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Chuck
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Username: Chuck

Post Number: 40
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Monday, November 15, 2010 - 08:28 am:   Edit Post

Do any of out kind readers accept punishments other than spanking. By this I mean corner time, adult time out, being sent to your room, grounding, lines or other forms of submission or discipline.

Is non spanking punishment part of your standard relationship or reserved for special events.

How do you feel and what do you think about when serving your time or completing your assignment.
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Imabadgirl
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Username: Imabadgirl

Post Number: 16
Registered: 11-2010
Posted on Monday, November 15, 2010 - 11:39 pm:   Edit Post

Yes I do accept non spanking punishments. I've been given corner time in whatever room I happen to be in at the time and I have also been given a time out in the bedroom as punishment. Not at the same time, though. It's one or the other. This is for small infractions like being a few minutes late or a slightly snarky remark. Sometimes I have a "punishment day" where I accept various non spanking forms of discipline like limited use of my cell phone and internet usage as well as chores to complete around the house throughout the day and there are certain things I have to submit to if told to do so. Although there are various outfits he will have me wear when I'm being disciplined at times other than "punishment day", I have one that he has designated as the "punishment outfit" and that one is always worn on "punishment day". That's not to say I don't get spanked on "punishment day", but it's dominated by non spanking forms of discipline.

Regardless of whether it's a short-term non spanking punishment or one of the many non spanking forms I accept as part of "punishment day", I feel a couple of different things. First I feel embarrassed about my actions that earned me the punishment to begin with. I also feel remorseful for having disappointed him the way I have. Now this part may sound weird to you, but there's also a part of me that feels very relieved. In a strange way, for me being disciplined is quite cathartic.

One last thing, I'd like to make it clear that when I say I'm being disciplined and submitting to various punishments or other requests that it is 100% consensual and he has never truly made me submit to something against my will through guilt or physical force.
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Subbie
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Username: Subbie

Post Number: 367
Registered: 05-2006
Posted on Wednesday, November 17, 2010 - 07:50 pm:   Edit Post

Spanking is center stage, corner time can come after the spanking, but never on it's own.
my name says it all
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Jeannie
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Username: Jeannie

Post Number: 7
Registered: 10-2010
Posted on Thursday, December 16, 2010 - 01:32 pm:   Edit Post

My only punishment is spanking !
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Bethie
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Username: Bethie

Post Number: 2081
Registered: 04-2005


Posted on Thursday, December 16, 2010 - 11:56 pm:   Edit Post

*sigh* The topic is non-spanking punishments. Please only comment if you can add to the discussion in a constructive way.
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Jeannie
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Username: Jeannie

Post Number: 8
Registered: 10-2010
Posted on Saturday, December 18, 2010 - 01:16 am:   Edit Post

I'm sorry the first line in the first post by Chuck is a question .....

"Do any of out kind readers accept punishments other than spanking"

If I am out of place for answering that question or I am off topic my apologies, I thought I was answering the question, and because I do not accept other punishments, that was all I have to say on the topic. It's all about the spanking for me.
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Admin
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Username: Admin

Post Number: 160
Registered: 03-2005


Posted on Saturday, December 18, 2010 - 04:11 pm:   Edit Post

Chuck is looking for input from people who engage in non-spanking punishments which is why he started his post with that question. It's an opening which invites people who engage in that activity to join in the conversation. By only answering in the negative to the first question and ignoring the meat of the topic, you didn't join in the discussion which is about your experiences with non-spanking punishments. You completely ignored the main topic of discussion. The thread is titled "Punishments other than Spanking" so please stick to that topic.

When people who don't have experience in an activity that is being discussed come in and just say that they don't engage in that activity then leave it at that, it doesn't add to the conversation. In fact, it can be seen as a negative response and can kill the conversation completely. All I'm asking is that you discuss the topic at hand. He wasn't taking a poll, he was asking for feedback.

Bethie
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Jeannie
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Username: Jeannie

Post Number: 9
Registered: 10-2010
Posted on Sunday, December 19, 2010 - 03:02 am:   Edit Post

My bad, I read it as he was interested in an overall opinion, poll sort of, if any of us accepted non-spanking punishments. I responded because the only way he would know, or get an idea if people do or don't accept non-spanking punishments is if those of us that don't let him know that we were here, read the post and told him that we don't.

Otherwise, people reading the thread would only see affirmative responses and might possibly get the impression that everyone that gets spanked also accepts non-spanking discipline also.

Once again my apologies, I misunderstood the initial question in his post asking if any of us do accept non-spanking punishment.

