Post Number: 55
|Posted on Thursday, January 13, 2011 - 01:33 am: ||
Tonight I'm feeling very angry, stressed out and vengeful!
I need to be tied to a tree/cross/ whipping post and thrashed thoroughly!I want to scream, cry and fight til I am worn out-trouble is my Hubby is out of town-even if he were home we have two teens here and no where for me to vent-so folks forgive me but I'm venting in here!
last week my stepsister (who I have never been able to get along with)contacted me to tell me that my father is extremely ill with his second round of cancer but to also tell me that I am not welcome to visit him this spring(given that he is still living). I have never done or said anything to cause the animosity between her mother and myself other than exsisting. Dad and I have been estranged for at least 15 years because his wife will not permit me to see him and to keep the peace we have gone along with it. Now I'd like to see him at least one time before he dies but I'm being told not to Phone or visit by this upstart who has had MY Father's attention for years. I'm so angry I could not possibly be in the same room with the pair of them without causing a scene so I'm going to hold off till later in the spring and just show up on their doorstep-hopefully he wiill be alive and I won't feel so hurt-If I have to go to his funeral then god help them!
Post Number: 56
|Posted on Thursday, January 13, 2011 - 01:36 am: ||
I'm sorry I may have picked an inappropriate topic for this area if so Admins please forgive me-I'm just really hurting right now and Not making good choices.
Post Number: 2084
|Posted on Thursday, January 13, 2011 - 02:58 am: ||
Not to worry, I've moved this thread to a more appropriate place. Vent all you want, that's part of being among friends here.
It sounds like a horrible situation and I wish I could offer more than my sympathy. I'm sorry you're going through this and I really hope you get to see your dad.
Post Number: 58
|Posted on Thursday, January 13, 2011 - 02:51 pm: ||
That's awful Rosycheeks, just awful. To be prevented from seeing a beloved family member by someone who is not related is very serious. I wonder how it got like that? I can only offer my condolences and that if it were me I wouuld feel like causing a scene but would probably regret it later, sigh....
I hope it works out for you Rostcheeks, really I do.
Post Number: 1
|Posted on Friday, January 14, 2011 - 10:02 pm: ||
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