08:53 pm: |
|
*whimper*
A man in a suit..*sigh* what is it about that look?
But, call me odd, but a flannel shirt, rolled to the elbows, with a nice fitting pair of jeans... *whew* That just does it for me right there!
Blistering_blonde: I'm with you on the removing the suit jacket and belt... talk about getting down to business, yummy...
~*butterfly*~
Nobody suspects the butterfly...
|
Paddledom
New member
Username: Paddledom
Post Number: 20
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 08:59 pm: |
|
no flannel shirts here  but I do prefer to be well dressed.
Black is always a good color - especially for a belt ;) |
Blistering_blonde
Junior Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde
Post Number: 77
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 09:00 pm: |
|
OHHH yeah ...hmmm wonder if I could convince him on this hot night to wear a flannel shirt ... |
Otter
Junior Spanko
Username: Otter
Post Number: 90
Registered: 03-2006
| | Posted on Tuesday, May 23, 2006 - 09:01 pm: |
|
Let's see...love a guy in a tux. That was my real favorite thing about those high school formals: all those boys finally looked like real men! Also love the Marine dress uniform.
Carrharts and a tshirt are also totally hot! With a mustache and goatee (though almost any maintained facial hair is good). Trace Adkins is my latest country man fantasy- "Rough and Ready, Baby!"- and Waylon was just about the sexiest man to ever live! The look combined with that voice! oh MY gawd!
Okay, I gotta stop now or I'm gonna hurt my husband!
"Sometimes love don't feel like it should." -John Cougar
|
Mistydawn
Junior Spanko
Username: Mistydawn
Post Number: 51
Registered: 05-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 01:38 am: |
|
The clothes start it off but it's the voice. Any man who speaks as though he knows what he's talking about (a scarce commodity!!). A soft sensual voice and the knees are jelly. The bing bang bang that finishes me off are the eyes- The window to the soul.
W. has very large deep brown eyes.Soft yet commanding. When he's annoying me or or something I just don't look at him ,I daren't cos as soon as I catch is eye I can't resist. He knows it too so it doesn't work often he just whispers 'look at me S.' and then ................ it all over.
--------------------------------------------
MistyDawn
--------------------------------------------
Learning to love and loving to learn
|
Redhinney
Spanko
Username: Redhinney
Post Number: 437
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 04:13 pm: |
|
Ok you all get ready to drool big time.
How about a man prefectly groomed wearing dark sunglasses in a formal blue police unfirom with shiny gold badges and a thick leather belth that holds his gun, night stick and handcuffs. ANd if he puts on his riding boots (he was amotorcylce cop at one time0, my heart just did flip flops all over the place-yes I am talking about Bill when he was still a cop (we still have the unforims.
But now I love the look he has causal with the hint of being bad boy. You kniw the type pants that are just a tad to tight in the ass and a shirt that shows off all his muscles( still works out 4 times a week) with salt and peper hair and piecring stell blue eyes that seems to read your every thought and a confidenec that oozes out of every pore. All he has to do is reach for his belt and I am a shaking bowl of jello.
Love can't always be seen or heard but will always be felt with your heart
|
Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 2400
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 04:39 pm: |
|
May we have a photo please?!?!?!? 
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
|
Gypsygirl
Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 291
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 04:57 pm: |
|
Forget the photo, may we have an introduction!!!
I foresee spankings........LOTS of spankings
|
Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah
Post Number: 1013
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 05:03 pm: |
|
Come to think of it, my hubby has one pair of black slacks that fit him so nicely, shows off his cute lil butt.
I'm such a lil devil...or so he says
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
|
Gypsygirl
Spanko
Username: Gypsygirl
Post Number: 292
Registered: 04-2006
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 05:20 pm: |
|
You got me worried there Shylah for a minute. I thought you wrote that he had a pair of black socks, and I was trying to work out how they show of his butt. They're either very very long or ..........
I foresee spankings........LOTS of spankings
|
Wolfie
Advanced Spanko
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 1733
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, May 24, 2006 - 05:51 pm: |
|
OMG Red! Simply yummy! 
If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.
Grow old with me, the best is yet to be.
|
Spanking Discussion Area 