All that being said, if I am lucky the BF will see all this and decide his belt needs to be applied to my bare bottom, for all the confusion I have caused here.
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Chuck
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Username: Chuck

Post Number: 43
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Sunday, December 19, 2010 - 11:35 am:   Edit Post

Hay guys

Just trying to generate a little banter about life styles and what works for you and doesn't work. I was most interested in how the ladies felt about their non spanking punishments. What goes through your mind when your nose is on the wall or you are sitting alone in time out.
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Jeannie
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Username: Jeannie

Post Number: 10
Registered: 10-2010
Posted on Monday, December 20, 2010 - 04:02 am:   Edit Post

Hey Chuck,

I get it now, I have been with guys in the past, ya know, had to kiss a few frogs before I found my Prince & DOM.

So I am saying I tried other forms of discipline. For me, and this is just my humble opinion, those other forms of discipline just didn't do it for me, was kind of too impersonal & let me say just as a good hard bare bottom spanking with his belt works wonders for me. There are people, including some of my/our friends think I am insane for allowing him to whip me. So just because it doesn't float my boat doesn't mean that it isn't fantastic for someone else.

A DOM, over my clearly stated objections, one time ordered me to stand in the corner. I did as I was told, stood there, completely bare, looking at the stupid wall, listening to him in the other room watching an Eagles game on TV, thinking WTF am I doing, standing here wasting my time. It eventually caused me to resent him as I felt standing in the corner was a way of him dismissing me, not part of a a loving caring physical relationship. I stayed there as I was told because I truly love being totally submissive to the guy I am with but, for me all it did is annoyed me to point ending that relationship.
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Spankeegirl
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Username: Spankeegirl

Post Number: 3
Registered: 02-2011
Posted on Wednesday, February 02, 2011 - 07:41 pm:   Edit Post

I get corner time, mouth washed out with soap, a sandpapered butt, and grounding. I'm sitting on a well spanked and sandpapered butt as we speak!
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Myrnajocel
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Username: Myrnajocel

Post Number: 1
Registered: 06-2011
Posted on Wednesday, June 15, 2011 - 11:40 am:   Edit Post

Post edited by Admin due to content violation. This is an adult content only site. Read the Site Protocols thread in the Site Information area before posting.
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Bratattitude
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Username: Bratattitude

Post Number: 137
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Sunday, June 19, 2011 - 02:37 pm:   Edit Post

Oh my I cannot tell u how familiar I am with the corners in both my bedroom and our office. :-( I have also had to write lines as punishment. (that sucked). I have had my mouth washed with soap, have had ginger used on me and lost privileges like my laptop and credit cards.
I am proud to report that as of late I have stayed out of trouble and the spankings I have gotten have been for pleasure. So I guess the other stuff DID work. Ha ha ha (please Lord, do not let him see I admitted that!) Ha ha ha
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Batfinch
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Username: Batfinch

Post Number: 29
Registered: 04-2006


Posted on Monday, June 20, 2011 - 09:41 am:   Edit Post

One that I have tried is asking permission day.

Asking permission to get up to get dressed to eat a meal to go out to go to the toilet if she does something without permission she is punished.

Its a case of if you misbehave you have to learn not to and the best way is to ask before doing anything
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Malcroft
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Username: Malcroft

Post Number: 6
Registered: 06-2011
Posted on Monday, June 20, 2011 - 06:11 pm:   Edit Post

When you say 'punishment other than spanking' I presume you mean spanking other than on the bottom. If so, then I qualify to answer in that My wife canes me on my hands if she so desires, and please believe me, the sting lasts for hours !!!
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Tess
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Username: Tess

Post Number: 4
Registered: 07-2011
Posted on Thursday, July 14, 2011 - 04:35 pm:   Edit Post

If i happen to lose my temper i usually end up washing the floor emm with no clothes on.I find it a bit humiliating and pref are a good spanking any time.
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 89
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Wednesday, July 20, 2011 - 03:39 pm:   Edit Post

Isn't that how everybody washes the floor?
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Tess
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Username: Tess

Post Number: 20
Registered: 07-2011
Posted on Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 05:09 am:   Edit Post

Yeah sure with their breasts hanging down and flying everywhere ,not to mention the exposed bottom and all that can be viewed when one is on there hands and knees, pretty much like Cinderella.
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 91
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 11:40 am:   Edit Post

I didn't realize Cinderella was naked, but I haven't seen the Disney film in some time. Man, I'm gonna go rent it right now!!!!

