Post Number: 1
|Posted on Sunday, September 02, 2007 - 10:51 pm: ||
You know how it is, those of you who are the one who finds themselves over someone lap, bottom bared, waiting for the hand to fall.......you remember, before you had your first spanking,.....looking for any mention of it in books,( never enough! )and when you saw a spanking on film or TV, oh my goodness, you would try not to seem tooo interested.......and good old PH magazine...several times a year there would be a
story about spanking.....(I remember going through stacks of that mag, looking for those stories, surrupticiously ripping them out and folding them up and sticking them in the zippered compartment of my purse,.....I would have died of embarrassment should any of my friends found one of those!)
I tried to get my significant others to spank me without really saying "spank me" casually positioning myself across their legs...reaching for something on the floor and wiggling my fanny.......dunderheads.....I even tried writing a note with one guy, who ignored it.
well the years were going by....I was still wanting to be spanked..... and then....yeah! the internet!!!!!! I wasn't the only one, Oh boy, oh boy,oh boy!!!! first I found those pay sites that you can see...what 10 seconds of a spanking, (after it takes 45 seconds to load)and then......I found sites like this...oh yes lots and lots of stories and discussions and I was in heaven. I love to read... and this was reading at it's best as far as I was concerned..........
However, reading is not quite the same as actually being spanked.....so I started looking on the amazing cl...and there were guys there who were advertizing for women to spank....I would read the and answered a few and because my life was in such turmoil at the time, nothing really came of it.......
................Until recently..........I found myself in such a ridiculous bind, that I decided to offer to exchange room and board and gas for the car so that I could look for a job, and for that I would cook and clean and whoever took me in could also spank me every night...........
Now I know this might not have been the safest thing in the world for me to do, but folks I was truely deeply desperate. so I figured that I might as well try for that cause I really really wanted a spanking...and well it seemed like a good idea at the time.....
well, I haven't really clicked with anyone yet, though there were several offers, but I did finally get spanked....
The first guy told me that he was an experienced spanker, being a truthful person, I always assume that the other person is telling the truth also.....he wrote of "warm ups" and promised to use his hand only.....Oh he did, alright......and left bruises that have taken well over a week to heal......but I really liked it, a lot.....he started over my skirt and then lifted that and spanked me over my panties and then bared my bottom and I finally knew what it was like to have a man's hand spanking my bare fanny........and all I can say is .......give me more please......
so this is the start of my actual real life with spanking.. after years of wanting one, I am glad to find out that I really like them. Just gotta find the right spanker for me.
I have enjoyed all of the stories, ficton, true life and discussions I have read here and other places, and now I feel I have something to talk about too! at last......}
Post Number: 300
|Posted on Monday, September 03, 2007 - 02:02 pm: ||
all I can say is been there! thanks for sharing you story. I remember how nice it was for me to finally find someone to redden my naughty behind. good luck to you and your search.
Naughty little soldiers are always caught shaking in their combat boots.
Post Number: 1678
|Posted on Monday, September 17, 2007 - 12:09 pm: ||
Valleygal, I'm very concerned about how you're looking for a spanking situation. To be perfectly honest, I think exchanging spankings for room and board is a horrible idea. I'm sorry, but it sounds dangerous, demoralizing, and unwise to put yourself in the hands of a stranger who has you in a position of power over you. Too many things can go wrong with this situation. It makes for a nice fantasy, I'm sure, but in reality, I'm scared the outcome will only hurt you.
You're a newbie to this lifestyle, please be cautious! I suggest trying to find another way to solve your housing problem. I know your desire for spanking is strong, but I'm afraid you're going to put yourself in the hands of the wrong person.
Post Number: 22
|Posted on Monday, September 17, 2007 - 07:03 pm: ||
Valleygirl, I cant but help empathise with your situation, but at the same time would urge you to heed what Bethie has to say - I would add "dont sell your soul to the devil for your well being or your fantasy" Whatever your situation in life please remember you are the first one that counts and that must count a whole heap!
Post Number: 555
|Posted on Monday, September 17, 2007 - 08:32 pm: ||
Hmm... you know I read your post valleygirl, and my first thought was "Wow! What an awesome idea!" And it is a great fantasy setting, I will admit. So much so, that when I read Bethie's post I had to go back and reread what you had written.
But yeah, they are right. You are placing a whole lot of faith in this person you don't know. It would be one thing if you already knew and trusted this person. But you don't. And you are giving them a WHOLE lot of power over you. Which could be dangerous. And dis-satisfying too...
Post Number: 1
|Posted on Tuesday, October 02, 2007 - 08:07 pm: ||
hello all i am new to this sight and but not to the spanking world. my problem is finding sights were you can really meet people our selfs. well i just wanted to say hello, and to thank valleygirl for her story. Sir Lance
Post Number: 26
|Posted on Friday, October 05, 2007 - 11:12 am: ||
I have to put my two cents in here as well, Valleygirl the world is full of people who will not only take advantage of you but possible do grave harm. Please read all the advice given here. I know it is often hard to hear things we may not agree with, but please view this in the spirit we are all giving it. To me it sounds like you are setting yourself up to become a slave. Which if you go into it with your eyes open would be no problem. Have you even made provisions incase the place does not work where would you go, who will you call to help you. Good luck and be patient the right spanker is out there for you.
Post Number: 824
|Posted on Friday, October 05, 2007 - 10:36 pm: ||
Hey valleygal long time no see.Hope everythings going good for you.
Post Number: 37
|Posted on Saturday, October 20, 2007 - 05:14 pm: ||
HI Buena, I know I have been gnashing my teeth in frustration,.....my laptop was stolen and I was resorting to the use of the library computers and that cute little picture and the big giant words and blue stripe well, I didn't want just anyone to waltz behind me and see that......I am much too shy and modest to be "outed at the library!!!
thanks for your thought and I am just peachy, especially with this new baby to play with.....
how's by you?????
what a long strange trip it's been