Post Number: 2
|Posted on Monday, September 03, 2012 - 08:08 pm: ||
Me & my hubby have kinda always been in too spanking from day one. We dated since I was 18. I came from a strict Christian home & I do mean strict. Stayed a virgin til married kinda strict. So first time he smacked my bottom, after I made a smart remark to him, much to his suprise it was so well conditioned by experience I just laughed & said "Is that all u got?". Of course he had something to prove then & discipline spankings followed by very hot romance have been a big part of our marriage ever since. First one was on our hunnymoon about day 3 I think. Well, I was pretty much immune to hand spanking so he ended up 1st pulling down the panties I was wearing at the time it happened. (Of course I made it a point to get in trouble when not dressed & goaded him into spanking me. =) After I grinned & shrugged off his hard OTK bare bottom hand spanking, finally he used his belt just to prove he could get an "Ouch!" out of me. The belt was thin, narrow, but least is was real leather, not plastic so it did sting. One day in a gift shop we saw a thin wooden paddle that said "For the cute litte dear with the bare behind". We got it. It didn't sting much. We bought a cedar paddle at Craker Barrel Gift Shop, not bad, turned me on alot, but it did not really challenge my limits. So finally while antique shopping we saw 2 items of interest. An old school paddle, red oak, about 1/2 thick & heavy. It had names written all over where victims had signed it. It was only 20$. He bought it of course. The second item was an old west gun belt. It was kinda in rough condition so we were not sure. Especially at 130$! I had never seen such a tough looking belt before. It was heavy leather & much thicker & wider than normal belts. Had places in it for bullers first 6 inches from the buckle, then just really wide leather surface after that. Its designed not to go in the belt loops (Way to big) but over the outside just like in the movies. It was kinda dried out. Since the gun holster was removable we thought we'd give it a try. Both stung big time in the sample he gave me of each that night! I knew either were in that "Severe" catagory. Only thing I think would be worse was maybe a bullwhip! LOL, (we did look at bullwhips too, but uhmmmm no! Not even going there.) Since the belt was the worst stinger & the paddle more likely to cause bruising in fewer swats, it was decided the belt would be for greatest offenses. He decide to try to restore it. He soaked the belt 3 days in olive oil. Then took it out dried it off & rubbed it down in vasline. He kept it in a sealed container while to preserve moisture in it, then took it out & hung it up to dry the surface out. Much to our suprise the belt had more than doubled it weight & was very flexable, also much darker in color now. It looked so wicked!! Apparently heavy as it was, driness had sapped the weight. This thing was now very intimidating! He gave me a few on the bare to test for improvements. It's ability to wrap around a cheek & leave a blazing welt is un real! I have a very high pain tolerance, but when he tested it I fought tears by 4th one & asked him to stop by 10th. He wasn't going all out just kinda medium hard! I agreed to it being the instrument for only real bad behavior on one condition...that I got a 5 or 10 seconds between lashes to catch my breath. 10 for the first half then it could speed up to 5 for the last half. Since the clock in the bedroom has a second hand, a glance could help roughly gauge this. Well, several weeks went by of very good behavior because I was so scared of that thing. But one day I had a real bad day & broke a major rule. (We have written goals & promises for behavior in our marriage so there is no questioning rules at our house). We were arguing & I called him a S.O.B. I rarely ever cuse. He got quiet. Walked away. I did dishes, etc. Total silence. Finally I came too bed & he was in shower so thought I'd just cover up & be asleep when he got out. I turned the light on to find the gun belt drapped over the head board & 2 pillows in the middle of the bed for positioning. My heart fluddered big time! I was the one who had made the rule no cusing each other ever, so what could I say? It was time to pay up. I know if he cused me I think it would break my heart, so I had it coming. I was both turned on & dreading what was about to happen. Ordinarily, I just provoke him to strip me as part of the game. The dominance is always a turn on. But this seem soooo much more intense. I had planned to apologize in the morning & of course willingly (An gladly =) take my spanking, but I was so nervous about this one & realized it was happening before bed in just few minutes. I went into a mode when I heard the shower cut off about that time. I just started stripping down. Got completely naked fast trying to be ready when he came out. About the time I was getting on the bed he came in. Not yet in position, I turned & looked at him & said "Go ahead, I deserve it". It came out little more than a wisper. He never said a word, just got the belt, but I was relieved to see through the towel it was turning him on, which turned me on of course. I positioned myself over the pillows turn my face down to my left side. Theres a mirror on that wall & another on the other, so in the mirror I literally could watch my own punishment. When the that first one landed it felt like fire had licked my bottom! I could see the dark red welt in the mirror. Per our agreement, he timed it out like we had said. 6 per minute for the first 2 minutes & 12 per minute for the next 2. The 4 longest minutes of my life! Each one was hard I had tears flowing, but gotta say, never been so turned on before! He asked at the end of each minute if I needed to stop. I said no of course. Think having to chicken out of a spanking would be worse than any amount stinging butt. Afterwards we had a really awesome love making like never before! If u find a old leather belt, dont throw it away, soak it in olive oil & get ready for the spanking of a life time! LOL
Post Number: 3
|Posted on Wednesday, September 05, 2012 - 06:39 am: ||
That is a really intense situation. You and your husband must have a lot of trust between you. I am new to being spanked by my wife and while it is a real turnon for me I don't think we would ever take it that far. You are so lucky.
Post Number: 4018
|Posted on Wednesday, September 05, 2012 - 08:23 pm: ||
Please don't compare yourself to anyone, Therder. Everyone has their own levels of pleasure and play. Don't compare your experiences with anyone else; do what works for both you and your partner.
Queen of Innocence
"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
Post Number: 5
|Posted on Wednesday, September 05, 2012 - 09:08 pm: ||
Thank You for the advice Fanny. This is why I joined this discussion board. I don't want to push my wife into doing something she is not comfortable with. We are not prudes but this is new to both of us.
Post Number: 245
|Posted on Friday, September 07, 2012 - 11:27 pm: ||
Yes Therder, I can echo Fanny's comments. I seem to be in the minority when it comes to the spanking community. I just love being spanked for the sake of it. It turns me on and because it's been such a secret and a repressed part of me for so long, I am ecstatic that I can finally share that with my wife. I feel a deeper connection with her when she does it.
We just do what we do and while I can glean some useful info from places like this we just do what keeps us happy.
By the way Cherry, nice account of your spanking escapades!
Post Number: 38
|Posted on Saturday, November 24, 2012 - 02:07 pm: ||
Cherrybottom, very hot! A nice read...I had better step away from the computer.