Post Number: 1
|Posted on Sunday, November 04, 2007 - 01:20 am: ||
I've always wanted spanking to be a part of my relationships, but never really understood why. In real life, I'm a very take-charge kind of person, but in my relationships I prefer to be submissive. I want to explore this fascination further before I get into my next relationship. I've been really impressed by the acceptance and understanding I've seen from other spankos on this site as well as others. (I have to laugh--I've never referred to myself as a spanko before-guess I'm learning the lingo.)
Post Number: 20
|Posted on Sunday, November 04, 2007 - 09:39 am: ||
Welcome to the group, Red! You'll have a good time here!
Post Number: 191
|Posted on Sunday, November 04, 2007 - 06:17 pm: ||
Hi Red ..welcome to the den.
Post Number: 1740
|Posted on Sunday, November 04, 2007 - 07:49 pm: ||
Hi and welcome to the Den! I hope we can help you along as you explore your spanking fascination. After all, it's one we all share!
Red, I can relate to how you feel, I'm not submissive at all except with Dan. I can kick ass and take names all day long but when I'm with my man I'm a totally different woman. That's fine by me btw.
Post Number: 2
|Posted on Sunday, November 04, 2007 - 08:19 pm: ||
I'm happy this way, but because I work so much it makes it hard to meet guys. Every guy I meet thinks I'm very controlling because I have to be that way at work. Then when we go out they wonder what happened. I'm never quite sure how to bring it up. Any suggestions anyone?