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Faye
New member
Username: Faye

Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Friday, June 09, 2006 - 11:41 am:   Edit Post

Hello,

I am new here! I am married and I am a bottom, I guess?? I am on the recieving end of the spanking and I love it! We only do spankings before sex and they are OTK and HARD. He "acts" like its a punishment spanking but its really just foreplay lol. I really want to get into a DD lifestyle but one, I don't know how he'll react to actually punishing me for things I do, and two I have a really really hard time with him telling me what to do. I get a serious attitude. I don't know. Well, nice to meet you all!
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Blistering_blonde
Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde

Post Number: 211
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Friday, June 09, 2006 - 12:02 pm:   Edit Post

Welcome to the Den, and never worry ask what ever you want to know ...and there are ALWAYS people here to help you.
If you want to get him reading posts in here that just ..will sing to you and is what you want to happen that may work ..
and about that serious attitude ..well I still get it ..I was just punished for mine ...as I was just straighting up ..attitude popped up again ....hey its something he can help you work through trust me I know

He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Faye
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Username: Faye

Post Number: 2
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Friday, June 09, 2006 - 12:34 pm:   Edit Post

haha, yeah I know. Maybe all I need is a few really good punishment spankings. Well, a while back I had him read a bunch of posts and other DD websites and he seemed interested. He said, it seems like some people want to be spanked for disipline. I asked him how he felt about that and he kinda said he'd rather just stick to it being sexual. I just agreed because i wasn't ready to admit it yet. We've kinda dropped it and have just been doing the erotic thing. Last night I got a good spanking and it was long and hard but it was a foreplay spanking. I am longing for this DD lifestyle and I just don't know how to tell him. So he knows all about it and trust me, he's not afraid of hurting me. I just have to tell him thats what I want and hope he goes along with it. Well, I'm in for another one tonight so maybe afterwards I'll try and tell him. Then maybe we can get a set of rules to follow. I think he'll like that idea Hmmm, maybe this should be on the discussion board?? Thanks for the welcome!
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Tammynx
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 675
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Friday, June 09, 2006 - 12:45 pm:   Edit Post

Hello Faye nice to meet you!!
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Shylah
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Shylah

Post Number: 1092
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Friday, June 09, 2006 - 01:04 pm:   Edit Post

Hi Faye and welcome to the Den!!!


Take my heart and soul. But please don't step on it, it breaks easily.
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Pinkcheeks
Advanced Spanko
Username: Pinkcheeks

Post Number: 515
Registered: 12-2005


Posted on Friday, June 09, 2006 - 01:32 pm:   Edit Post

Welcome Faye!
"Thought I WAS being a good girl...really I did!"
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Blistering_blonde
Spanko
Username: Blistering_blonde

Post Number: 212
Registered: 10-2005
Posted on Friday, June 09, 2006 - 02:29 pm:   Edit Post

oh yeah get him on the board ..and let him see that the want to be punished is NATURAL .
He asked what I needed , timidly gave it at first, now he just knows.
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Subbie
Junior Spanko
Username: Subbie

Post Number: 62
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 06:36 am:   Edit Post

Hi Faye, most of my spankings are erotic and for me that 's ok not into DD but like a extra good one ever once in awhile. nice to see you and hope it works out for you.
my name says it all
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Paddledom
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Username: Paddledom

Post Number: 40
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 10:50 am:   Edit Post

WElcome to the site faye :-)

Happy Spankings
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06

Post Number: 3
Registered: 02-2006
Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 07:33 pm:   Edit Post

Welcome
I like spanking as a prelude to sex but many don’t on this site and elsewhere.
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Ladygator2904
Spanko
Username: Ladygator2904

Post Number: 162
Registered: 03-2006


Posted on Saturday, June 10, 2006 - 09:13 pm:   Edit Post

Hi! Nice to meet you. Hubby and I started DD about 4 months ago. I used to and sometimes still do have an attitude. DD comes in handy with attitudes.. hahahaha..... As how to get started??? Read up on the net, many wonderful sites.
A woman`s heart may be filled with an ocean of secrets but mine have all been released and I have a sore bottom to prove it!
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Nicenick06
New member
Username: Nicenick06

Post Number: 24
Registered: 02-2006
Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 03:23 am:   Edit Post

Some role playing may be good.
Count the number of times you have been bad and the number of strokes for each event/fault in a book and then act out the punishment on Saturday. You can choose the implements….
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Tplayer
New member
Username: Tplayer

Post Number: 48
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Sunday, June 11, 2006 - 07:11 pm:   Edit Post

Welcome!!
It's all a matter of perspective
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Weasel
New member
Username: Weasel

Post Number: 7
Registered: 06-2006
Posted on Monday, June 12, 2006 - 02:34 pm:   Edit Post

Hi Faye. Good luck with getting him to want the whole lifestyle. I imagine for some guys that would seem too much like work, and for other guys they would thrive on all the details. Hope yours is a detail oriented kind of guy!
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Katie_spades
Advanced Spanko
Username: Katie_spades

Post Number: 524
Registered: 11-2005


Posted on Saturday, June 17, 2006 - 12:23 am:   Edit Post

Faye welcome and I can totally understand the situation you are in... before Jake I only associated being spanked with the bedroom but he introduced me to the DD relationship/lifestyle and I was really uncertian as to how I would react etc., but it has only made us closer. Sure, I get nervous when I have a spanking coming because discipline spankings are very harsh and leave me sore, but afterwards he holds me and rubs lotion and just makes everything better. Perhaps you should have him read some posts on here, or you could read them together and see what you both think. Anyway, welcome and happy spankings!
The Princess of Spanking

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