Incredible Tasteless Joke:
What did the dwarfs say when Snow White woke up?
"(High voice) Oh well........guess it's back to jerking off for us."
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Tess
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Username: Tess

Post Number: 23
Registered: 07-2011
Posted on Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 02:52 pm:   Edit Post

silly its the way she scrubbed the floor but i guess you already know that
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 93
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Thursday, July 21, 2011 - 03:56 pm:   Edit Post

Cleanliness is next to godliness. One could easily envision a SM version of Cinderella where the Ugly Stepsisters are all dommes, and Cinderella has to do all the chores totally naked except for a butt plug and nipple clamps. I bet it has already been done. At least there must be a smutty paperback novel out there that has this scenario. Of course, she ends up marrying Prince Charming.....and the story ends up with HIM scrubbing the floor buck nekkid except for a butt plug and nipple clamps.
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Tess
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Username: Tess

Post Number: 25
Registered: 07-2011
Posted on Friday, July 22, 2011 - 07:09 am:   Edit Post

Well you can always write the book yourself
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 95
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Friday, July 22, 2011 - 08:05 am:   Edit Post

Maybe I will! It's not a bad idea. May I use you, dear Tess, as the model for Cinderella? You seem to be of the correct disposition, and I'm sure you are beautiful.
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Tess
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Username: Tess

Post Number: 26
Registered: 07-2011
Posted on Friday, July 22, 2011 - 09:08 am:   Edit Post

Do forgive my vanity but yes i am and it would be nice to meet prince charming and live happily (with lots of spanking)ever after.
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Fred2010
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Username: Fred2010

Post Number: 56
Registered: 06-2010
Posted on Friday, July 22, 2011 - 01:06 pm:   Edit Post

Nipple clamps, eh? Have we talked about them? Any one with experience? Do the nipples get less sensitive with use?
We find that ypou just can't leave them on for any length of time.
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Tess
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Username: Tess

Post Number: 28
Registered: 07-2011
Posted on Friday, July 22, 2011 - 04:10 pm:   Edit Post

Don't know the only nipple clamps i'm familiar with are cloth pegs and bull dog clips which both hurt like hell!
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 96
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Saturday, July 23, 2011 - 09:02 am:   Edit Post

BULLDOG CLIPS?!? ON THE NIPPLES?!! Man, that's harsh. How about some nice chihauhua clips on the nipples, Tess?





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Tess
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Username: Tess

Post Number: 30
Registered: 07-2011
Posted on Saturday, July 23, 2011 - 10:07 am:   Edit Post

my husband never bought any thing he use what he finds around the house.
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 97
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Saturday, July 23, 2011 - 10:19 am:   Edit Post

Toilet plungers have their non-plumbing uses, I should imagine.
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Tess
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Username: Tess

Post Number: 31
Registered: 07-2011
Posted on Saturday, July 23, 2011 - 11:28 am:   Edit Post

lol
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Fanny
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Username: Fanny

Post Number: 3725
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Saturday, July 23, 2011 - 04:06 pm:   Edit Post

I am also used to non spanking discipline, as my husband travels. I have had privileges taken away, sent to bed early, forced to write, figged, and been told to not wear panties for the day while wearing a short dress. The list goes on, I hate it all, but it works.
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"
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Tess
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Username: Tess

Post Number: 33
Registered: 07-2011
Posted on Sunday, July 24, 2011 - 11:05 am:   Edit Post

I don't think this kind of discipline would work for me.I really need to be on boiling point to accept them and my husband knows that!
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Countryspanker
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Username: Countryspanker

Post Number: 3
Registered: 01-2012
Posted on Monday, January 02, 2012 - 02:21 am:   Edit Post

I like to send Mrs CS to the corner after spanking so she can contemplate. We have also had a day of asking for everything and getting a swipe when she forgets. She also has a notepad in her handbag to write down infractions while we are out.
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Buttpain
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Username: Buttpain

Post Number: 4
Registered: 05-2012
Posted on Monday, May 14, 2012 - 04:11 pm:   Edit Post

I like too give hand strappings for offenses involving the hand. I also give then when planning a butt strapping. I may do them before as a foretaste or after as a post-script to a hard butt strapping. They are also good as penalty strokes if the spankee has numbed out.
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Ispanx
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Username: Ispanx

Post Number: 13
Registered: 09-2012
Posted on Tuesday, September 25, 2012 - 01:20 pm:   Edit Post

MOST women like their feet and tummies tickled lightly, with the tummies done with a slightly more sexual touch. I do this for the ladies just for fun, just holding them in place with my hands. they admit they like it.

