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Rudeaberry
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Username: Rudeaberry

Post Number: 2
Registered: 01-2011
Posted on Wednesday, January 19, 2011 - 04:02 pm:   Edit Post

Lowering a lady's panties is a key event in any spanking. But when the moment arrives, who should perform the unveiling?

First thoughts might be that the spanker is the obvious candidate. Especially in a M/F scenario, the element of control and domination is emphasized when he bares her bottom.

However, if a sense of shame and humiliation is part of the role-play, it can be useful to require the lady to lower her knickers. Her bottom may already be smarting from strokes inflicted to date, in which case the indignity of peeling off her panties will merely add to her distress.

I have an open mind on this question. What do other people think?
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Chuck
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Username: Chuck

Post Number: 51
Registered: 07-2005
Posted on Tuesday, March 29, 2011 - 10:36 am:   Edit Post

Mood and just what feels right. I have with great success…

Sent her to the bedroom to wait for me sitting on the bed fully clothed.

Sent her to the bedroom with orders to take her pants and panties down and wait for me.

I like to have her stand between my knees as I sit in my chair and I undo her pants and take them down. Her panties may or may not be removed now.

OTK with half the spanking finished I lower panties and finish the spanking.

It all works.
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Jeannie
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Username: Jeannie

Post Number: 16
Registered: 10-2010
Posted on Wednesday, March 30, 2011 - 06:34 pm:   Edit Post

At my house, I always have to go to our bedroom and remove all clothing and retrieve the belt and then go to the basement family room and wait there anticipating my discipline !

That's what works at my house, but to each their own !
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Disciplinedwife
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Username: Disciplinedwife

Post Number: 11
Registered: 08-2009
Posted on Tuesday, April 05, 2011 - 01:58 am:   Edit Post

My husband as always believed that it is his job to take my panties down prior to spanking me, but it is my job to pull them up after, but of course not until I am instructed to do so
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Fred2010
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Username: Fred2010

Post Number: 49
Registered: 06-2010
Posted on Wednesday, April 06, 2011 - 07:39 pm:   Edit Post

If the spanking is with a strap or a crop, we prefer the panties to be left on so as to not be disturbed by the changing colour.
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Tammynx
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Username: Tammynx

Post Number: 2791
Registered: 10-2005


Posted on Saturday, April 09, 2011 - 12:28 pm:   Edit Post

My husband always pulls my panties down. He has only told me to do it once. Actually it added a kind of thrill/excitement when he told me to do it.
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Burning_bottom
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Username: Burning_bottom

Post Number: 3
Registered: 04-2011
Posted on Wednesday, April 27, 2011 - 06:53 pm:   Edit Post

re pulling down panties I ask her to do it.when i give hairbrush spanking if she says no i threaten her with the cane! she pulls down her panties!! lesson learned I think!!!!
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Mbottom
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Username: Mbottom

Post Number: 2
Registered: 04-2011
Posted on Thursday, April 28, 2011 - 04:20 pm:   Edit Post

I like it either way!! When he makes me do it, it definitely adds to the humiliation element. :-)
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Mbottom
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Username: Mbottom

Post Number: 3
Registered: 04-2011
Posted on Thursday, April 28, 2011 - 04:22 pm:   Edit Post

I like it either way. But when he makes me do it, it definitely adds to the humiliation element!! :-)
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Zippo
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Username: Zippo

Post Number: 1757
Registered: 09-2005


Posted on Thursday, April 28, 2011 - 07:38 pm:   Edit Post

It varies for me on the spankee, and the reason the spanking is being administered. To me the mechanics (or actual spanking) is just part of the scene, equally important is the spankees headspace. Which has a better effect, by her removing her panties, is it signaling acceptance to what awaits her, or by me doing the unveiling does it give her more of the impression of relinquishing control? By default, to me the spanking is going to be bare bottom, the question is what is going to make her feel more contrite, humble, embarassed, submissive.
The Brat Tamer...changing brats attitudes one smack at a time
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Burning_bottom
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Username: Burning_bottom

Post Number: 4
Registered: 04-2011
Posted on Friday, April 29, 2011 - 03:44 am:   Edit Post

no point in spanking if not on the bare!!!!
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Warmpalm
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Username: Warmpalm

Post Number: 7
Registered: 05-2011
Posted on Tuesday, May 10, 2011 - 03:23 pm:   Edit Post

I start on the panties. It's sexy to do it in stages, but it also provides some advance protection, so the bottom is somewhat more ready for the main, bare-bottom, course.

Pantyhose can be problematic, though.
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Ispanx
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Username: Ispanx

Post Number: 24
Registered: 09-2012
Posted on Tuesday, May 21, 2013 - 12:15 am:   Edit Post

I may or may not undress the lady completely -- but at least pull the panties down, and do it BEFORE I get to work.

The lady can dress herself, so she pull up the panties if allowed to have them back. But I don't necessarily give the panties back.

I like to keep 'um guessing.

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