Post Number: 1
|Posted on Tuesday, March 01, 2011 - 08:14 am: ||
hello everyone. i have recently started to spank and more!! my man,he receives this punishment because he cannot please me in bed and it gives me an excuse to be the boss. and guess what he loves it ,he was not to sure to start with but he soon enjoyed it and now wonders why people bother with plain sex ,we still have alot to learn and discover , so we are so glad we have found this site , i hope it gives us the support and fun we are going to need to be having in the future
Post Number: 66
|Posted on Monday, March 07, 2011 - 07:17 am: ||
Hi and welcome to the Den. iknow how your husband feels. i just love it when my wife spanks me. The harder and longer the better!
Post Number: 1
|Posted on Monday, March 07, 2011 - 11:42 am: ||
Howdy and great to hear you are off to such a good start. As probably anyone will tell you communication is the key to success is this as in most things and communicating such deeply personal needs and desires is not always easy. We tend to think open communication will diminish the fun or that what we find so enjoyable is somehow unique and we don't want to seem selfish. But try to communicate both with words and with a careful reading of body language and non-verbal cues. I am married to a vanilla and it took many years to get where we both really enjoy a wide array of spanking activities. Those who say vanillas will never embrace spanking simply have not worked long enough at it. So keep on pushing ahead, try new things, be prepared to fail once in a while, but you will both find some very, very nice times ahead.
Post Number: 7
|Posted on Thursday, March 24, 2011 - 04:25 pm: ||
Hi Heaven2. My wife loves to spank me too and I wouldn't have it any other way. I love dominant women!