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Username: Ladykayra

Post Number: 17
Registered: 03-2008
Posted on Sunday, August 10, 2008 - 07:41 pm:   Edit Post

As most know, Hubby and I were into M/s at one time, due to personal issues this was stopped on my part.

In the last few weeks he has been really checking into DD relationships, Which I have no issues with. I tried to get him into it once before but without getting into why, it simply didnt work out.

Anyways, as I was saying hubby has been checking into DD sites and info. He found a site punishmenttree and said he thought I would like it which I do, well this morning I woke him and asked him to spank me which he had no problems with.. Was wonderful! Only thing him and I regret, is we didnt take pictures, and my bottom loses color quickly. It was a bit sore for a while today, but now I cant even tell I was spank, and caned for that matter.

Well I later found a site where you can get free spanking video's.. If I am allowed I will post the link. Just point me to where it goes.

Well hubby and I got to talking, and we talked about starting a DD relationship. Which then lead to a contract *again long story* This contract is actually really good, and thought I would offer it here if allowed to. It starts out with two weeks, then a month, then either two months or four after that. This allows us to decide if things are working, and how and what needs to be added or reworded.

So a few things, Did anyone work into a DD relationship and if so, what were the ground rules? Two may I post the contract up here? And three, what about the link for the spanking video's?

Thanks all

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Username: Bethie

Post Number: 1881
Registered: 04-2005

Posted on Thursday, August 14, 2008 - 03:49 am:   Edit Post

About DD; mine and Dan's relationship is more about erotic spankings so I can't really speak to the DD aspect. It's hard to explain as we have some of the aspects of a DD relationship, but it's not the main focus so the discipline isn't that structured.

About the contract, I have no problem with that as long as there aren't any links included and you understand that it's open to constructive discussion.

Video link; I'm sorry but no. If someone is curious they can ask but I don't like to have outgoing links to sites like that posted on the forum. If I let one go by, the next thing you know, I'll be bombarded by people wanting to post their favorite link or their own links. I don't have time to sort through them so we stick with our policy of no links.

Thanks for asking!

Btw, did you mean to post this in the Everyday Area? It might do better in the Spanking Discussions area. Now that your questions here are answered, you might start another thread about your DD interest.

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