Post Number: 6
|Posted on Friday, June 29, 2007 - 01:05 am: ||
Fan-freaking-tastic site you guys have here! I've had a longtime interest in spanking but am new to being spanked. I never thought I could admit my interest to anyone, but I conveyed to my bf when he playfully gave me a few spanks in passing that I REALLY enjoyed it. So great to avoid having a talk about it where I had to ask him to do it!
Though he never judged me based on this or said that my interest was weird, he admits that this is not his kink but is something he's happy to do because he knows it drives me WILD. He also had a tough time at first understanding that I really wanted and enjoyed being spanked, especially since I'm REALLY small. During a spanking, he still periodically asks if I want him to continue, and my answer is usually "yes."
We only do erotic bare-bottom hand spanking, and I remove all of my own clothing. Now, it's 50/50 whether he'll suggest a spanking or I suggest it. Sometimes I just tell him to spank me. Other times, he'll ask if I want a spanking. He's also getting more comfortable doing different positions (OTK, standing but bent over something, face-down on the bed), adding some bondage into the mix, and playing around with control and dominance (ordering me to get undressed, refusing to take off any of his clothing). He got worried the first time he left lasting marks, but now he just tells me that I'm being marked and offers to stop but is willing to continue when I inevitably tell him to.
Maybe best of all, we now both run to the mirror to look at the glowing shade of red he's turned my ass after a session---and he offers to tend to any spots he may have missed during this examination. During the last session, I even let him take a picture of my burning bottom!!
Ah, it's hard to forget how lucky I am having found him!
Post Number: 1378
|Posted on Friday, June 29, 2007 - 07:01 am: ||
Glad you could join us Anonymouse!
"Do I have to be good ALL the time?"
Post Number: 15
|Posted on Monday, July 02, 2007 - 05:12 pm: ||
Welcome to the Den!!!
Post Number: 677
|Posted on Monday, July 02, 2007 - 06:49 pm: ||
Welcome to the den Anonymouse!!Any chance of seeing that picture??oops!
Post Number: 22
|Posted on Monday, July 02, 2007 - 09:14 pm: ||