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Bendover
New member
Username: Bendover
Post Number: 1
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 10, 2005 - 05:45 pm: | 
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Hi All, I've been lurking and took the plunge. It's good to see all the other spanko's out here - I feel almost normal!
My first experience was as a kid with a younger girl - I know I can't elaborate here. Let's just say it ruined me forever... LOL! As an adult I started to realize that nearly *all* of the women I was intimate with loved being spanked. Do I just attract them? Is there something about me? 
- Ben |
Bethie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Bethie
Post Number: 281
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 10, 2005 - 06:31 pm: |
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Hi, Ben, and welcome! I'm glad you decided to take the plunge and join us here.
Have fun and enjoy! |
Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 771
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 10, 2005 - 07:25 pm: |
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Tell me Ben, just what is it about you that brings out the bad girl in a woman? Maybe you have just the right style. Why don't you join in the fun and see what happens?
"Queen of Innocence"
"oooooo", she says!!
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Bendover
New member
Username: Bendover
Post Number: 3
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Sunday, July 10, 2005 - 11:29 pm: |
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Thanks Bethie and Fanny,
> what is it about you that brings out the bad girl in a woman?
I guess that's the big question. I don't think about it or try, but for some reason I draw them out. I guess it might be the certain smile and comments when a girl does something 'bad'. Or some kind of unspoken thing that can't be described. Or can it?
What brings out the bad girl in you ladies? And what do you see in a man, that makes you think that he might have the right stuff?
- Ben Dover |
Fanny
Advanced Spanko
Username: Fanny
Post Number: 775
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 11, 2005 - 07:55 am: |
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I like a confident man who knows what he likes. I consider myself to be a strong person who enjoys a challenge, so therfore I am attracted to a man who is comfortable with that and willing to stand his ground without trying to be controlling. I like a man who can take charge without getting bossy and pushy. I love that certain smile and I like a man who can flirt back. A certainty without the arrogance.
You said: "some kind of unspoken thing that can't be described. Or can it?" It can, so go ahead.
"Queen of Innocence"
"oooooo", she says!!
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Bendover
New member
Username: Bendover
Post Number: 4
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 11, 2005 - 02:38 pm: |
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Fanny, I think you hit the nail on the head (or the bottom... never mind... Confidence without arrogance, enjoying challenges, flirting. Thanks!
I think non-spankos expect guys like me to be brutish and crude, but to me that just describes a jerk. This is different, very different.
I also think that women who are just compliant pushovers aren't nearly as much fun as the smart sassy ones. A guy who is intimidated by brains and brattiness won't get very far in this game.
Now if only I can find that perfect partner...
- Ben |
Smartnnaughty
Spanko
Username: Smartnnaughty
Post Number: 184
Registered: 05-2005
| | Posted on Monday, July 11, 2005 - 03:22 pm: |
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Hey Ben! I'm officially Smart and Naughty but I am quite Sassy too. I'm known as SNN around the den here.
Wanna go over to the cyber-play area and see what kind of trouble we can stir up? Fanny's room is always a good place to start.
Race ya!
Sassy Sassy Sassy
No one can be as Sassy as me!
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Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 233
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 13, 2005 - 10:06 am: |
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Welcome Ben, glad to meet you. Are you a member of the New Jersey Spankos by any chance?
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Bendover
New member
Username: Bendover
Post Number: 20
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 13, 2005 - 05:29 pm: |
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Hi Wolfie, and no, I'm not a member. I didn't know it existed! But I know now... thanks! |
Wolfie
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Wolfie
Post Number: 234
Registered: 04-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 13, 2005 - 08:01 pm: |
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Good, come and join us. We meet the 1st saturday of the month to have dinner together in NYC, before going over to "Paddles" to play. 
wolfie loves Steve more than anything else in the whole world...even more than chocolate and lobster!
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Sinclair3338
New member
Username: Sinclair3338
Post Number: 1
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 13, 2005 - 08:14 pm: |
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Hi ya'll I have been a spanko since before 6 yrs. old. Less than a year ago married a spankee. All I can say is blissful! |
Bendover
New member
Username: Bendover
Post Number: 29
Registered: 07-2005
| | Posted on Wednesday, July 13, 2005 - 10:32 pm: |
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Hi Sinclair! You beat me by a year or so... lol! Welcome aboard and enjoy the ride. Tell us more about yourself if you would like. |
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