Post Number: 4
|Posted on Tuesday, April 22, 2008 - 08:35 pm: ||
HI MY NAMES JASON CUT A LONG STORY SHORT MY GIRLS LIVETIME FANTASY IS TO BE SPANKED TO TEARS IVE NEVER DONE IT BEFORE AND HATE THE IDEA OF HURTING HER BUT SHES EVEN GONE TO THE EXTREME OF TELLING ME TO FIND A STRANGER TO PRACTICE A TECNIQUE ON AND SHES SIGNED ME UP ON HERE SHES SO SERIOUS ABOUT THIS I JUST DONT KNOW WHERE TO TURN NEXT IME 34 AND FROM BIRMINGHAM IN THE UK
Post Number: 1
|Posted on Tuesday, April 22, 2008 - 08:17 pm: ||
HI MY NAMES JASON NOT QUITE SURE HOW TO START IME A 34 YEAR OLD PROFECIONAL COMPANY OWNER WITH A WONDERFULL GIRL WHO WANTS ME TO START PANKING HER BUT SHE WANTS ME TO SPANK HER TO TEARS WICH IVE FOUND OUT TODAY IS HER FANTASY PROBLEM IS I DONT WANT TO HURT HER SHES EVEN TOLD ME TO JOIN THIS FORUM IN THE HOPE OF GETTING ADVICE OR EVEN PRACTICE FROM SOMEONE SUCH IS THE INTENSITY OF HER FANTASY ANY HELP ESSPECIALY FROM FEMALES IS GREATLLY NEEDED
(Message edited by bethie on April 22, 2008)
Post Number: 3482
|Posted on Wednesday, April 23, 2008 - 11:31 am: ||
Cobra, a spanking lifestyle has to be consentual from both parties. If you have ANY hesitation about this, please do not do it. If your girlfriend knows anything about the Den, than she knows that we do not encourage people who do not find spanking to be thrilling and fun to partake in it. If you hate the idea and she is going to extremes, maybe it is time to evaluate whether this relationship is a good idea
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
Post Number: 7
|Posted on Wednesday, April 23, 2008 - 01:15 pm: ||
Has it always been a fantasy that has never been a reality? If so she might not realize that a spanking can hurt and take a lot of fun out of the fantasy.
I would suggest that you both go through some of the posts here and see what she would like to try. You aren't going to try all in one night naturally, but get an idea of what is part of her fantasy.
Then I would suggest an erotic spanking where you put her over your knee and spank her lightly. When her bottom gets a little pink then massage in some warm oil or lotion. Then spank a little more and repeat the oil or lotion. This might give her an idea as to how hard she wants to be spanked. Whatever you do, start slowly, it is much better to spank too lightly than to spank too hard