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Tina
New member
Username: Tina

Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 02:59 pm:   Edit Post

This is my first time posting on this type of website. I am new to the whole scene. Over the past week I have finally faced up to something I've known all along but I could never face. I need to be spanked good and hard for my misdeeds. I need frequent correction. This is a very liberating feeling for me to finally face this. Now I just need to find someone to punish me properly. Nice to meet you all.
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 684
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 03:03 pm:   Edit Post

Hi Tina its nice to meet you!! Welcome to the Den!!!


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Blistering_blonde
Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde

Post Number: 219
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 05:30 pm:   Edit Post

Welcome to the den ..a great place to answer all those lil questions.
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah

Post Number: 1099
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 06:39 pm:   Edit Post

Hi Tina! Welcome to the Den!

We are tickled you joined us. Congratulations on admitting to yourself what you want and need.


Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06

Post Number: 2
Registered: 02-2006
Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 07:31 pm:   Edit Post

Welcome
You saidÖ
Now I just need to find someone to punish me properly

How often and how severely?
Have you any fanatsies?
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Tina
New member
Username: Tina

Post Number: 2
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 07:32 pm:   Edit Post

I have a question. I'm into the submission thing mostly because for me it is a sexual turn on. However I am not interested in a whole "lifestyle" where the dominant/submissive thing is going 24/7. I am a strong-willed, independent professional woman, but behind closed doors I am looking for a different situation, namely to be on the receiving end of an authoritarian relationship. Does that make me a fraud because I am basically just playing a game? Or perhaps I am just on one end of the spectrum.
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Blistering_blonde
Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde

Post Number: 220
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 07:45 pm:   Edit Post

nope not a fraud ...realistic .. PS .. move this to disscussion area ...so we can respond on it
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He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 518
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 07:52 pm:   Edit Post

Hi Tina
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06

Post Number: 7
Registered: 02-2006
Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 08:05 pm:   Edit Post

Does that make me a fraud because I am basically just playing a game? Or perhaps I am just on one end of the spectrum.

Definitely not a fraud, each person and relationship is different and in terms of a spectrum there isnít, in my view, and end Ė it is continuous and stretches to infinity. There was another thread about broken skin. Not that isnít my scene but it is for some. And so it goes on.

For me spanking (giving and receiving) is all part of a sexual turn on. That isnít true for everyone on this site.

You say: behind closed doors I am looking for a different situation, namely to be on the receiving end of an authoritarian relationship. My guess is that there are many like you. And for me your description of what you want is a turn-on.

Have fun and donít worry.
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Tina
New member
Username: Tina

Post Number: 3
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 08:29 pm:   Edit Post

Here's another question. I've been doing on-line personal ads for a while now and its time to update my profile to accomodate my new "interest." Is there a code word that is used in the scene to alert others as to what I am looking for? I hate to use the word "submissive", that seems kind of overly blunt. However I must send out some kind of a flag in order to lure in the proper suitor.
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 688
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 08:32 pm:   Edit Post

Good questions...please move them to the discussion area.

Thanks!!
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Ladygator2904
Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904

Post Number: 159
Registered: 03-2006


Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 08:59 pm:   Edit Post

Hi TIna... welcome to the Den. You will enjoy it here :-)
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06

Post Number: 10
Registered: 02-2006
Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 02:04 am:   Edit Post

I think you have to say you are also looking to have sex and/or a relationship (casual or otherwise)....

And then see who responds....
(I would for example but I am a bit far away)
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Subbie
Junior Spanko
Username: Subbie

Post Number: 64
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 02:04 pm:   Edit Post

Hi Tina, everyone is a little different, for me a spanking is a sexual experience and i want to be the sub 24/7 at home, out in the work world i am someone else.

There is no one right path, we each try and find what feels right for ourselves. and there are plenty who like this life style. good luck in finding the right person, and becareful too.
my name says it all
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Tplayer
New member
Username: Tplayer

Post Number: 47
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 07:09 pm:   Edit Post

Welcome Tina. Good luck in your search. There are alot of toads out there!!
It's all a matter of perspective
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Raymond
New member
Username: Raymond

Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 11:23 am:   Edit Post

Hi everyone, this is my first post on any forum outside of photography and an absolute first for expressing out loud my need to be spanked by a beautiful woman who may in turn want a spanking herslf. I am 60 years old probably to old for most of you but I am a descent kind of guy and hurting someone is not in my nature at all. It has to be for the pleasure of it. Maybe someone out there will talk with me about this fantasy that I have.
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah

Post Number: 1115
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 12:17 pm:   Edit Post

Hello Raymond, why don't you start your own new thread here to introduce yourself
Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Weasel
New member
Username: Weasel

Post Number: 5
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 02:28 pm:   Edit Post

Hi Tina. You're not alone. It amazes me how many of us are take-charge no-nonsense alpha's out in the work world but our desires in our private lives is so different.
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Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades

Post Number: 523
Registered: 11-2005


Posted on Saturday, June 17, 2006 - 12:21 am:   Edit Post

Welcome and I can totally relate... in my normal life I take charge of everything and then with Jake I turn into such a little girl... I can't explain it, so why fight it you know? Enjoy your time here and happy spankings!
The Princess of Spanking

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