But if they need a liitle more "punishment" after a little spankee, I'll put some real tickle torture on the soles of their feet. I use a little bondage tape on the ankles. this way I can keep the feet in place while I tickle with both hands.

I like the colored tape I buy on the web. It is more expensive but heavier, and easier to use than the cheaper black kind. And more re-usable

Also, I like to use the pink -- a nice soft color for women -- since I don't want the ladies to feel like I am a BDS&M type. I'm NOT. Pink is also a good color for the cuckhold husband who gets out of hand. Being bound with pink tape has a good psychological effect on most men.

Anyway, bondage tape (if you are not familiar) only sticks to itself, so it doesn't pull out any hairs, or cause discomfort to the sub. It can be put on the sub loosely so as to avoid cutting off the circulation and resulting in numbness to those tender feet.. I want my sub's full attention on my work, and no disctacting discomfort at all. Also, they can stuggle all they want, but no ugly marks, buises or rope burns left on their pretty bodies.

It comes right off when I am done with the sub. Also goes right on em. So you can have em in place before they know it. No time lost fooling around with straps, buckles, velcro, ropes and mess like that.

I pre-cut 4 foot, 3 foot, and 6 foot sections and finish off the ends with color coded duct tape --- a different color for each length. The duct tape also makes the lengths easier to seperate, so I can grab just the one I'm looking for automatically. I carry a set folded in my pocket at all times --- just in case.

Anyway, I will have my necessary lengths ready (but out of her sight). Then with her still across my lap, I grab both her ankles, and have the tape on her in a second tops. I am already sitting on a bed or couch, so I can easily position her to the bad/couch from there. A smaller man could have her already face down on the bed. If she's the rowdy type just pull her wrists behind her back, and wrap the them. The second it's on, it's too late for her to reissit.
DON'T WRAP THE WRISTS OF AN OVERWEIGHT WOMAN BEHIND HER BACK. DON'T EVEN DO THIS AT ALL TO A WOMAN UNLESS YOU KNOW SHE IS IN GOOD HEALTH.

If she's smaller or tamer, I'll just smack her bottom if she gives me any trouble.

If I want to, I'll double over a piece of the tape, wrap her big toes and secure them to the bed frame with her ankles on the edge of the bed. that way she can't wriggle or curl up her feet to resist me.

Secret to tickling feet: tickle with the finger tips lightly(mainly the index and middle finger, but mix it up a bit). Be sure you're tickling and NOT scratching. BE VERY CAREFUL because sometimes when a sub sounds and looks like they are laughing when they actualy can't catch their breath and are gasping for air. IF THEY CAN'T BREATHE THEY ARE NOT HAVING FUN. If they can talk and apper to be laughing and wriggling their free toes, they're ok. Stop tickling after few minutes. If they really hate it, they will tell you so in a serious voice. So, let 'um go. If they like it, they will kind of purr and
lay back, like they secretly hoping for more.

If they do like it, keep on -- just make sure they don't lose their breath. Tickle the same area till it doesn't tickle anymore, then move to a new spot. Or move the fingers around very unpredictably.

If the woamn suddenly gets a scared look on her face, it mean she is about to lose bladder control. You can decide what to do from there. Let your concise be your guide.hehe.
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Jena
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Username: Jena

Post Number: 36
Registered: 06-2011
Posted on Saturday, November 24, 2012 - 01:19 pm:   Edit Post

Other punishments...yes. She has made me memorise poetry, go without ummm pleasure for a week (horrible). She is threatening soap. Usually a threat is enough!
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Submale10
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Username: Submale10

Post Number: 2
Registered: 12-2012
Posted on Monday, December 10, 2012 - 05:36 am:   Edit Post

Yes. There are many punishments worse than a spanking in my opinion. If I could choose I would ALWAYS take the spanking! Humiliation is my biggest fear and she knows it.
The Question I'm asked most often is 50 licks or five minutes.
I ALWAYS choose fifty licks, of course she occasionally chooses 5 minutes. Five minutes of the "strap-on" are always worse and if I'm not careful I end up getting both.
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Fanny
Moderator/Spanking Aficionado
Username: Fanny

Post Number: 4036
Registered: 05-2005


Posted on Monday, December 10, 2012 - 06:23 pm:   Edit Post

submale, one question. The Den only allows consentual activity, so my question is are you consenting to both forms of "punishment"?
Queen of Innocence

"Well behaved woman rarely make history"

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