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Cheatin_wife
New member
Username: Cheatin_wife
Post Number: 1
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 13, 2005 - 10:44 pm: | 
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Hi there, everybody! I just ran across this site tonight and it sure came at a good time. My hubby isn't into spanking or dominance and I can't imagine life without it.
I'm a brat and I know that I need a firm hand to keep me in line but he just doesn't want to spend that much time or energy on poor little me.
What I really need most is a Daddy figure in my life but there is NO WAY I would ever consider really cheating on my hubby (I love him very much even if he doesn't give me what I need).
I can only get online when he is traveling (he works for the government so is gone a lot). It would kill him and destroy our marriage if he knew I was looking for cyber-spanking. But all I do is think about it.
I fantasize at night about a big strong man taking me in hand and holding me accountable for my bratty ways. (I sometimes even do things on purpose just to make my hubby mad enough to spank me, but he just gets annoyed).
I took money out of his wallet the other day, not because I needed it, but just to see if he would notice or care. I spned my free time trying to think of new ways to be bad, if only to add fuel to the fires in my imagination at night.
Could any of you guys out there indulge me and tell me what you would do to a brat like me? What if I took money out of your wallet or hid your shampoo or spilled soda all over the carpet or left dirty dishes piled up for days at a time? (I'm a housewife, can't you tell).
Anyway, I'm really glad to be here and I look forward to hearing from any and all of you. Hey girls, how do you get your men to spank you? I'm just looking for other people out there who have similar interests who may help add to my fantasy world, if not to my reality.
Frustrated in Florida,
Joey |
Humblebutt
New member
Username: Humblebutt
Post Number: 9
Registered: 12-2005
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 13, 2005 - 11:30 pm: |
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Have you spoken about it to him? Unless it's an incredible turn-off for him, he shouldn't mind spanking you. After all, it's gonna hurt you more than him! If he loves you, you should at least be able to approach the subject with him. If he's concerned about hurting you, you could show him how much you like it and how much you can take by spanking yourself in front of him. It worked for me and my most recent play partner. She came around to spanking me after I demonstrated a little of what I like and what I can take. Keep trying to persuade him and he'll probably come around to spanking you too. |
Zippo
Advanced Spanko
Username: Zippo
Post Number: 1406
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 14, 2005 - 02:33 am: |
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 Hi Cheatin and welcome to the den. Have you considered printing out some spanking stories to try and spark his interest. You might also want to do some reading in the discussion area as there is a thread regarding this topic. Also the cyber play area has tops around who would love to toast your naughty bottom.  Enjoy the site and look forward in getting to know you.
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Ftopinmichigan
Spanko
Username: Ftopinmichigan
Post Number: 244
Registered: 09-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 14, 2005 - 06:55 am: |
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Hi, Joey. Welcome.
As a caution...my guess is your name alone will garner attention that you might not desire, based on you saying that you would NEVER cheat on your husband. Although you're probably safe...most people don't bother to read AND comprehend profiles, so they'll probably ignore the name too!  You can see my name...and I still get people asking: "Are you female?" "Are you a spanker?" "Where are you from?" 
Enjoy the Den.
K |
Ziggy
Advanced Spanko
Username: Ziggy
Post Number: 1620
Registered: 08-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 14, 2005 - 10:34 am: |
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welcome cheatin, we have allot of fun here. so come on in !!
when caught run faster then him !!
I am a TA junkie !!
TWO MORE WEEKS BEFORE MY HUBBIE COMES HOME AGAIN
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Sdhrts
Junior Spanko
Username: Sdhrts
Post Number: 91
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 14, 2005 - 12:58 pm: |
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Welcome Joey, I'd do just about anything my significant other was into if she told me how important it was to her. Of course, I’m pretty open-minded and can think off very few turn offs. Don't give up, he may come around once convinced. I think it's very normal for us all to have fantasies that live inside our head only. I'm in a similar situation and introducing spanking very gradually to her.
Is IT Better To Give Than To Recieve?
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Hunny
Spanko
Username: Hunny
Post Number: 976
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 14, 2005 - 07:07 pm: |
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Welcome Cheatin_wife! It might just not be his thing. You should try telling him exactically what you want maybe he has a different kink. If so make a compromise. Try explaining how spanking makes you feel!
The cyber-play area is one of the best places to get a cyber spanking! Trust me...I know! |
Katie_spades
Junior Spanko
Username: Katie_spades
Post Number: 60
Registered: 11-2005
| | Posted on Thursday, December 15, 2005 - 01:37 am: |
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Welcome and happy spankings! If I were you as suggested previously, try talking to him. I know it feels wierd and strange doing so, but give it a try!
Please sir, I don't need a spanking. I'll be good, I promise!
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Tmichellebrat
Junior Spanko
Username: Tmichellebrat
Post Number: 60
Registered: 10-2005
| | Posted on Monday, December 19, 2005 - 12:48 am: |
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Hi Joey and welcome to the Den! Communication is the key I feel in a spanking relationship. As I have discovered I have had to communicate to my Dom what I exactly want and he has been in the lifestyle longer than me ...so communicate and tell him what you exactly want and go from there! Good luck and keep us posted. |
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